Aye do me a favor and never quote me you mad annoying ngl

found the roommate

That’s mad ironic coming from you btw @0 but imma let you have it. Not finna go back and forth with you

my chef does the dishes lol but yeah i was always on OPs side i used to have some dirty ass roommates that never changed but yeah I wouldn't take it personally i just realized they were stupid slobs that didn't take pride in that

I'd say try it one more time and be very clear about it that you feel disrespected before turning to violence or threats. Remember you gotta live with the dude for some longer so

this the exact reason i saved up to live on my own lmfao. other ppl either too lazy to do their fair share or they just priviliged and never did chores growing up

you're questioning if people are racist because they don't do dishes lol

this must be your b**** ass roommate OP

to be fair his reasonings were the guy being an Alex Jones stan + op overhearing him saying the N word

this nigga mad cause you perfectly described s*** he does OP, go clean the dishes @0

having a chef is kinda cool

Niggas don’t read. They know me from other sections so they come in with preexisting opinions that go against mine because it’s me lmfao. F*** that guy

Show him love and compassion instead of hate and animosity. Only then will he come to understand

and that’s why they’re white trash

i mean he didnt know when you were coming home and decided to not clean and it sounds like you jumped on him when you came back

if youre a neat freak i get it but im sure hell clean it up by tomorrow. id chill

over some dirty dishes

yall are funny

You can’t make a slob clean up frfr, you gotta blow up on his ass one day and let him know you don’t tolerate that s***. Ik it’s toxic to do that but f*** it cause a scene , get stern and assertive, don’t threaten him physically or insult him or put your hands on him, but definitely give him hell for being nasty. It’s no point in not holding back now, he already walked away from you while taking to him.

You do this enough times and he’s gonna rather keep the s*** clean than hear your mouth. You’ll become my ex gf but at least the kitchen will be clean

But still tho, is that an excuse to leave the sink literally filled with dishes bro? Like wtf

i'm actually a neat freak but i don't get bothered by dirty dishes. i'd go to my friend's place sometimes and just do his dishes out of boredom because their sink would be filled with crusty dishes and they'd never do them. they never understood how disgusting it looked and frankly it is embarrassing that a 20+ year old can't do their own dishes. blame mommy and daddy for that

instead of taking it as a personal attack OP should realize that some people don't prioritize s*** like this. some people just don't understand and lack self-awareness and empathy. they don't take pride in where they live, and don't understand it

taking it so personally shows OP also lacks that same self-awareness that they can't even talk like 2 men and instead he's posting his frustrations like a chatty kathy on here

This "dishes" talk comes up between roommates all the time btw, it's a classic example of how to learn to live with someone