Maybe if you just stayed at your on campus apartment with people your age like a normal 20 something you wouldn’t have to pay 2 rents or commute
You are a grown man CHOOSING to live with his f***ing mom in college when you already have a place on campus. You clearly don’t have a lot going on up there
I’m going to try and get my mom to cover more of my half if the rent. It’s just before I transferred to UVA I had already signed the lease with my mom so there was nothing I could do. We recently moved to a cheaper place but it’s still $800/mo. I’m going to ask her if she can cover at least $400 of my half because I can’t afford it.
It's not your responsibility to take care of someone else (if you don't have kids). This has nothing to do with how much you love your mom. She existed long before you were here, and she will find a place to stay. Her survival skills extends far beyond yours. Your responsibility is taking of yourself so that in the future, when you get your s*** together, you can help whomever you want to.
I agree 100%. My mom mentioned covering part of my half of the rent since she makes more than me. Right now my half of the rent is $800 but im going to try and get her to cover $400 of it.
I’m going to try and get my mom to cover more of my half if the rent. It’s just before I transferred to UVA I had already signed the lease with my mom so there was nothing I could do. We recently moved to a cheaper place but it’s still $800/mo. I’m going to ask her if she can cover at least $400 of my half because I can’t afford it.
you’re paying half of rent for a place you stay at two nights a week
Your mom clearly ain’t raise you right so no sure why you’re breaking your back over her
you’re paying half of rent for a place you stay at two nights a week
Your mom clearly ain’t raise you right so no sure why you’re breaking your back over her
What makes you think she didn’t raise me right?
I agree 100%. My mom mentioned covering part of my half of the rent since she makes more than me. Right now my half of the rent is $800 but im going to try and get her to cover $400 of it.
If you agreed you wouldn't be making excuses.
But you'll learn one day. Hopefully sooner than later.
What makes you think she didn’t raise me right?
Youre paying 50% of rent at a place you stay at 2 nights a week and have to drive an hour both ways to get to
And just look at your own thread history man god damn
worked at a moving company for 6 months 3rd floors are the worst. get a dolly and manhandle that s*** yourself and tell em f*** off
If you agreed you wouldn't be making excuses.
But you'll learn one day. Hopefully sooner than later.
My name is on the lease I can’t just not pay it
Youre paying 50% of rent at a place you stay at 2 nights a week and have to drive an hour both ways to get to
And just look at your own thread history man god damn
What am I supposed to do during the spring summer and winter? My mom won’t qualify in her own. The only option is for me to help her.
What am I supposed to do during the spring summer and winter? My mom won’t qualify in her own. The only option is for me to help her.
She'll figure things out. I'm sure there's relatives or family friends she can room with. And I'm talking from experience. I'm not giving you advice I have not lived through. I have been through this same situation.
She'll figure things out. I'm sure there's relatives or family friends she can room with. And I'm talking from experience. I'm not giving you advice I have not lived through. I have been through this same situation.
I wish it was that simple… my name is already on the lease so I’ll get a judgement or a credit hit? If I back out. I’m just going to ask her to contribute more to my half.
I remember in a thread before you didn’t believe the DoorDash situation and now here you are not believing this. I don’t even have the energy to dispute your replies I’m just tired of the constant battles. So if you could please pray for me I’d appreciate it
A prayer ain’t gonna help move that damn freezer
He's not lying. He's my next door neighbor and I was dying laughing seeing those dudes eat the expired ravioli.
Update:
I got two other people on thursday night into Friday morning who helped me move. However, they also abandoned me after realizing I was moving onto the third floor.
They got like half the stuff off the U-haul and told me they had to go to work and never came back. This Uhaul is $29.95/day and a mileage charge and my mother and I can't wait for movers.
We are literally stuck with furniture in our Uhaul. The new movers said they would come back and won't respond to our messages.