so im safe?

Maybe they assume you're using them without giving up more and that's part of the problem you're running into dating is a two way street

4of 6 pics you posted aren’t bad at all king also don’t ever feel bad just don’t think nobody should be out of anybody’s league. Personality how you stand as a man goes a very long way with us !!!
How’s your smell what kind of jewelry you were ?

Yeah girls can easily put in their rotations
I've learned and seen it so many times, girls just drop their guards lower faster and know what to expect

Ofcourse I don't know what u look like but am quite sure Ur not ugly

Why can't it just be that they're not attracted? You're acting like girls have magical mind reading powers

Actually after reading through this !!! If a man doesn’t put effort I ain’t going for it neither. Some of us be on bullshiiiit for suuure but we all want a man right if he ain’t putting no effort I already know what he comes to look for 🙄

S*** that niggas with nothing more important in their lives worry about

Girls in their 20s are h**** man but they want to be fed, they want to be the prize, they're easier than ya think hence why they don't want to put in effort they just wanna get down

If they aren't, it's not because of your looks. Maybe you're unengaging when you're on dates? Idk. You gotta make them comfortable, laugh and feel special. Ask them about their lives, goals, and show that date #1 could lead somewhere.

it's too expensive to do consistently and it's just not an ideal setup for me. I'm a lot smoother and more talkative when i'm sitting next to someone at a bar as opposed to sitting across from them at a table

I do all of that

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listen up @op

I've never had an enjoyable brunch/dinner date with someone who wasn't my girlfriend/locked in. S***'s boring/awkward as hell

u know u can sit next to them at a restaurant instead of across, right

ive seen couples do it and its lowkey cute

it comes off thirsty when you're first meeting someone

Oh damn that's extra f***ed

So you can't do coffee date to start ?

the imgur link has pics of himself

def not ugly

Are these girls too good for me?

Is This that same guy who would always post self deprecating threads

I've only been on one coffee date and found it boring. I'd rather go somewhere sexy and intimate like a speakeasy or a rooftop bar

I personally would never complain about having s***with a Big Beautiful Woman.

I match their energy. If I feel like I have to chase/impress, I assume they aren't that attracted to me and that they'll probably never let me crack anyway

Im bi and lemme say you are a handsome young man

I'm honestly a w****, so I'm not a good judge on that

What I will say tho is I saw one of the most beautiful girls in my life once and the first thing she said to me was that I was attractive. You can/will pull baddies, but I can't tell you how though.

looks aren't the problem