Apr 18, 2025Honesty is always the way. It’s going to continue to eat you up and the longer you wait to tell her, the worse the outcome will be.
Apr 18, 2025Btw I the ashes from I emptied into a a garbage bag and they’re all gone.
@op this is where you truly f***ed up
if you tell her you just broke and replaced the urn, that would be one thing. but throwing away her mother’s ashes???
if your girl has any self-respect, she’s gonna call it quits and rightfully so. and if you have any respect for her, you should def come clean and allow her to do so
- Apr 18, 2025
Ralph CifarettoI literally did but with the vaccuum. But idk I was high and drunk and my boy said to just throw everything away.
Apr 18, 2025
Shampoo BraceletsThe emotionally intelligent people are the ones telling you not to tell her
The people who think about s*** in a vacuum are the ones saying to tell her. They just think ”it’s the right thing to do” without thinking that sometimes the “right thing to do” is actually the worst possible thing to do
Don’t say a word about this and make sure you erase all evidence
Thinking in a vacuum
- Apr 18, 2025
Drogonthis is it.
At the end of the day it wasn't intentional. I think for a greater piece of mind for you both if you keep her out of the loop. You seem to be a pretty respectable dude and the fact you give a sh*t speaks volumes on your character.
A lot of dude wouldn't give a f*ck and that would be a poor place to approach the situation from.
perfect example of morally bankrupt behavior
Apr 18, 2025·1 reply
Chief JulioIf your boy's a real nigga he'll let you pin it on him when you tell your girl
wait lol this might be the only solution
- Apr 18, 2025
otherwise you have 2 options
tell her and take the consequences
take the first bus to as far away as you can possibly go
- Apr 18, 2025·1 reply
SquilliamIt’s literally dust
Soulless
- Apr 18, 2025
this is not an altLowkey weird how much ppl care about material remains of dead ppl
not weird at all. ashes are the last tangible remnants of a loved one that a person can hold on to. i don’t see myself keeping my loved ones’ ashes around when they pass, but i don’t look down on anyone who does
- Apr 18, 2025·1 reply
La FlameGeorge Costanza type of f*** up
📞 “Jerry! Kramer and I were playing Wii Sports and I threw the remote at Jenna’s mom’s ashes and the ashes scattered and Kramer told me to vacuum them up and she’s coming home in two days!”
“Whooo is this?”
- Apr 18, 2025
Honestly the poster who said you should have your friend take the blame had a good idea there @op you should consider that
Apr 18, 2025Cherrywine1Soulless
Not even soulless but just callously dismissive of other peoples’ world views and belief systems
Apr 18, 2025·1 replythe fact u care means u not a pos
cause personally i wouldnt even give a f***
- Apr 18, 2025·1 replyCreasy
the fact u care means u not a pos
cause personally i wouldnt even give a f***
the fact u care means u not a pos
It just means he’s normal.
- Apr 18, 2025Cherrywine1
the fact u care means u not a pos
It just means he’s normal.
okay
- Apr 18, 2025·1 reply
Keepthereceipts*** sounds like a sitcom episode ngl
sitcoms are underrated in their ability to make messed up stuff seem wholesome and fun to watch. bc on paper, this sounds like the plot of a hilarious episode. but in real life, it’s depressing as hell to go through on both ends of the situation lol
- Apr 18, 2025Malakas
📞 “Jerry! Kramer and I were playing Wii Sports and I threw the remote at Jenna’s mom’s ashes and the ashes scattered and Kramer told me to vacuum them up and she’s coming home in two days!”
“Whooo is this?”
Sounds exactly like the type of s*** that would happen and an episode
- Apr 18, 2025·1 replyWarren Peace
sitcoms are underrated in their ability to make messed up stuff seem wholesome and fun to watch. bc on paper, this sounds like the plot of a hilarious episode. but in real life, it’s depressing as hell to go through on both ends of the situation lol
Yeah
Like Chandler dating a girl, that Joey had dated before him. He had thrown her leg prosthesis into the fire, thinking it was a log, and dipped before she woke up. Thats f***ed up.
- Apr 18, 2025La Flame
Yeah
Like Chandler dating a girl, that Joey had dated before him. He had thrown her leg prosthesis into the fire, thinking it was a log, and dipped before she woke up. Thats f***ed up.
lmao wtf
never saw that episode but just looked it up and i’m gonna remember to check it out when i inevitably renew Max lol
Apr 18, 2025·1 replybro why did you get rid of the ashes
- Apr 18, 2025celinee
bro why did you get rid of the ashes
Was f***ed up. Panicking. My boy told me to do it. Idk I wasn’t thinking straight
- Apr 18, 2025·1 replyRalph Cifaretto
3 of my friends were there. They were equally f***ed up and told me to get rid of the ashes
Damn that’s a lot of balls you gotta grease if you want this thing to stay quiet
- Apr 18, 2025Uncle Jack
Damn that’s a lot of balls you gotta grease if you want this thing to stay quiet
They really don’t even talk to my girlfriend. It’s like a high and bye type thing lol they’ll have trivial conversations but don’t really know her. I know for a fact they wouldn’t snitch on me tbh
Apr 18, 2025#powder
Apr 18, 2025
OrangutanIf you don't tell her now you'll have a killer bomb to drop if she ever cheats or dumps you
