no...its not the equivalent. You're not facing the choice of carrying a baby for 9 months, having it exit your vagina and facing health threats along the way. Your body can't even do these things so no you don't have anything that is "equal" to that
the decision to abort and the decision to abandon your blood are not directly related
you're forcing equality when there literally is not something equal here
These niggas wild tryna argue about men’s rights and equality
To each his own man I just hope you take care of your children if you ever have them, kids benefit a great deal from having both parents actively in their lives
You are taking this entirely too personal.
I would never abandon my child, period. But it doesn’t mean I shouldn’t have the right to as long as it matches up with what women are allowed to do.
Obviously you can’t abort a baby for a woman, therefore legal abandonment is the only right solution to even the playing field.
To put this in perspective, look at the freedom of speech.
There’s thing you shouldn’t say, but it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be able to.
Freedom isn’t always positive.
I mean s***is about pleasure and procreation. This thread is about the procreation side of sex. Besides you're making it about merely penetration, the part of me in the front that fits into the part of hers in the front is just how s***works. Now if I was f***ing her ass but wouldn't let her f*** mine, that would fit the equality narrative you're trying to run with.
Lol scared
no...its not the equivalent. You're not facing the choice of carrying a baby for 9 months, having it exit your vagina and facing health threats along the way. Your body can't even do these things so no you don't have anything that is "equal" to that
the decision to abort and the decision to abandon your blood are not directly related
you're forcing equality when there literally is not something equal here
Both are absolving yourself from parenthood? Y'all keep talking about the toll of pregnancy as leg to stand on, but that makes no sense when the woman is agreeing to put herself through that 9 months of carrying a child? Not like abortions are outlawed, then yeah abandonning your kid is kind of scummy. But when the resources are there, and the man is saying I don't want this, if you make the choice to continue with it you're essentially saying I know this child will not have a father that wants it but f*** it. And that should follow the man forever? But if she decides she isn't ready there absolutely no consequence.
With that logic pulling out is also 100% effective if you do it right. But that's not realistic. I've had condoms break on me, get small tears, ect ect.
No
Pre-cum has small amounts of sperm in it and can get a woman pregnant. Thats why pulling out is never 100% effective.
And you're only looking at this in terms of father vs mother. Thats where you're f***ing up. I can tell by the fact you keep referring to this hypothetical child as "something" and "it". Stick around for the kid. Just because you did okay in a one parent household doesn't mean that your kid will. Statistically speaking, kids do a lot better with two parents there for them. Do whats best for this child, because they'll be the real victim of you walking ouy.
Lol scared
Didn't I just say I been floating the idea of letting my girl peg me? We talking about child abandonment and you're in here mad more when aren't getting their a******s plowed lmao
So she can have her cake and eat it too? An abortion is only as much of a entitlement as SHE makes it. Don't make it seem like this is cases where one isn't available. She doesn't want a child she does that and suffers no consequence. Men don't have that option even though you keep making it seem like the whole child is the result of solely the man. That's the hypocritical s***.
Yes. She can. It is her call that you must comply with. It is not fair, but not all gender roles and responsibilities are fair. This is one of them. You knew the risks of unprotected s***with a random woman you had no feelings for. If you didn’t like the risks you should not have had s***with her.
Raising your child is part of being a man, whether or not it was planned. It’s not a question and it’s not a debate.
Bringing a child into the world when you know the nigha doesn’t want is a horrible thing to do. Idk why yall skating past this
I didn’t say any f***ing thing about women not taking responsibility. The choice of whether or not they have the baby is entirely theirs, although a good woman will take your feelings into account.
Try again. Or don’t, and just never have sex.
Right, so if the choice to keep or abort a baby is completely up to the woman whether she takes your opinion into a account or not, then a man should be able to abandon on the same premise. That’s equality.
A man isn’t subjectively right to abandon, but he should have the right to make that decision even if it’s an unpopular one.
And if you read my previous post, I only believe in legal abandonment being on par with legal abortion with respects to the timeframe to make that decision.
A lot of people don’t like women who abort, and I honestly don’t blame them, however it doesn’t mean they shouldn’t have the right to abort even if it pisses a few people off.
Rights are rights, right or wrong.
If you knowingly have an STD and lie to a woman and say you don’t, and then she contracts it/gets it
She can sue you for damages. She only agreed to have s***with you under false pretenses
If a woman lies to you and says she’s on the pill or has an IUD, and you nut in her and she gets pregnant
You can not sue her, despite you only agreed to nut in her under false pretenses
I agree. Should be the ‘male abortion’ to chose not to be in the child’s life.
There’s downsides morally but same with a woman committing an abortion and I’m fine with both being legal.
lol bro
You can get a woman pregnant and y’all be fully expecting to have a family together and be in a relationship and everything be cool.. then 5 months into the pregnancy y’all start having arguments and she decides that you can not be there when the child is born, and that she’s going to move away somewhere so that you will never get to see your kid
Legally she can do all of that with no consequence. And she can do all that and still force money out of your pockets through child support
The entire system in terms of men’s rights on this is f***ed up
Lol stop while u ahead they gon crucify ya Brodie
Didn't I just say I been floating the idea of letting my girl peg me? We talking about child abandonment and you're in here mad more when aren't getting their a******s plowed lmao
I'm literally F tier s***post trolling your stupid ass because you're saying deadbeats are fine you idiot
I agree. Should be the ‘male abortion’ to chose not to be in the child’s life.
There’s downsides morally but same with a woman committing an abortion and I’m fine with both being legal.

No
Pre-cum has small amounts of sperm in it and can get a woman pregnant. Thats why pulling out is never 100% effective.
And you're only looking at this in terms of father vs mother. Thats where you're f***ing up. I can tell by the fact you keep referring to this hypothetical child as "something" and "it". Stick around for the kid. Just because you did okay in a one parent household doesn't mean that your kid will. Statistically speaking, kids do a lot better with two parents there for them. Do whats best for this child, because they'll be the real victim of you walking ouy.
A victim of their mothers creation. If you don't want to make a victim, then don't have it knowing the father wants no involvement and wait until you find a man that does want that involvement. You think forcing someone into fatherhood really produces good father's?
And precum is used to carry up sperm. If you pee before s***you will clear that track out your precum will not carry up sperm. So on paper, pulling out and condoms have the same effective rate when done 100% the proper way.
Bringing a child into the world when you know the nigha doesn’t want is a horrible thing to do. Idk why yall skating past this
Nobody is skating past it. It just doesn’t matter. These are the risks involved with sex, and if you didn’t want it you should have been more careful or shouldn’t have had sex. It is as simple as that. You don’t need s***to live.
Lol stop while u ahead they gon crucify ya Brodie
Nobody wanted to reply to that one bc they know it’s f***ed and shouldn’t be allowed to happen, legally
If you knowingly have an STD and lie to a woman and say you don’t, and then she contracts it/gets it
She can sue you for damages. She only agreed to have s***with you under false pretenses
If a woman lies to you and says she’s on the pill or has an IUD, and you nut in her and she gets pregnant
You can not sue her, despite you only agreed to nut in her under false pretenses
Legal abandonment would fix that issue.