At the end of the day it ain’t his kid though. It may suck but can’t expect someone you’re not even with to take care of your kids unless it’s a very serious relationship. That’s why I don’t even like the idea of people bringing their kids around the people they’re dating off the rip tbh

I don't think they expected it they offered

Like maybe they expected them to do what they offered to do

but that isn't unreasonable I think

Again, although you’re right, you can’t really take that word to heart in OP’s position though. He has no true obligations

I mean yeah I guess you could just trust no one because they can ultimately just do what they want anyway

but like it's not unreasonable to get mad if someone offers to do something and then just decides not to do it

I think both parties are justified in their feelings honestly though

i was takin her clothes off
imagine my disappointment

We get pretty serious. I think I talk about her a lot.

Whip both they asses

Well I guess at the end of the day OP you gotta manage your relationship. Personally as a kid I don’t think it matters, I’m not one to judge your decision

but because he's like WAY too young to be thinking about this s***

He's too young to think about what kind of clothes he likes?

I'm not gonna put that in his head this early in his life and that I didn't think she should either.

But you're cool putting outdated gender roles and ideas in his head at this age?

It's a piece of cloth, who cares man. If the kid wanted a dress get the damn dress.

Sorry OP, I agree with others in this thread that if the kid liked the way he looked in the dress and you had offered to buy him something he liked..you should have bought the dress

Its not putting something in his head. You didn't pick out the dress. He chose it for himself and you should put aside the thoughts of others and the thoughts of society, and do what makes the kid happy.

good post

I got him something just not that

F*** that kid and f*** the broad for guilt tripping you into buying s*** for the lil b******

You ain’t do anything wrong OP

I wasn't guilted.

you're in the wrong for messing up a lil kids drip smh

“He's young and thought it was cool probably, but the societal implications will follow him and I didn't want to throw that on him.”

I feel like you might’ve already did that by making it a big deal, instead of letting the kid live and learn, while guiding how you see fit when the time calls for it.

He probably didn’t have anything in his head about gender or whatever until the implication that wearing the dress was wrong

You thought you may have been preventing a cycle, but started a different one

she sounds toxic.

OP b****made

no

Some people are gonna say u were buggin', but you did the right thing @op , the kid probably didn't know what he was doing.