Thought I was the only one who referred to my jawn as “my b**** wife”

Sounds to me this person isn't all that fascinating to their girlfriend either. But they haven't realized that yet because they have their head so far up their own ass to notice the signs she has been giving.

smd

Very secure and rational perspective

that struck a nerve

Nah I just don't know why you getting so defensive about a concept you're presenting lol

No, I'm sayign what you said struck a nerve

Oh lmao my bad I wasn't even aware you were referring to yourself or your current situation

But what you're experiencing is pretty common. For both genders honestly. There are many people who just stay with somebody because of the other aspects of the relationship that fulfil their needs.

I went through something similar with a girl who was supposed to be a lil short-term couple of months fling, but it ended up going on throughout the year. We both didn't fully connect on some of our hobbies/interests/views, but we both enjoyed our other traits and the perks that came with our time together so we were together for awhile longer.

We eventually mutually ended the relationship because we agreed we were probably wasting one another's time since we could tell we likely weren't that one for one another. Gotta say we're still great friends and we still support one another in our life and careers so it all worked out

If you really feel there's a fundamental difference in worldview/values then that could be a sign that it's not supposed to work out long term

But also the dude above makes good points, it could also be an issue of being closed-minded/taking the other person for granted/not respecting them & looking down on the aspects where you differ, really it's up to you to figure out whether you're done the required introspection & whether those differences are reconcilable or not

whats this guy on about

Crine that’s exactly what I’m going through right now

If she's boring you this much, y'all ain't a good fit. Better as friends so you don't waste each other's time, but this convo needs to be had

Damn this is actually a tough scenario man

You’ve described every relationship in Europe

The grass ain’t greener bruh

You’re lost if you can’t see beauty in the feminine, you want a more masculine kick find u some homies. Can’t expect ur girl to fill that role and simulate your every intellectual need, females just ain’t wired like that in fact you give them the ick and turn them off when u overload them with your depth.

On the off chance when u find a girl that matches ur intellect and substance the dynamic turns into a cat and mouse, it will feel more like living with a roommate then a partner by ur side

Why are sopranos accounts always so extra

need that

I had one girlfriend that always had to be right. Never again

That’s a you problem

Since u never experienced what it’s like to have true camaraderie it’s the reason why ur seeking it in women, and you’ll never fill that hole this way with that mindset

You might just be a sensitive young man in that case u carry lot of baggage and no women will be with u long term, u need to check urself bruh

it's not real love IE you care about her and have love for her but you don't really love her. that's what i'd tell you if you were my homie confessing this to me @op i'd tell you to break up with her before she falls more for you and it gets harder and the longer you wait the harder it'll be for both of you

“My b**** wife” got me dying

when op gets a “you’re craaazy” response to his Charlie Kirk joke

Ktt attempts to understand women