I always wondered what happened to my boy Joe in NY last I heard he was in like bedstuy, hope he’s doing great tho. Such a beautiful soul
i didn't even begin to get my s*** together till i was 27. my friends all make double, even triple my pay with years ahead of me saving money. Like others have said, work your own pace, you'll get there...
Sometimes you just have to do something, anything, and it'll open up new opportunities.
Instead of dwelling on the bad focus on what you need to change or do to get yourself in a better head space.
I like keeping a private identity here but I have a backup email
squidward123@hotmail.com
you can send it here and ill check it out for you and give u some tips
sent, thank you again man i appreciate the gesture
Dawg I’m 27 and started the year off at -$1200 from trying to finesse a bank. I became an airline fueler in July and I’m starting school so I can learn how to work on these mfs. We all move at our own pace cuddy. You’ll get there, we all will
damn thats sick, congrats dude keep it up!
I have been in the same situation, 27 now. I think that isolation somehow helped me, dont know how, but i think im more social. I have realized that i have nothing to lose by being more social, and saw that i should stop having social anxiety and just live life.
It depends what you do with your time, it doesnt matter if isolated or not, you can still grow mentally and evolve
Like i said idk how, but ironically isolation helped me to become more social and improve. My lust for life grew and i realized that i have nothing to be afraid of, to appreciate life no matter what my state is right now, cause i wont get that time back.
Always look at it from a positive angle, this situation maybe can change how you see life and help you realize some things that you never saw
sent, thank you again man i appreciate the gesture
my bad OP, it's squidward123@hotmail.ca
.ca not .com
Canadian email LOL. My bad
Sending love to you my bro but trust in yourself, you got this. You got a lot of good advice in here pick 2-3 things and head in that direction
only sleep and music but that doesnt work anymore
last psychiatrist prescribed me some s*** trying to d*** me up and numb me out
awful way to look at it
feel for u, stick to the meds, i didn’t wanna take them either and i didnt feel like they were helping at first but im in a better headspace now than i was months ago
stuff to do for free in the city btw: gothamist.com/arts-entertainment/19-fun-and-free-things-to-do-in-new-york-city-this-november
I have been in the same situation, 27 now. I think that isolation somehow helped me, dont know how, but i think im more social. I have realized that i have nothing to lose by being more social, and saw that i should stop having social anxiety and just live life.
It depends what you do with your time, it doesnt matter if isolated or not, you can still grow mentally and evolve
Kinda what I’m going through right now
And then when you find a job you will miss how much free time and peace of mind you had lol
my bad OP, it's squidward123@hotmail.ca
.ca not .com
Canadian email LOL. My bad
sent feedback. Let me know what you think
You are going to be fine, and you will make it through this.
If you can; start exercising to get your endorphins flowing & getting those positive vibes flowing into your brain
You can find plenty of jobs, you just need to start applying via Indeed. Start thinking about all the positive things you bring to the table, as a person, and that will naturally come out during your interviews. Exercising will help your brain to think more optimistically. It costs nothing to run or do push ups & sit ups.
If you want a book on Autism Spectrum Disorder, where you can learn about all the strengths that come with it, let me know. You hold more power than you realize, your brain just processes things differently.
Lastly, you are only 25. Your 20s has a lot of peaks & valleys, and right now, you’re in the valley. Hang in there. It will get better, friend
This is genuinely really beautiful advice.
This is genuinely really beautiful advice.
i mean it too brother, I hate seeing any KTT fam be in a s*** mental state!
ive been isolated for months
im unemployed and the job market in new york is horrible right now
nobody wants to hang out unless i have money to do things with them
im f***ing 25 feeling like this
i i think i have undiagnosed autism
i hate it
Aye my boy it’s gonna be okay. I’m 25 in NYC too we here baby. Stay strong I honestly don’t even know how to PM on here but feel free to reach out
You can’t isolate. It’s so important to go outside and see people even strangers. Why the homies not down to go to free stuff like museums?? So much to do in NY for free that’s why I love it so much. Also down to link honestly. I don’t wanna see anyone feeling this way dog!!
staying with mom since the pandemic
Oh ya this one will f*** up ya head. You gotta do WHATEVER you need to to move out bro. Get on unemployment if you need. It’ll open up new doors. You gone be forced to hustle. I was DoorDash driving at the beginning of pandemic to make sure I didn’t have to move back w mom after finishing school. Was totally worth it. And i love my mom but we grown