PainPapi

3y

i thought i was depressed then i did sum push ups 😭

PainPapi

3y

bpd has stolen my entire life from me ive been so lonely and isolated for so long that the first time i experience genuine affection i have a complete bpd episode and now everything is ruined once again
atleast i can say i have real good memories now that i can look back on when i feel sad
for the first time ever i felt love and acceptance only for me to get triggered and f*** everything up
i had the best time of my life here and i couldnt handle it

maxx

3y

do u have any helpful information for me if im currently involved with a bpd girl

mangotflu

3y

I just got out of a relationship w/ a bpd girl, together 3.5 years, she had a whole second boyfriend the last 9 months of our relationship, he didn't know about me

honestly man just be careful, make sure all her social circle know about you and make sure she stays in regular therapy. My ex went to therapy less than 5 times over our whole relationship

She did some crazy s*** like sleeping with both of us on back to back days & asking both of us to get her pregnant during the same time. She even told her 11 yr old sister about the other guy whilst her sister knew about me, so her 11 yr old sis knew she had 2 bfs.

Now things have turned into her running away from home and trying to kill herself and ending up in hospital. For few days after she was caught she wsa apologetic to me, that turned into her sending me messages saying she hopes I die and listing everything bad i've done to her & detaling her s***life w/ the other guy. She also just lost her dream job she wanted for years lol. S***s insane man, some people with BPD genuinely have no sense of care for others

but yea for both ur sakes just please make sure she stays in regular therapy

maxx

3y

do u have any helpful information for me if im currently involved with a bpd girl

Jayson

3y

Run

PainPapi

3y

bpd has stolen my entire life from me ive been so lonely and isolated for so long that the first time i experience genuine affection i have a complete bpd episode and now everything is ruined once again
atleast i can say i have real good memories now that i can look back on when i feel sad
for the first time ever i felt love and acceptance only for me to get triggered and f*** everything up
i had the best time of my life here and i couldnt handle it

PainPapi

3y

nvm

PainPapi

3y

nvm

PainPapi

3y

girl im seeing studying for her masters in psychology and knows i got bpd when i was going thru the episode i was all crazy and emotional and tried to dump her but she calmly said im just gonna ignore that you just said that and nursed me back to health

jack johnson

3y

Dysthymia also known as persistent depressive disorder (PDD), is a mental and behavioral disorder, specifically a disorder primarily of mood, consisting of similar cognitive and physical problems as major depressive disorder, but with longer-lasting symptoms. The concept was used by Robert Spitzer as a replacement for the term "depressive personality" in the late 1970s.

As dysthymia is a chronic disorder, those with the condition may experience symptoms for many years before it is diagnosed, if diagnosis occurs at all. As a result, they may believe that depression is a part of their character, so they may not even discuss their symptoms with doctors, family members or friends.

Dysthymia characteristics include an extended period of depressed mood combined with at least two other symptoms which may include insomnia or hypersomnia, fatigue or low energy, eating changes (more or less), low self-esteem, or feelings of hopelessness. Poor concentration or difficulty making decisions are treated as another possible symptom. Irritability is one of the more common symptoms in children and adolescents.

Mild degrees of dysthymia may result in people withdrawing from stress and avoiding opportunities for failure. In more severe cases of dysthymia, people may withdraw from daily activities. They will usually find little pleasure in usual activities and pastimes.

Diagnosis of dysthymia can be difficult because of the subtle nature of the symptoms and patients can often hide them in social situations, making it challenging for others to detect symptoms. Additionally, dysthymia often occurs at the same time as other psychological disorders, which adds a level of complexity in determining the presence of dysthymia, particularly because there is often an overlap in the symptoms of disorders.

There is a high incidence of comorbid illness in those with dysthymia. Suicidal behavior is also a particular problem with those with dysthymia. It is vital to look for signs of major depression, panic disorder, generalised anxiety disorder, alcohol and substance use disorders, and personality disorder.

PainPapi

3y

about time god gave me a w

insertcoolnamehere

3y

I hope you being proactive in trying to be a better partner for her fam.

I knew people that just put their loved ones through hell and didn't even try to do anything about their own situations just made us "deal with it, it's who I am"

sniper

3y

been dealing with my anxiety fluctuating over the past few weeks since i had a panic attack hit me

went down last week but went back up because i got stuck looking at the I/P situation and I also get anxious about my increased anxiety in a self-fulfilling cycle

been hard, stuck in my bed all day for the past few

have trouble sleeping when it goes up because i wake up 2 hours later with massive night sweats and my heart racing

generally i feel like the panic attack which kicked this whole thing off was a result of failing to manage my anxieties for the past 3 years and just putting it on the back burner even though i could feel it going up bit by bit

don’t feel like listening to music, don’t feel like playing games, don’t feel like doing anything when i’m like this

Drogon

3y

hope y'all are doing okay. I often think of you guys in here and how courageous you are in being vulnerable. It takes alot of balls no cap.