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why u sound like a kid who hates having to read in class so shouts this out as the teachers reading
damn OP
Looks like you might be experiencing what is called "oneitis". I've suffered from similar mental delusions in the past as well.
This woman is one of many. Don't lose faith that you can find someone new. When she returns, you and her can try to spark something up if you're both still single but I would not recommend waiting for someone who's gonna be living in Finland and has the schedule of a full time athlete. my advice is to not rush into something new to pretend that you've moved on but try to stop thinking of her so much.
I truly feel for you but its no use kicking yourself over a bag you fumbled. at least you have a sliver of a chance. The chick I had a similar situation w/ in HS got engaged last year & when I saw it on Instagram that s*** made me sick.
Don't be like me
you can be sad for some time but remember that your life means more than romance

don't follow her on any socials tbh
Thats funny because im currently in finland rn and i met this soccer chick and her friends they were all pointing at their phones laughing at something.
Site bitter and miserable dawg u not wrong for feeling how you felt let alone sharing it
what the other roomie like
You’re dumb as s***
Says the guy with blue balls creating a thread of a girl you didn't smash, get some help
Says the guy with blue balls creating a thread of a girl you didn't smash, get some help
The way that you make everything about s***shows how stupid you are bro. Youd probably commit sexual assault because your bottom line revolves around smashing
Get help
Honestly b you in a pretty good situation. Just keep in contact with her, be her friend, and give her support. It'll go a long way. It's not like y'all ended negatively or anything. S***, by the sound of it, it doesn't even seem like y'all's connection ended. Like I said, good place to be in. Unfortunate how quickly things changed up on you, but I think this might be good for you.
You said don't know what you'll do after the program ends or where you'll be. Focus on the internship and try to find a solid job when the program ends. You wanna do this for yourself, but you also wanna give her something cool to come back to the states to you feel me? She's playing professionally in Finland sure, but that doesn't mean she's gonna completely throwaway the things she left back in the US.
Just keep your head up, focus on the internship, hit her up and be her friend. I'm sure y'all will figure it all out.
Appreciate you bro
she cant cheat if they weren't together
…….y’all need to understand context.
I moved to a new place with relatively few connections. Many of the ppl I was connected and comfortable with are in different locations and on different paths.
Having her step into my life relieved a lot of those feelings of loneliness. Even if all she saw me was as a friend, she still made a positive impact on my life. And now she’s gone it leaves a bit of a void for me.
It’s more about that than dating and smashing.
No disrespect, but like how old are you?
This sounds like its you 1st heartbreak
Trust me you'll eventually move on but don't spend days & nights like "Ooooh i mss her"
Priority in life should always be you, so focus on school/work etc..
and if it's meant to be it will be
No disrespect, but like how old are you?
This sounds like its you 1st heartbreak
Trust me you'll eventually move on but don't spend days & nights like "Ooooh i mss her"
Priority in life should always be you, so focus on school/work etc..
and if it's meant to be it will be
It’s not my first heartbreak. She was just someone who came into my life when I have been feeling pretty alone and disconnected.
I found a lot of my comfort and identity in my circles in my hometown. And moving to a new place was an adjustment.
Most of the ppl I initially met here were the abolute worst. D*** addicted pieces of s*** roommates. The dude next door to me was a total piece of s*** woman beater
Other friends I had around here I’m cool with but I couldn’t just hit them up to kick it and watch the game with.
So I joined this program and it was like damn, this is a functional healthy human being who I gravitate towards and feel comfortable with. I definitely had a crush, but it was just nice to find good energy and a connection even just as friends.
So it’s just more about my life situation than anything.
The way that you make everything about s***shows how stupid you are bro. Youd probably commit sexual assault because your bottom line revolves around smashing
Get help
Don't come crying back to ktt when your girl smashes the whole men pro team
Don't come crying back to ktt when your girl smashes the whole men pro team
Okay rapist
why u sound like a kid who hates having to read in class so shouts this out as the teachers reading
op signed back on with an alt to make this comment
Damn, OP poured his heart out to her and she led him on to make him wait back home sad as f*** looking for hip hop losers’ advice while she galavants about Europe being a terrible soccer player and letting dude who look like this ejaculate inside her.

That’s crazy. It really is a cold world.
The lesson here after another read: y’all gotta stop befriending women you wanna f***/see yourself f***ing, or at least women you wanna f*** who you couldn’t realistically see wanting to f*** you. This whole game of settling for friendship to wait for the right opportunity to strike - only to never do anything about it - is a destructive game. It ends in regret, and it sucks when it’s a situation like this where the friendship actually becomes genuine
You can’t “convert” a woman into wanting to f*** you through friendship, or otherwise. Y’all be regular dudes with very limited options playing in the arena that only rich, high status or men with limitless options can afford to play without feeling depressed, broken and/or regretful like OP feels
Going by OP wanting to be coddled itt, he may not be aware of how this is strictly his fault…or just delusional. But I really do hope he understands that and never lets himself get into a f***ed up situation like this again
He doesn’t deserve to be dunked on ofc but the ppl itt trying to coddle him don’t understand this situation is the type of situation ktt would clown someone like BVL for
I get the lack of understanding cause it’s worded in a lofty and sympathetic manner but yeah
The lesson here after another read: y’all gotta stop befriending women you wanna f***/see yourself f***ing, or at least women you wanna f*** who you couldn’t realistically see wanting to f*** you. This whole game of settling for friendship to wait for the right opportunity to strike - only to never do anything about it - is a destructive game. It ends in regret, and it sucks when it’s a situation like this where the friendship actually becomes genuine
You can’t “convert” a woman into wanting to f*** you through friendship, or otherwise. Y’all be regular dudes with very limited options playing in the arena that only rich, high status or men with limitless options can afford to play without feeling depressed, broken and/or regretful like OP feels
Going by OP wanting to be coddled itt, he may not be aware of how this is strictly his fault…or just delusional. But I really do hope he understands that and never lets himself get into a f***ed up situation like this again
I think the issue itt is that first it isnt in Relationships sxn which oissed ppl off n then the first few people that did try to give advice, comment or inquire more he lashed out at them so then people just resorted to making fun of him since it wasnt going anywhere anyways
I think the issue itt is that first it isnt in Relationships sxn which oissed ppl off n then the first few people that did try to give advice, comment or inquire more he lashed out at them so then people just resorted to making fun of him since it wasnt going anywhere anyways
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