Mar 29, 2021
joywhole threads energy weird af
Mar 29, 2021
CGodJrYou were in the right. Ktt is typically extreme left. But if the mom wants to do that on her own time, good on her. But if you’re not about it, def don’t buy the dreas
ktt being extreme left
Mar 29, 2021
insertcoolnameherethe kid is just being a kid and sees it as just something cool to wear.
the concept of crossdressing and the shame that automatically comes with that don't exist. When you refuse a child to express themselves in however they want those kind of limitations stay with them. Parents putting early boundaries on their child based on their own implicit biases does leave a mark.
Saying no to an article of clothing is not the same as telling a child no to say....jumping off a building or buying something that can actually be seen as harmful.
I mean that's basic psychology but what do I know
This would be true if OP said something like "I'm not gonna have you dressing like a women" or something to that effect. However, it looks like he just said no to buying the dress and even let the kid try it on. The kid isn't going to associate the "no" with the product but with the parent.
Mar 29, 2021·1 replyNot even saying whether or not OP should’ve bought the dress but I’d respect it if y’all (in general) just said ”I don’t rock with that s***” instead of hiding behind the ”b-b-but kids shouldn’t be thinking about that” stuff
Trust me the kids ain’t thinking about social norms when they want a dress just like they ain’t thinking about it when they want a t shirt. I just don’t like when people hide behind virtue so they don’t have to say how they really feel
Mar 29, 2021·3 repliesCGodJrYou were in the right. Ktt is typically extreme left. But if the mom wants to do that on her own time, good on her. But if you’re not about it, def don’t buy the dreas
I hate to agree with this alt right poster but yea OP you’re definitely not in the wrong
Niggas on here listen to too much frank and tyler then take that s*** to the extreme
Im extremely left wing and all that and if my teenager came out as trans ofc id support and be there to my best ability but a 4 yr old?? F*** no
- Mar 29, 2021Maartins
I hate to agree with this alt right poster but yea OP you’re definitely not in the wrong
Niggas on here listen to too much frank and tyler then take that s*** to the extreme
Im extremely left wing and all that and if my teenager came out as trans ofc id support and be there to my best ability but a 4 yr old?? F*** no
I'm not alt right at all. I don't agree virtually anything on the right except some things concerning capitalism.
Mar 29, 2021MaartinsI hate to agree with this alt right poster but yea OP you’re definitely not in the wrong
Niggas on here listen to too much frank and tyler then take that s*** to the extreme
Im extremely left wing and all that and if my teenager came out as trans ofc id support and be there to my best ability but a 4 yr old?? F*** no
- Mar 30, 2021·1 replyMaartins
I hate to agree with this alt right poster but yea OP you’re definitely not in the wrong
Niggas on here listen to too much frank and tyler then take that s*** to the extreme
Im extremely left wing and all that and if my teenager came out as trans ofc id support and be there to my best ability but a 4 yr old?? F*** no
Doesn't sound like you're extremely left wing at all then
Mar 30, 2021if he wants a dress he wants a dress
- Mar 30, 2021insertcoolnamehere
Doesn't sound like you're extremely left wing at all then
Believe it all not but being left wing doesn’t mean you dnt subscribe to certain norms of society
Imagine thinking that not wanting to dress a 4 yr old in girl clothes is controversial
- Mar 30, 2021
In my opinion
You did the right thing
No matter his preference little boys shouldn’t be bought dresses
I’m sorry if this offends anyone
- Mar 30, 2021
There are some things kids just aren’t aware of
They are sculpted by their reality
At 4yrs old that kid has no idea about sexuality. You don’t want that kid thinking it’s normal for him to wear dresses.
Do you understand how cruel kids are. Parents set their kids up for public scrutiny from the jump.
Now, if he has a sister and she has a dress sure lil nigga you could wear that. I would make it very clear that girls wear dresses and not boys, though
- Mar 30, 2021BRAVE
Not even saying whether or not OP should’ve bought the dress but I’d respect it if y’all (in general) just said ”I don’t rock with that s***” instead of hiding behind the ”b-b-but kids shouldn’t be thinking about that” stuff
Trust me the kids ain’t thinking about social norms when they want a dress just like they ain’t thinking about it when they want a t shirt. I just don’t like when people hide behind virtue so they don’t have to say how they really feel
So kids don't know boys from girls?
Mar 30, 2021Fka GroovyWell I ain't dating a girl I've been seeing for almost 7 years, who has a son, to not one day make him my son
If I stop f***ing around and choose to marry her (which is my lifelong dream) I'm part of her family
You been seeing her for 7 years but she got a 4 year old thats not yours
