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  • Aug 13, 2022

    sexual attraction is involuntary

  • Aug 13, 2022
    SHAQUILLE

    Yeah the fresh and fit vid was unneeded for sure

    It was needed to show what i am talking about, it’s further context.

    Otherwise people would be asking me what the f*** i am talking about and or possibly gaslighting me into a argument about whether or not it even happens

    Also the dude presumes i “binge” their content like how bad faith can you be. No wonder you are blocked

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    If you know the nature of women it aint really surprising

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    Jihyo

    entire first page is people crying about the content creators rather than discussing the content which is actually relevant

    anyways, this has always been the case. male homosexuality has always been seen as much more vulgar. I'm sure the majority of women would be uncomfortable knowing their male partner was sleeping with other men.

    I'm just interested in how it got to this point. What is it about male homosexuality that makes it so unappealing to people?

    Good question. Maybe women are inherently more sexually attractive

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    rico

    What do y’all get out of coming in a thread and saying “I’m not clicking that” Join the discussion or f*** outta here trying to farm likes.

    funny u said this then proceeded not to post anything else itt lmao

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    Jihyo

    entire first page is people crying about the content creators rather than discussing the content which is actually relevant

    anyways, this has always been the case. male homosexuality has always been seen as much more vulgar. I'm sure the majority of women would be uncomfortable knowing their male partner was sleeping with other men.

    I'm just interested in how it got to this point. What is it about male homosexuality that makes it so unappealing to people?

    I think a lot of it has to do with toxic masculinity as well and the “gender roles” nonsense. I’ve seen a lot of people emasculate gay men because being gay is apparently effeminate?

    men who are intimate with other men usually are labeled as less masculine and it’s also pretty much boiled down to as internalized homophobia

    That’s why when I see masc for masc or other nonsense within the community I have no choice but to gag cause grow up

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    eye contact

    Women are not judged as much because most people (especially men) are conditioned to assume a fetishizing and objectifying attitude to sapphic relationships. This is a self serving and exploitative attitude to hold

    okay sure but they're still judged less lol. still don't understand how that's a bad thing tho.

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    Jihyo

    entire first page is people crying about the content creators rather than discussing the content which is actually relevant

    anyways, this has always been the case. male homosexuality has always been seen as much more vulgar. I'm sure the majority of women would be uncomfortable knowing their male partner was sleeping with other men.

    I'm just interested in how it got to this point. What is it about male homosexuality that makes it so unappealing to people?

    It’s a mix of men being on average less attractive than women and the trope of the bisexual man or downlow man bringing home a disease to his girl or wife

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    XavierMane

    If you know the nature of women it aint really surprising

    explain this

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    SHAQUILLE

    It’s a mix of men being on average less attractive than women and the trope of the bisexual man or downlow man bringing home a disease to his girl or wife

    And double the competition that shawty has to worry about from her man

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    funny u said this then proceeded not to post anything else itt lmao

    He’s the polar opposite of them. lol he’s cool though because he’s pointing out s*** that makes me so f***ing irate

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    CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN

    And double the competition that shawty has to worry about from her man

    this is so crazy bc if you’re in a committed relationship there literally is no competition and any ideology that there may be is just projected insecurity of abandonment from your partner

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    smile now

    I suppose my main issue is that.

    You could never have another gay interaction ever again.

    The very fact you are bi still would have certain women not want to be with you.

    And that’s just hypocritical from bi women tbh

    I’d say just own it and be up front about you’re sexuality from the jump

    I don’t care what all those women said

    if y’all genuinely vibe and you have s***appeal they’re going to want you whether you’re bi or not

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    smile now

    I have been open and honest before, didn’t have a issue but that’s because they were progressive.

    I think most cases tho it seems limiting.

    yeah i can see that depending on the area, i’m usually with collage age people so i guess they tend to be more progressive about stuff like sexuality.

    bisexual men and women are just seen differently while bisexual women are sexualised and fetishized. I mean i lost count of time i heard someone say how can you not be attracted to women, even from women it’s just seen more “natural” to people to be attracted to women so when a women is attracted to a girl its no big deal.
    Men aren’t seen in the same light as that way so they’re less “understanding” on it like how can they like men what’s the appeal?

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    Pinhead

    I’d say just own it and be up front about you’re sexuality from the jump

    I don’t care what all those women said

    if y’all genuinely vibe and you have s***appeal they’re going to want you whether you’re bi or not

    I am always up front. I don’t wanna be with a woman who cannot accept that about me

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    this is so crazy bc if you’re in a committed relationship there literally is no competition and any ideology that there may be is just projected insecurity of abandonment from your partner

    Well, it be like that most of the time.

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    fashion killa

    okay sure but they're still judged less lol. still don't understand how that's a bad thing tho.

    This is stupid

    The only reason women aren’t judged is because theyre treated as sexual objects. How is that better in any way?

  • Aug 13, 2022
    Jihyo

    entire first page is people crying about the content creators rather than discussing the content which is actually relevant

    anyways, this has always been the case. male homosexuality has always been seen as much more vulgar. I'm sure the majority of women would be uncomfortable knowing their male partner was sleeping with other men.

    I'm just interested in how it got to this point. What is it about male homosexuality that makes it so unappealing to people?

    it doesn't matter whether or not it's relevant, the content that OP is consuming is directly correlative to the arguments (and quality of said arguments) he's gonna be espousing throughout this thread, that's why it's an issue

    regardless, niggas itt have made great points, but i think another key piece as to why homosexuality is looked down upon is how prominent and dominant Christianity is/was, people are less religious nowadays, but i think a lot of Christian values and co were internalized by the populace at large overtime too

    it's also funny to note that homosexuality in Christianity isn't even a shut and close issue, and it's actually something that's semi hotly debated among certain sects

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    Womanpuncher69

    yeah i can see that depending on the area, i’m usually with collage age people so i guess they tend to be more progressive about stuff like sexuality.

    bisexual men and women are just seen differently while bisexual women are sexualised and fetishized. I mean i lost count of time i heard someone say how can you not be attracted to women, even from women it’s just seen more “natural” to people to be attracted to women so when a women is attracted to a girl its no big deal.
    Men aren’t seen in the same light as that way so they’re less “understanding” on it like how can they like men what’s the appeal?

    That’s wild to me because wouldn’t a woman be able to understand why a gay/bi man can be attracted to men?

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    deceased

    I think a lot of it has to do with toxic masculinity as well and the “gender roles” nonsense. I’ve seen a lot of people emasculate gay men because being gay is apparently effeminate?

    men who are intimate with other men usually are labeled as less masculine and it’s also pretty much boiled down to as internalized homophobia

    That’s why when I see masc for masc or other nonsense within the community I have no choice but to gag cause grow up

    One of the girls in the video mentioned the masculine energy thing

    the thing I find crazy tho is that the gay s***that people are usually most often thrown off by is gay s***between two masculine men. like even within males there's a difference in response to two effeminate men being intimate vs two stereotypically masculine men being intimate

    I def think it has a lot to do with gender roles and insecurity especially from these women who wouldn't give a bisexual man a chance.

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    eye contact

    This is stupid

    The only reason women aren’t judged is because theyre treated as sexual objects. How is that better in any way?

    It’s not better, it’s just viewed as better from a certain perspective

    And just as bad from another one

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    deceased

    explain this

    Women are usually sexually homophobic period.

    Most men can watch lesbian p*** and enjoy it. Most women will not sit there and watch two guys go at it.

    They don't enjoy gayness from men. Whether it right or wrong is a whole conversation but in general it's how they are.

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    Jihyo

    One of the girls in the video mentioned the masculine energy thing

    the thing I find crazy tho is that the gay s***that people are usually most often thrown off by is gay s***between two masculine men. like even within males there's a difference in response to two effeminate men being intimate vs two stereotypically masculine men being intimate

    I def think it has a lot to do with gender roles and insecurity especially from these women who wouldn't give a bisexual man a chance.

    it’s really sad more than anything because as an adult… why are you angry or judgmental of the person you’re interested in having partners prior to meeting you?

    It’s laughable

  • Aug 13, 2022

    Yea im tryna wrap my head around this one but it's not happenin

    Ig the thing is because most men don't like other men, it's frowned upon, and since traditionally men run society men's values reign supreme. Also it's seen as unmasculine and potentially harmful to society whereas lesbian relationships aren't taken as seriously

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    XavierMane

    Women are usually sexually homophobic period.

    Most men can watch lesbian p*** and enjoy it. Most women will not sit there and watch two guys go at it.

    They don't enjoy gayness from men. Whether it right or wrong is a whole conversation but in general it's how they are.

    this is so not true gay male p*** is one of the highest rated categories amongst straight women lmao

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