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  • Aug 5, 2025
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    frenchpress

    waow. nort i hope you never become single again but if you do just know you will get eaten alive

    Bro is literally being #metoo'd at work but you think he's a novice

  • Nort 💫
    Aug 5, 2025
    Purrp

    Bro admitted defeat in the first 10 words

    well

  • Aug 5, 2025
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    frenchpress

    waow. nort i hope you never become single again but if you do just know you will get eaten alive

    Nort is really tall IRL and having a goofy endearing personality. He the type to win on dating apps.

  • Nort 💫
    Aug 5, 2025
    internet buddy

    Bro is literally being #metoo'd at work but you think he's a novice

  • Purrp 🌚
    Aug 5, 2025
    Br00ses

    I think your first mistake was telling her that she didn't need to message you on her vacation

    Because that's obvious and the only real message it communicates is you aren't all that interested in her

    Which like yeah don't come across as desperate but don't paint the image that you just don't care at all

    I mean fair, I was trying to be like mindful of the fact she was busy and I didn’t want to feel she was obligated to text me if she was busy

    But that makes sense too. I didn’t mean that ofc

  • Aug 5, 2025
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    WESLEYS THEORY

    IMO yes

    Ghosting is so much worse than just being told they aren’t interested and would like to cease conversation. Being ghosted leaves you to wonder what you did wrong and feeling a complete lack of closure for something you felt emotionally invested in.

    It's not ghosting if you say something first

  • Aug 5, 2025
    WESLEYS THEORY

    Nort is really tall IRL and having a goofy endearing personality. He the type to win on dating apps.

    oh right... the rng...

  • Purrp 🌚
    Aug 5, 2025
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    Nort

    OR… riskier move

    you send the long text that says “I still think about you, and I know you don’t owe me your time, but if you remember feeling anything between us, please.. leave your phone. come to mine.”

    There was an earthquake in nyc which made me think of how you shook my world when you left ..

  • Nort 💫
    Aug 5, 2025
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    but in this situation I really would just call it a wrap and keep searching for my bride

  • Aug 5, 2025
    Nort

    but in this situation I really would just call it a wrap and keep searching for my bride

    yep

  • Nort 💫
    Aug 5, 2025
    Purrp

    There was an earthquake in nyc which made me think of how you shook my world when you left ..

    LMFAO

    you could say this and maybe she’d find it funny and respond

  • Aug 5, 2025
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    Could always go with the ol fashioned "hey u left me on read haha"

  • Purrp 🌚
    Aug 5, 2025

    Ugh I guess I’ll unpause the account but I’m sick ugh

  • Aug 5, 2025
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    internet buddy

    It's not ghosting if you say something first

    So if they cease messenging you in the middle of the talking stage, that’s not ghosting?

  • Aug 5, 2025
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    WESLEYS THEORY

    Nort is really tall IRL and having a goofy endearing personality. He the type to win on dating apps.

    And hwite

  • Purrp 🌚
    Aug 5, 2025
    EchiSlayyy

    Could always go with the ol fashioned "hey u left me on read haha"

    LMAOOOOO

  • Br00ses 🐇
    Aug 5, 2025
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    If she is interested she will come to you though

    You did a little high risk maneuver of "hey don't worry about talking to me"

    And now she isn't worried about it

  • Aug 5, 2025
    internet buddy

    And hwite

  • Nort 💫
    Aug 5, 2025
    EchiSlayyy

    Could always go with the ol fashioned "hey u left me on read haha"

  • Aug 5, 2025
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    WESLEYS THEORY

    So if they cease messenging you in the middle of the talking stage, that’s not ghosting?

    Not if they say "I'm not feeling you" first

  • Aug 5, 2025
    EchiSlayyy

    Could always go with the ol fashioned "hey u left me on read haha"

    🤡

  • Nort 💫
    Aug 5, 2025

    say “erm.. so this is awkward 👉👈”

  • Aug 5, 2025
    Br00ses

    If she is interested she will come to you though

    You did a little high risk maneuver of "hey don't worry about talking to me"

    And now she isn't worried about it

    big fax

  • Purrp 🌚
    Aug 5, 2025
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    Br00ses

    If she is interested she will come to you though

    You did a little high risk maneuver of "hey don't worry about talking to me"

    And now she isn't worried about it

    I figured I’d hear from her sometime this week tbh but every day seems a lil less likely

  • Aug 5, 2025
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    internet buddy

    Not if they say "I'm not feeling you" first

    Oh yeah fs

    I meant like not messenging you back completely and just leaving you hanging out to dry.