awww hell nah

everybody telling him to lie got me dead

s*** would eat me up inside i couldn’t do that’s just me tho

we seen what you did here

therapist gon tell him to tell his girl

Realistically, you can’t tell her. We all have delusions that keep us safe. You’d be killing her mom twice.

Ashes are just ashes, your loved one is not there. It’s a totem of your love. Personally, I think this new love totem is even more powerful. Not only does it represent her love for her mom, but your love for her.

Bro I cant tell if this is a bit or not, this s*** is so in character

Thank you to everyone who tried to help me out itt. I think I'm just gonna tell her

but I might not. idk yet, she's gonna be so upset

Why would you tell her lol just take that to the grave. She has an urn of ashes and regularly looks at it and s*** you already know what timing she’s on

Just let her keep believing nothing had changed.

But why? What does she gain from that aside from heartache? You only telling her to make yourself feel good. Selfish to me

Let her stay in her own little world and be none the wiser

I might not tell her honestly. Idk I'm just asking y'all cuz I had no where else to ask and it's like 50/50 rn on telling her or not. I really don't know what I'm gonna do yet. This is such a f***ed up situation for me.

I would usually just be honest with her, I usually am honest. But I was drunk and vacummed up the ashes and they're gone now and Idk I was f***ed up, I can't explain that. I'm probably gonna just deal with this internally and not tell her.

I wouldn't tell her for the reason that like another user stated, it's almost selfish to. You want to clear your conscience more than anything. You wouldn't be telling her for her, it would be for you.

Allow her peace.

lowkey though, I'd be re-evaluating my relationship if my girl was holding onto physical remains. Let the dead's spirit not be bound to fully pass on and course through you.

First page is a mess

Sitcom ass predicament. Like some George Costanza s***

Post to OP Avi to your username Breaking the matrix with this one

Vacuuming the ashes is f***ing wrecking me

Aye, I'm sorry about this s***, but don't tell her. That accident can be a gift or a curse, depending on how she be moving in y'all relationship, jussaying

Don't do it Ralphie

Holding that much sentimental value over some ashes is kinda wild tho, no disrespect

Why da fuk did you not keep the ashes?

F*** the porcelain

How many people saw it happen?

If you swept up the ashes, you could've told her. She would've lost an urn, nbd, she could've bought another one off Amazon like you did

But now that you vacuumed the ashes up and her mother's remains are gone forever in some garbage dump somewhere Take that s*** to your grave chief.

This important too. How many witnesses? They real ones or people who could switch up on you?

It’s odd that one would care about ashes since burnt people can’t be part of the resurrection in the end times. That’s why catholic church burned people in the ancient times.