Imo you can separate the men from the boys based on who willing to step up in certain scenarios 🤷🏽♂️
basically
A nigga's worst nightmare...
You don’t even gotta fight the nigga. But if it’s a big group of friends and nobody step up, y’all b****es. And just off your energy I know you a b**** too. 9/10 wouldn’t even look my way if you seen me outside. So move yo b**** ass around lil bro.
Maybe i'm biased because where i'm from your never ever try to play the hero or break up a fight, but i understand this happened in a different place which is basically a different reality so idk.
It's just that i understand being upset about not getting any help in this awful situation, but getting so angry at the people that were nearby for not doing anything doesn't feel right. People are not obligated to (possibly) risk themselfs to help you, that's what the police is for.
It’s hard to judge the situation based on that
Just because I have a p**** doesn’t mean I can stop someone with a brick tbh, I’m going to assume that it happened fast and the men weren’t close enough to help quickly. She’s obviously going through a lot of trauma so she’s blaming the people who were bystanders but we don’t know that it was their fault
A brick is a potentially lethal weapon. Sacrificing your life for a stranger is brave and kind but shouldn’t be expected. Expecting men to be attack dogs with no self preservation is toxic masculinity
In her situation, those niggas were p**** because they let their homie do that to her.
But in general, I can’t blame a guy for minding his business during a DV between strangers.
It’s f***ed up but at the same time you don’t know what kind of mfs your dealing with when you step in, so unless you got a weapon or know how to defend yourself properly, 9/10 you’re gonna end up in a terrible spot.
Damned if you do, Damned if you don’t
Maybe i'm biased because where i'm from your never ever try to play the hero or break up a fight, but i understand this happened in a different place which is basically a different reality so idk.
It's just that i understand being upset about not getting any help in this awful situation, but getting so angry at the people that were nearby for not doing anything doesn't feel right. People are not obligated to (possibly) risk themselfs to help you, that's what the police is for.
Dawg it was a group of friends around the nigga and they sat there and watched lol they could’ve easily gotten to dude to prevent him from getting that far. Whether it’s a nah bro chill or yell out 12 is here or some s***. And if it got physical dude would’ve been outnumbered. This whole don’t play hero stuff is wild because black men were just preaching about helping each other and community when those niggas in Alabama helped that guard. I’d rather people just admit they’re scared of other black men and stop beating around the bush. I’m from Chicago and have seen people step in to stop s*** plenty of times and was able to still go home to their families if they have them. It just depends on if you scary or not for the most part. Nah she had every right to be mad, cause why as men are you comfortable seeing a nigga bug up with a shorty for getting rejected to the point he had to go pick up and brick and rock her with it? That’s just b****made to me. That whole situation could’ve been handled if one of them niggas at least spoke up. He wasn’t gonna get crazy with a group of niggas more than likely.
A brick is a potentially lethal weapon. Sacrificing your life for a stranger is brave and kind but shouldn’t be expected. Expecting men to be attack dogs with no self preservation is toxic masculinity
So if your mom or sister got attacked, you wouldn’t want anyone to step up and help her? Even tho in that moment they would be wishing a man would step in to stop it?
Ay someone posted a tweet of his itt but folks been going crazy
This is definitely how I feel about all the mfs that be talking big s*** on here and twitter that’s having a moment lmao.
So if your mom or sister got attacked, you wouldn’t want anyone to step up and help her? Even tho in that moment they would be wishing a man would step in to stop it?
Of course we all would but I can’t be mad at some dude if they feel like that’s unsafe/would only further escalate things. You don’t have to get physically involved to help either, call a ambulance or police watch over her and make sure she’s ok but if you feel like it could be lethal then don’t get involved that’s common sense we aren’t superheroes
I still agree with your general sentiment tho
Of course we all would but I can’t be mad at some dude if they feel like that’s unsafe/would only further escalate things. You don’t have to get physically involved to help either, call a ambulance or police watch over her and make sure she’s ok but if you feel like it could be lethal then don’t get involved that’s common sense we aren’t superheroes
I still agree with your general sentiment tho
I mean I said you can be like chill brah or say 12 is coming lol. But not doing anything at all and saying “not my problem” especially after everyone was singing a different song when that man In Alabama got helped is ridiculous to me.
So if your mom or sister got attacked, you wouldn’t want anyone to step up and help her? Even tho in that moment they would be wishing a man would step in to stop it?
From a selfish standpoint of course
I mean I said you can be like chill brah or say 12 is coming lol. But not doing anything at all and saying “not my problem” especially after everyone was singing a different song when that man In Alabama got helped is ridiculous to me.
I hadn’t read the earlier pages my bad, agree with you 100%
You can't make this up
All this proves is that she's corny, but not deserving of being hit by brick.
I’ve been in a situation like this a couple years back where a man was brutally beating his wife while his toddlers were watching and screaming. When I hit the corner as I was coming from the liquor store, in a split second I see a bloody nosed screaming woman running towards me far down the sidewalk then a short and stocky buff man rushes out the door and pushes her to the ground. I ran to the man as he tried to go back to the lady and stood between the two, even going as far as to push the man back with full force and assert to him that I’m not letting him near her and he needs to stop acting like that in front of his kids and he soon backed off and escaped while the cop sirens rang off
And looking back that was an unwise decision. He could’ve had anything on him. But idk I just think it’s so easy for people to say that doing nothing is the more realistic outcome when in reality I feel like you get more of an urge to get involved when s*** gets extreme like that. Like for example I wasn’t even thinking when I did that s*** it was a reflex lol
If I think I can take him I’ll try but if dude is swole as f*** or looks like they got a weapon on em, a quick “ HEY!” will have to suffice
And my above post is not a moral stance btw, it’s just my take on what the ‘realistic’ human course of action is here. That needs to be said with how this thread is going lmao
It's not gonna be awkward standing around watching a woman get beat with a brick, stabbed, or shot at because she didn't give a random dude her number...?
internet brain is amazing.
i mean if this makes sense to you sure. I’m starting to accept there’s real life logic and then there’s being the best internet debater lol. I don’t know how I’m supposed to respond to you pretending you don’t see the difference between how daily life with your significant other/female relative/mother/etc is gonna be strained from that type of situation and you not doing nothing vs. you not jumping into a random situation. It may be in the back of your head like you shoulda did something but for the most part that’s not interrupting your daily life the way that the relationship would change if you let that happen to your girl
You know this though lol
Nigga said saying “aye brah that’s unnecessary” is risking your life. B****made ass niggas g lmao. There’s multiple ways to go about a situation like that.
He frisbee that s*** in your teeth now you lost confused and bloody cause you ain’t been in a physical confrontation since the Obama administration (maybe not u personally but you get my point nigga lol)
S*** be sounding good af on a screen lol
Lmaooo at saying “that’s unnecessary” to a nigga in mid swing of a f***in brick up against the side of a woman’s head cause she didn’t wanna give out her number
Read that out loud gang. Lmao you either going all the way in or you need to mind your b**** ass business