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  • Sep 19, 2021
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    TIIMMY BURNER

    I don't give a f*** about the wack ass mods. Goddess forever coming in to drop an opinion on a thread. Surprised a lock didn't follow it.

    Damn she can’t comment lol I know u don’t believe in this deep down bro u talking on emotion u telling me u would drop a child like that

  • Sep 19, 2021

    Big time "indulge me? f*** you" energy happening here

    Men need to stop hoeing around and get decent jobs instead of passing s*** on to females

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    PEACEFUL HARMONY

    Damn she can’t comment lol I know u don’t believe in this deep down bro u talking on emotion u telling me u would drop a child like that

    What I would do personally remains to be seen. I've raised a baby, it's not the end of the world, but raising a baby you didn't want is hard. I had a lot of disdain when I took the baby in because I did not want it. I imagine forcing a nigga to be a dad that didn't want it is a lot of the same. I came around to the baby, but not everybody does and sometimes by forcing parenthood on someone you end creating a s***ty parent instead of this magical 'loving 2 parent home' people keep spouting off about in this thread.

    I know one thing for certain, anytime I've even accidentally c***in a girl I was getting plan b the next day. I make it very clearly to anyone I'm f***ing I don't do kids, and in times of a scare I have no been afraid to bring up the idea of an abortion. Now have I been in a situation where a girl was truly pregnant and refused one? No.

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    And yes if she actually ever contributed. Last thread I remember her in she typed out a super long s*** piece and then locked the thread immediately after so nobody could even reply. That's corny.

  • TIIMMY BURNER

    What I would do personally remains to be seen. I've raised a baby, it's not the end of the world, but raising a baby you didn't want is hard. I had a lot of disdain when I took the baby in because I did not want it. I imagine forcing a nigga to be a dad that didn't want it is a lot of the same. I came around to the baby, but not everybody does and sometimes by forcing parenthood on someone you end creating a s***ty parent instead of this magical 'loving 2 parent home' people keep spouting off about in this thread.

    I know one thing for certain, anytime I've even accidentally c***in a girl I was getting plan b the next day. I make it very clearly to anyone I'm f***ing I don't do kids, and in times of a scare I have no been afraid to bring up the idea of an abortion. Now have I been in a situation where a girl was truly pregnant and refused one? No.

    EDIT:

    And yes if she actually ever contributed. Last thread I remember her in she typed out a super long s*** piece and then locked the thread immediately after so nobody could even reply. That's corny.

    I see where u coming from bro
    U raised a baby already respect to that. I just don’t feel the father should be a deadbeat. Long as he paying fair child support that’s his decision to not see the kid at the end of the day

    And that’s good on u for being responsible. A lot of niggas but abs don’t think twice about it.

    Lol yeah I feel u in that last part tho

  • Sep 19, 2021
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    My closest friend has a kid because a chick texted him 8 months pregnant out the blue and said "I'm 8 months, it's yours and I'm keeping it". Homie didn't even have a chance to go for any plan of action. She has him on child support.

  • im the same person on and offline

  • Sep 19, 2021
    TIIMMY BURNER

    You should teach a s***ed class you've clearly got all the ins and outs of s***figured out I believe with your help we can stop all unwanted pregnancies!

    On a serious note though, you can't simply say have absolutely perfect s***every time and all risks of pregnancy are moot as a means to discredit the thread, and especially can't expect everyone to follow through with that realistically. There's young people having s***right now still tryna figure the s*** out and you want them hitting everything on the head. Not realistic, and as such, doesn't really invalidate anything said anywhere but in your fantasy world where everyone having s***is pull out gods with non-fail contraceptives.

    I mean, those things simply fall under accidents lol, so no, that's not enough for me to be like "yeah it's okay just don't face the consequences of your actions". I literally know these things because of me having s***when i'm young and having pregnancy scares

    just cause something is unplanned or accidental doesn't absolve you lmao. and whether or not people don't take safe s***seriously isn't my problem, just don't be surprised when called out for running from responsibility.

    "this was an accident and i never wanted this" is not a justification to not take care of your kid

  • Sep 19, 2021
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    Shy

    My closest friend has a kid because a chick texted him 8 months pregnant out the blue and said "I'm 8 months, it's yours and I'm keeping it". Homie didn't even have a chance to go for any plan of action. She has him on child support.

    like didn't blood test or anything?

  • Sep 19, 2021
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    rami

    like didn't blood test or anything?

    Yeah. It was his.

  • Sep 19, 2021
    Shy

    Yeah. It was his.

    oh lmao, get f***ed then

    18 years

  • Sep 19, 2021
    TIIMMY BURNER

    What I would do personally remains to be seen. I've raised a baby, it's not the end of the world, but raising a baby you didn't want is hard. I had a lot of disdain when I took the baby in because I did not want it. I imagine forcing a nigga to be a dad that didn't want it is a lot of the same. I came around to the baby, but not everybody does and sometimes by forcing parenthood on someone you end creating a s***ty parent instead of this magical 'loving 2 parent home' people keep spouting off about in this thread.

    I know one thing for certain, anytime I've even accidentally c***in a girl I was getting plan b the next day. I make it very clearly to anyone I'm f***ing I don't do kids, and in times of a scare I have no been afraid to bring up the idea of an abortion. Now have I been in a situation where a girl was truly pregnant and refused one? No.

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    And yes if she actually ever contributed. Last thread I remember her in she typed out a super long s*** piece and then locked the thread immediately after so nobody could even reply. That's corny.

    this is a lot of nuance that is missed or just not in most of these arguments that are agreeing with you

    i do agree with this sentiment of "it would be better for the child to not be around that person" but that's why child support is a thing.

  • Sep 19, 2021
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    i wonder what @Chip_Skylark thinks

  • Sep 19, 2021

    op on ovo payroll

  • Sep 19, 2021
    TIIMMY BURNER

    Condoms fail in a number of ways. Precum could seap out or that motherfucker could flat out tear. Never had a condom tear on you?

    nope and if i'm with someone idk like that, i'm not keeping it in there anyway. if it isn't understood that we wouldn't keep the kid, i'm not staying in.

  • Sep 19, 2021

    interesting debate on both sides

  • Sep 19, 2021
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    TIIMMY BURNER

    In my opinion, it takes two to make a child. If early in the pregnancy a man asks you to have an abortion, and you refuse, you're acknowledging he wanted nothing to do with the kid early and still choosing to go through with it. That's not on him.

    I say this because in the same vain, if a woman is the one in the relationship that decides she isn't ready and gets an abortion there is nothing seen as wrong there. Would y'all agree?

    S***ty morals/logic or s***ty troll. Sorry likely both

  • Sep 19, 2021
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    Shy

    My closest friend has a kid because a chick texted him 8 months pregnant out the blue and said "I'm 8 months, it's yours and I'm keeping it". Homie didn't even have a chance to go for any plan of action. She has him on child support.

    No your closest friend has a kid because he had sex...some of yall are a different kind of dumb

  • Sep 19, 2021
    MM6 Moka

    Is it gon turn my balls into Chernobyl

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    RIP PRINCE

    i wonder what @Chip_Skylark thinks

    Staying out of this one pal

  • Sep 19, 2021
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    chip skylark

    Staying out of this one pal

    man said

  • Sep 19, 2021
    math fifty

    man said

    Lowkey that’s a solid move this s*** 29 pages for a reason

  • Sep 19, 2021
    Ninethlevel

    No your closest friend has a kid because he had sex...some of yall are a different kind of dumb

    Don't be so hard on yourself.

  • VA7a

    so you’re telling me it’s fine for you to abandon an entire child that needs nurturing by both parents? you decided to nut in someone and get her pregnant it takes two to tango.

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