Sounds like you don’t mind having a dirty ass kitchen. Slob

Bro you’re buggin. I literally cannot cook anything because this mf has my pots and pans in that dirty ass pile

How do you even touch other people stuff? Even if you live together. In my country its mad disrespectful.

niggas in here trying to defend OP's roommate cause he used OP's s*** without asking and didn't even clean them. Y'all are moving funny rn

they some doormats lol

Dirty dishes are a f***ing eye sore , y’all just don’t gaf about having your kitchen looking trashed lol

Dawg are you serious? I tried to have a dialogue with this mf and he walked away before I finished. Like he could give a f*** what I had to say. What arent you understanding?

some ppl are dirty naturally. id take it as a sign of respect that he made an effort initially. im sure with you around hell get bback into that habit especially if you are clean. i know i leave plates in the sink sometimes. its not something to get worked up about

hey probably because you were as aggressive as you are on this f***ing thread bro

people hate being "mansplained" especially over some damn dishes lol

he probably FELT that you came at him like some child and you're his daddy and he showed constraint by walking away

what aren't YOU understanding?

it's not all about YOU and your dishes

He most likely doesn't take you serious and has no respect for you or himself if he's avoiding a responsibility made known already.

I'd personally bring it up again as soon as possible.

Be straight forward and clear; express yourself without violence or insulting words (in case he's having some sort of personal issues with himself/family/others). Also be reasonable and open. Don't shut him out completely.

If he continues after you've set the record straight, then take that nigga's knees off in his sleep.

its the one thing i get on my girls head about cause i dont like them

but when i was 21 (assuming op young by him describing this situation) i was young and immature. if my roomate out of town i might leave a pile of dishes and have the living room messy but we are all different and prioritize different s***

i just know a physical altercation about someone have a dirty sink one time is mad immature

Aite imma give it a reasonable amount of time fasho until I proceed with confronting him again

yep im willing to bet this dude will have the s*** cleaned by tomorrow afternoon. might even apologize lol

i feel you not being able to make a plate when you get home, mad annoying especially when you dont know the dude

@op just straight up fart when he is in a room. Burp, scream, s***, laugh loud as f***. And then he will learn his lesson.

bro just f***ing talk to him like a normal dude, make a joke about it or something

the fact that you view it as a "confrontation" is your whole issue

you live with the guy...

Lol.

You sound so sensitive

i mean its very normal to share pots and pans and dishes lol its not likes hes using his computer n s***

Nah. Still weird. I wouldn’t be comfortable doing that.

where u from?

Eastern Europe.

Kill him

My g,

Other people's inability to properly take care of themselves and be responsible has nothing to do with respecting you. If he cannot do basic things like cleaning or or taking responsibility and/or looking at you when you're talking to him then that man is probably struggling with some s*** and/or lowkey has some fear for you.

Be cool and give that man time to come around. Everybody be buggin' every now n then, we could all just use some time every now n then.

yeah i’ve lived with some dirty roommates before, s*** sucked

wound up just doing the dishes and cleaning myself. i tried talkin to them about it, and they made some effort, but then would fall back into the same patterns.

sometimes people just don’t notice or care, just people who live differently or are on different ends of the maturity spectrum