Sep 26, 2022SimulacraNo actually when I had s***I realized that I had been missing out and felt proud of myself for finally becoming a normal guy
Everyone's different
Which is kinda my point really, u can't generalize about men so simply
Sep 26, 2022·1 replySimulacraNo actually when I had s***I realized that I had been missing out and felt proud of myself for finally becoming a normal guy
you did feel any social validation before having sex?
- Sep 26, 2022worldpeace
op and am i ugly guy have to be troling
- Sep 26, 2022worldpeace
you did feel any social validation before having sex?
I was pretty socially successful but it all pales in comparison to being physically desired
Sep 26, 2022SimulacraNo actually when I had s***I realized that I had been missing out and felt proud of myself for finally becoming a normal guy
Same lol, people had me scared that s*** was gonna be an awful, worthless experience but I was like nah, that was fire, glad I was able to do that.
Sep 26, 2022
JbreezyondeckJesus nigga shut up
Sep 26, 2022·2 repliesIt's sad that KTT is becoming an echo chamber. Or maybe I'm just getting older and seeing it for what it really is. I understand where OP is coming from, and have empathy for the guy that made the other thread.
- Sep 26, 2022
oh look, a shallow spin offf thread to another shallow thread looking for validation
- Sep 26, 2022
^case in point
Sep 26, 2022P**** not overrated y’all just f***ing mid
- Sep 26, 2022·1 replySimulacra
I'm procrastinating at my video editing job rn
Nigga what company and send me the link you hired with. I’m sick of my job
- Sep 26, 2022·2 repliesGONE
Nigga what company and send me the link you hired with. I’m sick of my job
I work freelance
- Sep 26, 2022Simulacra
I work freelance
F*** ok thanks
- Sep 26, 2022·1 replySimulacra
I work freelance
I work freelance videography as well. Doing my second film as DP next month.
- Sep 26, 2022Shy
I work freelance videography as well. Doing my second film as DP next month.
Hell yeah that's dope af bruh
I wanted to do cinematography for a while but wound up kinda falling into mainly editing these past few years
plants 🌻Sep 26, 2022·1 replyShyIt's sad that KTT is becoming an echo chamber. Or maybe I'm just getting older and seeing it for what it really is. I understand where OP is coming from, and have empathy for the guy that made the other thread.
I had empathy for him for 20 pages
once it hit 40 tho?
- Sep 26, 2022Jbreezyondeck
Jesus nigga shut up
- Sep 26, 2022·1 replyplants
I had empathy for him for 20 pages
once it hit 40 tho?
Did he say anything different on page 40? I'm not sure what you mean by this.
- Sep 26, 2022
CherrywineThe spin off thread nobody asked for
Like that one friends spin off show no one asked for
- plants 🌻Sep 26, 2022·1 replyShy
Did he say anything different on page 40? I'm not sure what you mean by this.
no he aint say s*** different thats the point
- Sep 26, 2022·1 replyplants
no he aint say s*** different thats the point
Which probably reinforces the point that he just has low self esteem.
- plants 🌻Sep 26, 2022Shy
Which probably reinforces the point that he just has low self esteem.
poor guy doesnt realize he's a miracle and worth more than all the money in the world
- Sep 26, 2022Shy
It's sad that KTT is becoming an echo chamber. Or maybe I'm just getting older and seeing it for what it really is. I understand where OP is coming from, and have empathy for the guy that made the other thread.
i stg theres never been this many threads about men and masculinity until the last couple years
so annoying
Sep 26, 2022·1 replyJonboiI was responding to the general sentiment of the thread, not anyone specifically.
I basically agree with everything you’re saying, especially as it relates to men wanting s***as a means of validation.
I’ll push back a little on the idea that s***can be substituted effectively by any number of ego fulfilling activities tho. I consider myself to be something of a creative genius, and I still crave validation from sex. It’s not something I’m happy about. But it doesn’t go away because I wrote a fire poem. What’s ultimately helped me is realizing that genuinely liking another person is the way to go. Before, I’d want to have s***with people I don’t actually care about, but it’s very difficult to do that while still presenting an honest self and intentions.
Yeah I didn't mean to generalize the bit about s***as interchangeable for everyone, because we're all different. I have a high s***drive but I don't actually view s***as being emotionally fulfilling in the same way that romance and intimate conversation are. I need those things more. I'm polyamorous and crave a lot of different connections, but not necessarily sex. However, I realize that isn't the same for everyone.
I've been in counseling with my wife since April and we're working through what's called a needs assessment where we set priorities and expectations for sex, attraction, recreation, domestic help, etc and it's really eye opening to see how much we take each other's needs for granted because we assume everyone is like us.
Sep 26, 2022
eye contactStop devoting your character to p****
Without p****, I’m worthless!
