Ok chat time for some echi irl situations lore cause the boy is somewhat stuck at an impasse rn and I would appreciate some perspective!
Part 1
ok so basically the situation rn is that im currently planning on going back to NL to further finish my degree finally right but for the past month I haven't been able to secure a place yet and with the semester starting rn I can't afford to waste any more time. Yday my mom came to me with a proposition which is that I can stay at my sister's place for like 3-4 months so that I can be there and start making moves ala secure a place for myself/start working there and possible can do my school stuff as well. Thing w that is that because im paying her monthly somethin (which is fine w me) is that id be losing money that I can use to pay for my own place if i find something. But then again id be working so it wouldn't be all too bad. My only doubts are that whatif in those 3-4 months i fail to get a place then i wouldnt kno what to do. If i take this decision id possibly then leave like next week
Part 2
And what I currently have to do for my school is kinda of a small thesis that requieres me sometimes to be there but ive recently talked to my study coach about possibly doin it remotely because of the situation im in and they told me they will talk it out w other teachers and lmk if i can. The doubt here with that is that what if i go there and they tell me that I unfortunately can't then id kinda be there just to work and not much else until the next semester in Feb. Now with this all in mind the other option for me is to just avoid all that and just stay here a lil longer till like January to work and save up some more and then try again to find a place. The issue with that is that I prolong my studies again by a bit and assuming i pass everything i would graduate in like january/feb 2027 as opposed to if i go now and can do everything id graduate in summer next year.
Conclusion
its just the doubt of going back w some uncertainty vs staying here and prolonging even more has me going back n forth about what to do w my life rn. Ive just been feeling hella stuck because of this and I don't want to spend more time being like this cause it's lowkey starting to affect me emotionally
TLDR
got 2 decisions that I keep going back n forth on and dunno what to do hehe
Just go dude. Finishing your degree should be the top priority
Also, I’m sure your sister will understand if you haven’t found a place to live within 3-4 months if she knows you’ve been actively looking and not dragging your feet
What's that
Bad bunny
What’s going on with brother/sister echi
Read some pages ago he vented and asked our opinion
Tried to strike up a conversation about it in here the other day but I got aired
Shoulda @early
Read some pages ago he vented and asked our opinion
Found it brother thank you
Tried to strike up a conversation about it in here the other day but I got aired
U prolly posted when the jokesters were itt
Niggas itt love it
Ok chat time for some echi irl situations lore cause the boy is somewhat stuck at an impasse rn and I would appreciate some perspective!
Part 1
ok so basically the situation rn is that im currently planning on going back to NL to further finish my degree finally right but for the past month I haven't been able to secure a place yet and with the semester starting rn I can't afford to waste any more time. Yday my mom came to me with a proposition which is that I can stay at my sister's place for like 3-4 months so that I can be there and start making moves ala secure a place for myself/start working there and possible can do my school stuff as well. Thing w that is that because im paying her monthly somethin (which is fine w me) is that id be losing money that I can use to pay for my own place if i find something. But then again id be working so it wouldn't be all too bad. My only doubts are that whatif in those 3-4 months i fail to get a place then i wouldnt kno what to do. If i take this decision id possibly then leave like next week
Part 2
And what I currently have to do for my school is kinda of a small thesis that requieres me sometimes to be there but ive recently talked to my study coach about possibly doin it remotely because of the situation im in and they told me they will talk it out w other teachers and lmk if i can. The doubt here with that is that what if i go there and they tell me that I unfortunately can't then id kinda be there just to work and not much else until the next semester in Feb. Now with this all in mind the other option for me is to just avoid all that and just stay here a lil longer till like January to work and save up some more and then try again to find a place. The issue with that is that I prolong my studies again by a bit and assuming i pass everything i would graduate in like january/feb 2027 as opposed to if i go now and can do everything id graduate in summer next year.
Conclusion
its just the doubt of going back w some uncertainty vs staying here and prolonging even more has me going back n forth about what to do w my life rn. Ive just been feeling hella stuck because of this and I don't want to spend more time being like this cause it's lowkey starting to affect me emotionally
TLDR
got 2 decisions that I keep going back n forth on and dunno what to do hehe
Go king
ya which is why im stuck
here is basically "do i want to graduate even later in exchange for maybe a bit more certainty of goin back next year"
Oh no I mean I was asking current which do you think makes sense to you without much thought just answer it
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If echo ham goes back to Europe he will be in a vastly different time zone. Ktt just won’t be the same. But maybe it’s his time to go there and begin anew life
Just go dude. Finishing your degree should be the top priority
Also, I’m sure your sister will understand if you haven’t found a place to live within 3-4 months if she knows you’ve been actively looking and not dragging your feet
This too
A good silbing will understand specially if like Echi said he is helping with expenses
Honestly if echi my brother he staying the time he needs
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@echiham obviously idk the whole context but i would take up the offer and move with ur sister and figure things out there instead of delaying it further.
First because i feel being there u will be able to search easier + idk ur relationship with ur sister but i feel its fine right
ya im not goin w someone i despise or anything. And ur right it is easier to find something there as opposed to me being all the way here. Im just afraid i guess of things not rlly working out and getting redacted there. Cause ive had bad experiences regarding that before I came back here and I don't wanna experience all that again.
PTSD inducing lowkey..
Bladee - Reality Surf really the greatest song ever
Feel like I’m floating an inch off the ground when I’m walking around with that in the headphones
Echi gives off he doesn't rinse his dishes vibes. His sister should bar the door.
Tried to strike up a conversation about it in here the other day but I got aired
u need to @early for that Orangutan
Echi gives off he doesn't rinse his dishes vibes. His sister should bar the door.
We use paper plates and plastic utensils on this side
ya im not goin w someone i despise or anything. And ur right it is easier to find something there as opposed to me being all the way here. Im just afraid i guess of things not rlly working out and getting redacted there. Cause ive had bad experiences regarding that before I came back here and I don't wanna experience all that again.
PTSD inducing lowkey..
