So this white guy randomly moved into one of the vacant rooms in the middle of the semester. He was cool at first. Kept s*** clean, washed dishes, etc. Aint have no problems. So I went out of town for a week and some change, and I come back to the sink literally being filled with dishes and a lot of the Tubberware and pots and pans were mine. I told him when I saw him that he needs to take clean the s*** and I don’t care if he uses my s***, but just clean up.

Dude doesn't even look at me while I’m speaking and walked off before I was finished, but he said he’d take care of it last night. He never did. He’s disrespecting me right? Like the fact that I came back and literally both sides of the sink are filled with dishes makes no sense at all to me. Would I be wrong if I whooped his ass fr? Like I think what I’m going to do tomorrow is ask him one more time to take care of it, but if he doesn't imma just beat his ass.

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Kick his ass

why ask a second time if you gonna get the same result?

might as well slam dunk his ass and get it over with

I always ask myself...

what would diddy do?

Like I already hardly like this nigga because apparently he watches Alex Jones podcasts so he might be on some weird far right s***. Probably a Trumper. Grown ass man can’t even clean up after himself. What would be the best way to handle this situation? Because I deadass cant cook anything because this mf has my skillets in the sink. And I refuse to wash another mans dishes esp. if I hardly know the mf

put all the dishes on his bed

I was gonna pull up on him and be on some “Aye bruh, I asked you nicely to wash the dishes last night and you didn’t. So whats up? You want a problem?” and depending on how he reacts is how I was going to react

aye bruh you know how white people be tho

dude come in your sleep and poor acid on you

Facts, finna start locking my door when I sleep lmfao.

Pressure him— but also check if he not coping or some.

I’d say this is perfect.

do it, he knows what he is doing

throw hand first ask question later

it's always amazing to me how you can't just talk to someone you live with

since it's obvious you don't know how to live with a stranger

next step for you is to write him a very sternly written note and hanging it up by the sink, further increasing hostility according to the passive aggressive playbook

he just doesn't/won't think it's a problem until you make it a problem for him

yea that's straight disrespect if he uses your s*** and doesn't even clean them, even after you tell him

if the note doesn't do the trick, the next step is to do the dishes yourself.

then you can justify to yourself to stop speaking fully, and you get to be angry at him for weeks-months until it all boils over and ends in violence because you're both little b****es

Like I had the same problem last semester with two other white guys who moved in. They both knew each other apparently. They both were nasty as s*** at first (would leave trash on thr counters , not wash dishes) but they were 18 and it was their first time living alone so I gave em a pass. Just told him he needs to cleanup and he got better over time.

One of them moved out. But I lowkey feel like he was on some closest racist s*** as well. Like idk if I was trippin or not but I’d hear bruh say the n word on one occasion, but I dead don’t know if I was trippin or not. But anyways, before he did bro would literally leave trash in the kitchen for days before he moved it. And anytime I asked him to do something, he would act like I was asking him to commit a crime or some s***.

I’m just tired of living with white people man, like not even on no racist s*** lol

Bruh what the f*** are you talking about? Did you even read the OP or did you just decide to come in here and troll me?

u were out of town for a week he could have very easily thought you were coming back a day later and then forgot that one night but not even looking at you is disrespectful af

but dont escalate it you gotta live with him lol just remind him one more time then start being a d*** if he doesnt do it

omg he didn't do the dishes within 12 hours of you asking him omg he hates you for being black omg omg omg better go make a thread about it on a kanye west forum at 3 AM in the morning

go to bed dum dum and stop thinking that doing dishes is a personal attack on you

imagine having roommates in 2021

You sound insane

u should do the dishes