I knew it was the f***ing ick lmfaooo

I'm adventurous and fun, especially after an edible

have you ever considered being patient

Your not if you need d****

What do you mean? When I try to get them on a second or third date they ghost or send me a long text about incompatibility. f*** am i supposed to do

How are you trying? IMO if you want actually 8-10 looking girls you can go on a “rent a girl” website but you’ll cough up a rack or two

Op get a mid girl who’s a ride or die wasting your time

I want validation and genuine companionship

find somebody who will go on a second date with you. you not telling me somebody like you who's been dating for as long as you have has that much trouble getting a second date.

so how much time is 2-3 drinks?

are yall eating food at the bar?

have you tried buttering them up for longer before asking to go back to your place. like idk hit up a food truck then go take her home with you

i like the dancing suggestion. maybe do something before the bar and after (that isnt out right saying lets go back to my place) ?

take her to insomnia cookies

when i get the second date the outcome is the same. If I don't crack the first night I never end up cracking

you ever tried securing the second date on idk drink 2/4? lmao that’s a long time to be talking to someone and not thinking about s*** we could do together, try that. she not bout to dub you if ya’ll are vibing lmao

If this is what you want, you're being too aggressive tryna get them home on the first date IMO

is cracking the goal?

it's usually 2 hours

no food

Because I get bored and run out of s*** to talk about. I've had some success with switching venues or taking them to a dance club but they're not always up for that

food is the key to a women's heart bro wtf are you doin man

At the start, yeah

aight then I can't help you

I don't wanna be used for a meal or sit across from a stranger for 2 hours

ur tryna use their bodies

put in some effort and maybe they'll let u hit it bro

You're using them for validation man lol you literally just wrote that

I don't think I'm using them. I'm just attracted to them and want them to like me back

its also just a meal dude. dont gotta go somewhere that expensive.

like i said u can suggest like a food truck/stand after the bar. you said youre in new york so im sure there's plenty around to fill up her belly and make her happy

I have GERD, eating during a date f***s my vibe up

Nah not ugly
Girls do love men that aren't specifically highly attractive or put together

They rather sleep with men that are "safe" and don't break their ego or self esteem or require them to step up their game

So no it's not that Ur ugly