Dec 17, 2023@op if you don’t want your cousins on the trip then tell your aunt and explain why
But if she still chooses to bring them along you either deal with it or remove yourself from the trip altogether
Because at the end of the day your aunt is paying for the whole thing
Dec 17, 2023·1 replyNeed more info, if all they did was not say hi to you or wish you happy birthday in the way you wanted then that’s not enough for them to be kicked out of the family tbh
Dec 17, 2023Tell auntie I said hey
Dec 17, 2023Lmao
WINTER 🌨️Dec 17, 2023·1 reply
OakIf I’m helping organize I should have a say in who gets an invite. It’s wrong to feel that way I know but they started this.
no you shouldn't have a say..
it's not for you to decide
Dec 17, 2023he’s baaaaaaack
Dec 17, 2023Maybe OP should exclude himself instead
Dec 17, 2023the audacity to make this troll thread, i told my friend your aunt won the lottery and he thought it was amazing now i have to explain that it is all a lie
- Dec 17, 2023·1 reply
im really high rn and the fact that you arent all calling op out for trolling is rly f***ing with my head to the point where i think i might be trapped in an alternate dimension
Dec 17, 2023·1 replywhitegirlim really high rn and the fact that you arent all calling op out for trolling is rly f***ing with my head to the point where i think i might be trapped in an alternate dimension
nah u just dont know oak like that.
i would say he was trolling but dude been making threads like this for almost a yr now, never breaks character. and he posts photo evidence sometimes too
- Dec 17, 2023·1 replyslimreapercantrap
nah u just dont know oak like that.
i would say he was trolling but dude been making threads like this for almost a yr now, never breaks character. and he posts photo evidence sometimes too
Man ur probably right and that s*** is crazy as f*** like damn, I been seen his threads it's like so hard to believe tho
- Dec 17, 2023whitegirl
Man ur probably right and that s*** is crazy as f*** like damn, I been seen his threads it's like so hard to believe tho
dawg is surreal
Dec 17, 2023big dog giovanniWinning 650k and immediately planning an island vacation..That money ain’t gonna last long
Don’t most peeps that win the lottery go broke?
Dec 17, 2023yes you are in the wrong invite them dont be a sourpuss
Dec 17, 2023OakI have tried she isn’t considering the way my cousins treated me.
It ain't about you and it's not just about you. If you don't wanna be there because of the cousins, then tell your aunt, but she can invite whoever she wants because she holds the check.
Dec 17, 2023based on all your posts here I can 100% underwood why some of your family is not fw lol
- Dec 17, 2023Oak
I have tried she isn’t considering the way my cousins treated me.
The trip ain’t your birthday party bro lmao what does that have to do with anything
It’s a family reunion and she’s paying. If she wants everyone there then invite everyone
If you really gonna be sensitive about it tell her you aren’t gonna organize it and don’t go. Let all the “insecure” people have a good time and you chill at home
Dead af at you saying some of your fam don’t deserve to go like you king of the family line or something
Dec 17, 2023·1 replyOakIt’s not only that. They act weird in person. They’ve always excluded my mother and I from events. Even when I was a kid they would exclude me. It’s not just the Facebook part, but a compilation of their ways that frustrate me
Is there a reason why they may be cold towards you and your ma? Y'all had any beef in the past or sumn?
Dec 17, 2023Oh this the nigga whose mom bought a 7k parrot
- Dec 17, 2023🤖
!dream op and his mom on an island with parrots
Dec 17, 2023·1 replyOakSo if some of your family constantly excluded you from vacations, birthdays, and other events, you’d still invite them to a once in a lifetime trip?
@op you ever seen a b**** ass nigga that was so much of a b**** you get mad looking at em? They probably lost all respect for u if this how u act fr.
If I gotta get my cousins permission to go out of town for Vacation I’d look down when I see his b**** ass too.
If a nigga started pouting bc I dm’d them happy birthday We not cool no more
The f*** you acting like NBA Youngboy for?
Dec 17, 2023big dog giovanniWinning 650k and immediately planning an island vacation..That money ain’t gonna last long
A 50k+ (if its even that expensive) one time trip to celebrate with your family isnt a big deal lol
- OPDec 18, 20232words
Need more info, if all they did was not say hi to you or wish you happy birthday in the way you wanted then that’s not enough for them to be kicked out of the family tbh
It’s more than that. They always take trips and do not invite anyone to their birthdays/cleebrations. It’s more so the feeling of knowing that if they won, they would definitely exclude my aunt and I.
- OPDec 18, 2023Water Giver
You are not paying for it and its not for you - no
All you are doing is creating more and potentially new issues that can now affect your aunt and others
Just because, for example, a friend asks you to help organize a wedding as the best man doesnt mean you selfishly make it about yourself and exclude the people you personally dont like even tho they still have a connection to the wedders - its not your event nor your "moment"
This isnt about you nor does it have anything to do with you outside of helping your aint who is also graciously invting you as well - when she didnt have to share any money with anyone
Mention it to your aint, but dont be a sneaky b**** that causes issues when no one knows the full scope
They dont like you
And this isnt about you
Get out your feelings, or dont organize/go yourself if you cant be an adult and decent family member about the specific situation
Man up one way or the other - wether to let her know the issues, or take yourself off the organizing/vacation
Stop running and hiding
And its obviously she wants them to be there and celebrate this win as a share with her whole family
Unless someone molested or robbed you it shouldnt be a factor of personal feelings and trying to underhandedly cut someone out
I thought all day about what you said and you’re completely right. It’s not about me. However, how am I supposed to trash out to them if I don’t have their number? My mom and I liked their Facebook posts but they never like ours.
They deliberately exclude themselves. They have taken hundreds of trips and never once asked my mom, aunt, or myself to tag along. I just feel it’s wrong to include people who don’t share the same values of generosity. I’m going to do my due diligence and “invite” them. But I’m going to do it in a Facebook post and if they don’t see it then so be it.
I’m not going to be sneaky, but I’m not going to go out of my way to make sure they got the message.
- OPDec 18, 2023·1 replyInnocent
@op you ever seen a b**** ass nigga that was so much of a b**** you get mad looking at em? They probably lost all respect for u if this how u act fr.
If I gotta get my cousins permission to go out of town for Vacation I’d look down when I see his b**** ass too.
If a nigga started pouting bc I dm’d them happy birthday We not cool no more
The f*** you acting like NBA Youngboy for?
What? I haven’t done anything to them. They’ve been excluding me since I was a kid. They don’t need my permission to go on a trip but they would get all the cousins my age, go on trips, and never once ask me to go. They’d have birthdays, go to fun place, and then come back to my grandmother and brag.
I’m not a hater, I just want to reciprocate the energy they’ve been giving. They will like each others Facebook posts and never once wish me a happy birthday or like my posts. Not even a congratulations or anything.
How would you feel knowing they don’t like you and now you’re supposed to go out of your way to invite them to a trip?