"what do you do for fun?" "Nothing"

i also struggle with this

Youre probably just more introverted and I think theres nothing good or bad about that. everyone is just different.

sometimes i need to be alone but I also get lonely if I dont talk to people for awhile

i havent attempted to socialize in years

like i fw my peoples for sure

but like new ppl? ???

Yeah u don't have a problem then

That idea is so intimidating to me

If I'm around people we need to be like doing something

thats reassuring to hear! when ive talked about it people before they really dont know where im coming from.

what have you done to ameliorate it?

Ive done both extremes at different phrases in my life where I try to only get people to talk about themsleves (but in a genuine way about things im also interested in) and then tried to let go of anxiety and be more stream of consciousness.

nowadays im in the middle where i share antidotes about myself if I think the other people will enjoy it and spur on more conversation. im more selective about what I share.

But I also think my ratio of the two is not fine tuned enough compare to other people I meet who are just very self aware and social

what kinds of things do u usually do with people??

honestly I love talking to new people, which is why i overthink this stuff because I wanna talk to more new people.

Ive met really cool people even if its transient and temporary travelling or living other places because of that skill and it made me a more well rounded person i think

I'm pretty introverted, but on the rare occasion that I am choosing to spend time with people it's like either going somewhere like a store or like watching a movie or attending an event like a convention or something

what kinda conventions have you gone to?
Ive been to comic cons a few times and really enjoyed it

It's never like "hey come sit at my house because I feel like being around someone" or vice versa

That's horrible to me

It’s aite to be too real

oh interesting

this is the foundation of almost all my relationships

But also the spirit of adventure must be cultivated

Just like random comic or anime conventions

Usually it's something my brother finds and I know most of his friends as well so I'm like included in the group lol

very cool!
conventions are so fun

you get to really nerd out and find new things

ppl r so judgy

I feel like that's the type of thing that makes people get closer to one another and I'm bad about that a little

Like there's almost no one I choose to just be around because I enjoy being around them

The more anime focused ones aren't my thing, but usually there's like other little booths/shops that are more broad that interest me

And it's a spectacle

some people are! some people arent. You just remember the judgy and lame people more sometimes because they stick out.

it definetly can do that but only if its something both people enjoy.

You just gotta find people who are likeminded and also enjoy events over casual conversation like that and youll also get closer that way

If it's like a complete stranger and we end up talking just based on coincidence that's a bit better for me

Because I know like that's it

That's when I usually end up having better conversations tbh

ya ive never been to an anime one but the weebs def show out at comic cons and its def a spectacle.

an anime one would be funny for sure