Noir

3y

Man I'm sorry but I legit laughed at the thread title, it's just getting ridiculous at this point

You've got to set some boundaries and advocate for yourself. Nobody else is going to do that for you.

Sir Real

3y

you should buy a gun if you don’t already have one op

Oak

3y

That is true. I’m trying to find someone else to help me. We told them we’d pay them we weren’t expecting their help for free but damn.

fun guy

3y

man what, why would u need to take the washing machine and freezer with u when leaving the apartment? was that s*** not already there when u moved in?

Mountain Dude

3y

@op Do you have a therapist to talk to? Not just saying this to be mean.

CLB BMO

3y

Nigga life a movie deadass

fun guy

3y

man what, why would u need to take the washing machine and freezer with u when leaving the apartment? was that s*** not already there when u moved in?

Oak

3y

No but I need one. Not sure if my insurance would cover it and I def can't pay rn

katherine world

3y

Bro got the worst life ever

Oak

3y

Update: my grandma paid them on my behalf but she wants her money back smh I don’t ever went to see those scammers again.

Shy

3y

As someone whose lived through similar moments like in your OP, my advise to you would be to step up and handle business on your own. Being mismanaged and mistreated is a choice. If you had money to properly pay movers, your stuff would most likely be secured. Don't depend on your mom to lead. If you are 20+, you need to start branching out on your own, figuring things out for yourself. Get roommates. Start building a savings. Being dependent on your mom's circumstances is a fast track way to zero. Don't live with your mom, it's easy for you to get sucked in her problems and by proxy, you WILL be more passive handling things because in your whole life, your mom took care of you. The sooner you take this advice, the sooner your life will change. Otherwise it won't.

Oak

3y

Update: my grandma paid them on my behalf but she wants her money back smh I don’t ever went to see those scammers again.

Oak

3y

Update: my grandma paid them on my behalf but she wants her money back smh I don’t ever went to see those scammers again.

ghosting

3y

lookin like movers was the move after all...

World1

3y

Lol you a sucka you let your granny get scammed because your weak ass can't move some s*** bro.

Shy

3y

As someone whose lived through similar moments like in your OP, my advise to you would be to step up and handle business on your own. Being mismanaged and mistreated is a choice. If you had money to properly pay movers, your stuff would most likely be secured. Don't depend on your mom to lead. If you are 20+, you need to start branching out on your own, figuring things out for yourself. Get roommates. Start building a savings. Being dependent on your mom's circumstances is a fast track way to zero. Don't live with your mom, it's easy for you to get sucked in her problems and by proxy, you WILL be more passive handling things because in your whole life, your mom took care of you. The sooner you take this advice, the sooner your life will change. Otherwise it won't.

Oak

3y

Thanks for this reply. I started saving at 17, got my first credit card, and I've been financially secure for a few years. It's just when 2022 came, I had to pay rent at my university and at home which caused my funds to drop.

Like during the pandemic I had over $20k in savings because I had four jobs. I've been living with my mom my entire life because it's awesome being able to split the bills and the rent is high in Virginia.

Oak

3y

I'm not a sucka tf the movers worked for her boyfriend. I was going to pay them it's just they broke a lot of ours stuff.