what is going on here man

people think that making your kid fear you through violence and screaming is good parenting, because that's what their parents did to them and "I turned out fine"
it's a toxic cycle of abuse bc your experience normalizes it

Imagine trusting any intentions Kodak Black may have with this statement Willow a young adult now,when she wrote that,she was a child,she obviously got the idea for the letter from her Mom. Dude just wants to get kinky with Willow cause Kodak does not give a true f*** about this topic in 2022 lmao.

Lmao wait you saying you rather your child be a serial killer instead of beating them

Need to see the rage streams during dark souls.

true i guess

but spanking works too

i can agree that if light spanking DOESNT show signs of discipline then DO NOT continue or increase the spanking

it really depends

Spankings

youre next

I would say that spanking usually doesn't work, and if it does work in preventing a certain type of behavior that it comes with other negative consequences where the cons outweigh the pros, and that's not even addressing the morality of hurting a child

Hilarious

beating your kid doesn't mean they will change bruh. in alot of ways it just makes them angry and closes the door for actual discussion and dialogue with the parents. A lot more people that I've seen have that experience including family and even myself to an extent have been driven to worse behavior due to getting beat by their parents. For it to be as effective as people are saying it is, the kid needs to have a Lot of genuine love and respect for their parent that does it. And most parents that beat their kids don't really have that.

people itt failing to realize how they contradict themselves

dude said he only got beat when he absolutely deserved it and then listed several different times and things he did. you obviously didn't learn after the first beating right? you did some stupid s*** and got beat again and guess what? you didn't learn the second time either lol

it's almost as if beating your kids isn't teaching them a damn thing. my mom never once beat me and I did stupid s*** too. that's what kids do. people keep saying we don't know how kids are like we weren't all kids. kids doing stupid s*** is life. you don't respond to it by hitting them.

they will learn and they will grow so long as you discipline them at all. there's no reason to hit them. just discipline them in another way. be firm, be serious about it, not hitting =/= being weak.

Nah, we don’t have a crystal ball to know that. You shouldn’t hit your kids out of principal. Death, failure, mistakes, it’s part of life. I’m just saying, at some point, as a parent, you can only do so much. It’s not your responsibility to have a perfect child. It’s your responsibility to be honest, and be kind. The rest is out of your hands.

Spanking also instilling at a young age that as long as there's a purpose, someone hitting you is okay as long as they say they love you

What makes you so sure? Did they try emotional honesty?

Huge debate over whether whooping your kids is justified.

Anti whoopers are trying to paint pro whoppers as evil for believing in controlled physical discipline of a child when they overstep their boundaries.

Pro whippers are trying to rationalize the decision to have to physically discipline your child.

Obviously one of the prime debates of the past 20-30 years. Only crappy thing is a lot of anti-whoopers are on their cancel energy over a difference of opinion.

I think their is room for both methodologies as both mindset are needed. Whooping isn’t the only answer, but never whooping is hardly ever the answer as well.

I’ve personally noticed that a lot of kids who were whooped excessively like myself might have trauma fueling their opinion, which in my opinion is not a healthy way to win a debate.

A lot of kids were also never touched in that manner and maybe only got timeouts, grounded/punishment, etc, but alot of those kids never learn how to behave and end up getting taught some hard lessons later in life.

Neither side is 100% right or wrong. In my opinion, we do need to be more creative in how we disciple our kids, but it doesn’t mean a whooping shouldn’t be a last resort of little Timmy is really off his rocker and needs to extra tough love.

They dont make em like Kodak anymore

he said emotional honesty

This really shouldn’t be a discussion tbh. I don’t think it’s ever really been a thing to spank or whip your daughter like that. Maybe a slap on the wrist but that’s it. Outright manhandling and continuously attacking a child’s bottom (especially a girl) is outdated and stems from abusive thinking.

Nah. Most parents who whoop correctly, talk to their kid afterwards or before to explain the reasoning behind why they got it. It’s not just about physically punishing your kid, it’s about teaching them a lesson that if you don’t want pain then behave correctly. Kids don’t respond well to much other reason as most kids aren’t developed enough to understand logic, but they understand pain and not wanting it.

I did. Don’t just cringe at the words cause they sound soft, think about it.

Emotional honesty, or, just honesty, is one of the most powerful tools we have as human beings.

We seconds away from kicking your ass

Bullshit. Kids are way smarter than people give them credit for. And adults are way stupider. I’m just hearing a bunch of anecdotal evidence tho. Is this something you’ve researched or do you not trust the research?

Obviously there's other factors that play into it but it sounds like you had it rough from your parents. Like I said earlier, if youre traumatized by your whoopings as a kid then your parents didnt do it right and were too hard. Its not supposed to be like that.

Takes a lot of self-control to not simply hit your kid when they do wrong. Anybody can beat a kid. It's almost like they're an adult towering over someone who is at the same level as their knees. It takes patience, creativity, and genuine care/concern to raise a child and teach them real consequences for their actions.

S*** I've worked with kids and can tell when their parents just haven't done s*** with them. No beatings and not even talking to them and teaching them right from wrong. I'd end up having to be the one to punish them when they would act out just for their parents to come back to me about "bullying" their child because I didn't let them get candy cause they wanted to steal s*** from their classmates

Just some terrible parents out here "raising" their children to be a******s. But that's what we see more of these days, parents relying on teachers, coaches, etc to raise their children while all they do is keep them quiet and from bothering them by buying them s*** they don't deserve due to their behavior. S*** is pathetic.