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  • Dec 3, 2020
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    user

    By your same logic you (or a hypothetical woman with this stance if you aren't one) aren't a man to tell us what we mean when we say it lol

    if niggas wanted to say b**** then they'd say b**** lol

    It’s weird because I’ve seen women in the black community get more offended at female than b****. And while I don’t say b**** at all, black people use it like crazy lmao so I’m confused af

  • Dec 3, 2020
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    user

    By your same logic you (or a hypothetical woman with this stance if you aren't one) aren't a man to tell us what we mean when we say it lol

    if niggas wanted to say b**** then they'd say b**** lol

    Out of my experience and most women experiences... when a man says “females” it’s not being said in a good light.

    So if you can’t understand that my dude. Idk what to tell you

  • Dec 3, 2020
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    CGodJr

    Well why is it offensive? Because I ain’t never heard of that stuff until I heard it on clubhouse and my cousins said it like one time to me and it makes 0 sense. Most people I’ve seen use the word female say male the same exact way in context so I don’t understand the offense. Of course, since it offends people I try not to use it but very confusing because no one’s giving an actual answe

    Like I mentioned “females” it’s never been said in a good way if that makes sense.

    B**** on the other hand can be derogatory but I feel now it depends who/ how it’s said.

    The best way for the male version : it’s saying f***boy or men ain’t s***

  • Dec 3, 2020

    Tbh if women tell you they don’t want you to say it... don’t say it. Let’s just be respectful.

  • Dec 3, 2020
    Janet

    Someone is triggered.

    f*** i should have put more 'lols'

  • Dec 3, 2020
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    Janet

    Out of my experience and most women experiences... when a man says “females” it’s not being said in a good light.

    So if you can’t understand that my dude. Idk what to tell you

    Someone is triggered.

    EDIT: lmao but what's an example because there's nothing that I can think of where a nigga either wouldn't just say b**** lol

  • Dec 3, 2020
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    Janet

    Like I mentioned “females” it’s never been said in a good way if that makes sense.

    B**** on the other hand can be derogatory but I feel now it depends who/ how it’s said.

    The best way for the male version : it’s saying f***boy or men ain’t s***

    That’s not true though. Female is interchangeable with women, girl, etc.

  • Dec 3, 2020
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    CGodJr

    It’s weird because I’ve seen women in the black community get more offended at female than b****. And while I don’t say b**** at all, black people use it like crazy lmao so I’m confused af

    it's really as interchangeable to me as

    "get some chairs/cups for the ladies/girls/females"

    that's not automatically interchangeable with "bitch"

    i'd love for someone to actually post an example of this female=bitch dynamic lol

  • Dec 3, 2020
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    user

    it's really as interchangeable to me as

    "get some chairs/cups for the ladies/girls/females"

    that's not automatically interchangeable with "bitch"

    i'd love for someone to actually post an example of this female=bitch dynamic lol

    That’s what I’m saying, people get more offended by female than b**** and it makes no sense.

    If I say “damn, when the females coming” how is that offensive? I feel like this is some strict internet stuff. No one’s even thinking about this bs irl. My dad says female all the time, man isn’t trying to degrade women

  • SABMAN TURNT 🧔🏻
    Dec 3, 2020
    user

    it's really as interchangeable to me as

    "get some chairs/cups for the ladies/girls/females"

    that's not automatically interchangeable with "bitch"

    i'd love for someone to actually post an example of this female=bitch dynamic lol

    “females” as a noun is primarily used to talk biologically about a s***when discussing species. using it outside that context is generally interpreted as demeaning & dehumanizing for the exact same reasons “bitches” is. it’s really not interchangeable with “ladies” “girls” or “women” in most scenarios outside of anthropological studies. & as someone who isn’t on the receiving end of the term, you have no grounds to say that it isn’t offensive bc the term is not directed at you.

    of course, there are some women who don’t care about people using “females” as a noun like that. (note: don’t immediately react to this next sentence, read the bottom) but there are also black dudes who don’t care about their white friends calling them the n word. it’s a similar concept — just because some people don’t have a problem with it doesn’t mean it’s fine to use around people

    *note: i’m not AT ALL comparing using “females” as a noun to white people using the n word. i’m comparing the thought processes behind what’s socially acceptable to say if you’re not a part of the group the word affects, even if some of your friends who are say it’s okay. gonna stress this again, i’m not comparing using “females” as a noun to using the n word

  • SABMAN TURNT 🧔🏻
    Dec 3, 2020
    CGodJr

    That’s what I’m saying, people get more offended by female than b**** and it makes no sense.

    If I say “damn, when the females coming” how is that offensive? I feel like this is some strict internet stuff. No one’s even thinking about this bs irl. My dad says female all the time, man isn’t trying to degrade women

    it’s bc people saying “bitches” already know it’s derogatory, but they don’t care, so it’s no use wasting your energy

    meanwhile, there’s a chance people using “females” don’t realize it’s derogatory, so it could be an honest & easily fixable mistake

  • Dec 3, 2020
    Marcus is Dust

    Imagine the thread needing to go beyond this post

    For 21 whole pages no less.

  • Dec 3, 2020
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    Only ktt can get a thread like this to 21 pages

  • Dec 3, 2020
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    Animals can also be male lol

    And humans are still animals if we took away screens and laws lol

  • Dec 3, 2020
    Jon

    Only ktt can get a thread like this to 21 pages

    Nah it’s a pretty regularly debated topic on Twitter too

  • Dec 3, 2020
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    Outside of school and s*** probably none

    But that’s also just not how women naturally talk. It’s not a common a phrase to call men male It has nothing to do with male meaning animal or consideration of that fact lol

  • Dec 3, 2020
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    If niggas come for “jive” I’m just gon have to be f***in problematic f*** these folks feelings

  • Dec 3, 2020

    If anything the most common useage I can think of is “don’t do that in front of the females” or “you don’t talk to a female like that” type s***

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