“Now I don’t feel so bad for throwing your dead mothers ashes away” is a crazy nuke
I might not tell her honestly. Idk I'm just asking y'all cuz I had no where else to ask and it's like 50/50 rn on telling her or not. I really don't know what I'm gonna do yet. This is such a f***ed up situation for me.
I would usually just be honest with her, I usually am honest. But I was drunk and vacummed up the ashes and they're gone now and Idk I was f***ed up, I can't explain that. I'm probably gonna just deal with this internally and not tell her.
The emotionally intelligent people are the ones telling you not to tell her
The people who think about s*** in a vacuum are the ones saying to tell her. They just think ”it’s the right thing to do” without thinking that sometimes the “right thing to do” is actually the worst possible thing to do
Don’t say a word about this and make sure you erase all evidence
There were friends there. It will eventually leak. The worst part is not the knocking over. Its teh throwing away part. Shoudlve at least try to collect something of it. I wouldve run out and bought one of those breadcrum vacuum things. Suck it up and dump it in the new urn. Whats done is done but man...
Don’t tell her obviously and let her keep thinking it’s her mom. It really doesn’t matter, as long as she continues to feel a connection with her mom
vacuuming the ashes is one of the most insane things I've ever read
you're probably cursed now for a long while
not even by her
you legit need to go to church this easter weekend and repent for your sins
or you will get the worst possible karma for this even if you tell her
imagine something 10x worse and to someone still alive and important to you
vacuuming the ashes is one of the most insane things I've ever read
you're probably cursed now for a long while
not even by her
He should just empty the vacuum bag into the urn
lowkey though, I'd be re-evaluating my relationship if my girl was holding onto physical remains. Let the dead's spirit not be bound to fully pass on and course through you.
The way yall see the world on this site is so odd lmao.
Holding that much sentimental value over some ashes is kinda wild tho, no disrespect
It’s legit her f***ing mom what the hell is wrong with yall
Lowkey weird how much ppl care about material remains of dead ppl
How many people saw it happen?
3 of my friends were there. They were equally f***ed up and told me to get rid of the ashes
lowkey though, I'd be re-evaluating my relationship if my girl was holding onto physical remains. Let the dead's spirit not be bound to fully pass on and course through you.
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If you don't tell her now you'll have a killer bomb to drop if she ever cheats or dumps you
i would absolutely kill myself just pure evil
If you don't tell her now you'll have a killer bomb to drop if she ever cheats or dumps you
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The fact that I literally should’ve actually just sweeped them up and put them in a new container is f***ing me up. We were so f***ed up and I genuinely feel stupid af rn that I didn’t do that.
Don’t tell her
s*** sounds like a sitcom episode ngl
George Costanza type of f*** up