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  • Jun 22, 2021

    sorry joining late. What page are mom pics on if any

  • Jun 22, 2021
    Majin GoldenChild

    Talk to emmmmmm

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    @op Any mortgage lender encouraging your mother to use your credit to close a mortgage then refinance after a year when her credit score is 480 is on some shady s***. They know she isn’t likely to be able to maintain the payments in the long run.

    Without a sizable down payment, her monthly payments are going to be high. They will also make her pay for mortgage insurance on top of her monthly payments. This is just a really bad idea. I know it’s your mother, but you need to say no. Doesn’t matter how she or anyone in her ear takes it.

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    Twist Your Cap

    "Well, yes, under federal law, the fact that you filed bankruptcy can stay on your credit report for up to 10 years. This is true for all types of bankruptcy. But, Chapter 13 bankruptcy stays on your credit report for only seven years from the filing date"

    In real world scenarios this won’t matter because his future income and repayment history will supersede a bankruptcy which occurred while he was just a student.

    The way banks evaluate you on a loan is holistic.

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    Birdie

    In real world scenarios this won’t matter because his future income and repayment history will supersede a bankruptcy which occurred while he was just a student.

    The way banks evaluate you on a loan is holistic.

    holy s*** man lmao

  • Jun 22, 2021
    Twist Your Cap

    This is a HUGE deal, what if he needs a school loan, there are so many issues here that can f*** him for a long time

    Federal loans don’t look at your credit history

    No one should be taking out private loans at all

  • Jun 22, 2021
    Twist Your Cap

    This is a HUGE deal, what if he needs a school loan, there are so many issues here that can f*** him for a long time

    you could be on your death bed with a negative credit score and can still get a student loan

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    Twist Your Cap

    holy s*** man lmao

    You’re talking to a financial auditor who has experience with this lol

  • Jun 22, 2021
    Majin GoldenChild

    Talk to emmmmmm

    You on his d***

  • Jun 22, 2021
    notglasspopcorn

    she's not gonna stop paying, you find a way if that happens including loss of job insurance, you can rent a room out, in fact these days you can rent a room and get 75% of the mortgage payment, if not you can live there and pay something, 300k is like 1k a month on mortgage, keep a few hundred every month to the side in case something happens where she cant pay then you take over and its your house and you rent it all out, a house thats 300k right now gonna be worth 500k in a few years, you never lose if you're not dumb.

    Since his mother wants to enforce this terrible deal onto him, I assume she's not huge on business. This means OP will have to risk renting a room in his house, that he didn't even want to buy, all of this during college.

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    Birdie

    You’re talking to a financial auditor who has experience with this lol

    Holy s*** you're a financial auditor????????? And you don't think this is bonkers???????????

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I'M F***ING DYING MAN

  • I have to exit this I'm losing my mind lmao

  • Jun 22, 2021
    Birdie

    You’re talking to a financial auditor who has experience with this lol

    You're the guy who's scamming his mom lol

  • Jun 22, 2021

    i’m sorry but LMFAOOOOOOOOO

  • Jun 22, 2021
    Twist Your Cap

    Holy s*** you're a financial auditor????????? And you don't think this is bonkers???????????

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I'M F***ING DYING MAN

    Yea because I understand the implications of bankruptcy and it’s not a big if he doesn’t have any major plans for big purchases in next 5 years

    He literally said he just starting college

    Next 4 years of his life are in school

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    I like how y’all pretend to know what you’re talking about

    OP go get a free consultation with a financial planner (CFA) or bankruptcy lawyer they’ll tell you the same

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    Birdie

    I like how y’all pretend to know what you’re talking about

    OP go get a free consultation with a financial planner (CFA) or bankruptcy lawyer they’ll tell you the same

    You think a financial planner is gonna advise him to buy the house then declare bankruptcy?

  • Jun 22, 2021

    I would honestly let the bank take the house and do bankruptcy on purpose to spite the b****

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    GIO GIO

    You think a financial planner is gonna advise him to buy the house then declare bankruptcy?

    Not as a first option but I’m saying this as contingency in case he can’t stop his mom

    His life won’t be f***ed

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    story of my life tbh. i feel for you op. parents are very manipulative when it comes to finances and it’s sad cause you don’t really know how to handle it, especially when you’re young they will take advantage

  • Jun 22, 2021
    Champion Holle

    OP to Single mother in need of help: “get it out the mud then”

    If it was a father: “yeah I got you, you’ll pay it back someday”

    Made up a narrative in your head

    If it was a father weirdos like you wouldn't defend this behavior

  • Jun 22, 2021
    GIO GIO

    You think a financial planner is gonna advise him to buy the house then declare bankruptcy?

    s*** has me in tears lmao

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    Birdie

    Not as a first option but I’m saying this as contingency in case he can’t stop his mom

    His life won’t be f***ed

    no they would suggest reporting her for fraud

  • Jun 22, 2021

    Y’all have zero understanding on context fr

  • Jun 22, 2021
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    Twist Your Cap

    no they would suggest reporting her for fraud

    Except this isn’t fraud

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