Is there a reason why they may be cold towards you and your ma? Y'all had any beef in the past or sumn?
No, my mom said they started separating themselves when she was younger and made sure their kids did the same thing. I haven’t seen them in years.
no you shouldn't have a say..
it's not for you to decide
It’s not for me to decide but I ain’t going out my way. I’m going to make a lil Facebook post and say something generic just so I can tell my aunt I invited them.
I ain’t gone be sneaky but I’m not going out my way to communicate with them.
What? I haven’t done anything to them. They’ve been excluding me since I was a kid. They don’t need my permission to go on a trip but they would get all the cousins my age, go on trips, and never once ask me to go. They’d have birthdays, go to fun place, and then come back to my grandmother and brag.
I’m not a hater, I just want to reciprocate the energy they’ve been giving. They will like each others Facebook posts and never once wish me a happy birthday or like my posts. Not even a congratulations or anything.
How would you feel knowing they don’t like you and now you’re supposed to go out of your way to invite them to a trip?
I genuinely wouldn’t care, cause I’m just that much of a real Nigga
but do you know they don’t like you or is it just an assumption?
they probably spent more time together as children and probably have a different bond.
If you don’t know anything about the vacations then that’ means either they’re hiding it from you or you don’t check up on each other often enough.
Tbh I figure if people don’t reach out they don’t wanna be bothered, that could be the case. I doubt they hate you because of your mom.
So you’re trying to exclude people from the vacation your aunt is paying for due to your own personal petty drama? That doesn’t even make sense
So you’re trying to exclude people from the vacation your aunt is paying for due to your own personal petty drama? That doesn’t even make sense
maybe trying to look out for her, people could take advatange of her
this the nigga who mom bought a 10k bird when she owed money?
this prolly another reason why rest of family wants nothihg to do w yall