I will bro thank u

I don’t understand why girls want texting buddies but it’s a real thing lol

Take hours to respond or even hint at talking to someone else and they geek

It’s wild man

Yeah there were some things I needed to get done last year but so many things were going on

Appearing like you’re just waiting around for her decision when it should be you makes you look weaker. and if she calls you out and says some s*** about not caring tell her it’s the opposite and that you do care a lot and that’s why you’re giving it some space !

Hope this helps!

max holloway was robbed

Had to scrap so much s*** smfh, still we move forward

Based on what you’re telling me you sound like you’re giving so much effort as if you’re really close to being in a committed relationship (I.e talking everyday). That’s why she’s prob indecisive because she can take all the time she wants thinking you’ll still be there waiting. You only have to put in as much effort as she does so if she’s uncommitted, you can be uncommitted as well.

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Should I just not text her or just take hella long to reply

I never got the concept of taking time to text.
Just text her back man.

If you feel you’re putting in more effort than the other person then pull back.

Being petty doesn’t solve anything I feel

Yeah just kind of mirror what she does

However, I do believe that giving her time to decide he should be a little bit more aloof and do his own thing

Don’t text her first. If she texts you and it’s not urgent just take a while to reply. If you feel the convo is getting dry then don’t feel the need to try and save it.

She’s obviously into you so she’ll probably try initiating a convo at some point even if it’s not something she usually does.

I agree when someone texts me I just text them back immediately I don’t like playing games through texts lmao. But I mean if it’s gonna help lol

Usually my rule of thumb is to text them like I would any normal person. If a friend texts me about something and it’s not urgent I’ll probably reply within an hour

Lol when yall not trolling, yall completely different people

i be texting everyone fast af

I hate that this is even a problem man lol. Like we are both down it’s so frustrating. Makes me doubt that she even likes me in the first place

I mean I’m definitely going to show my age here but if I was at his stage I would just be open with her.

Hey Xyz I feel like whenever we talk it’s always in your terms.

Either she’s using our brother and gets called out or she genuinely doesn’t realise and puts in more effort.

I’m lazy as s*** so I usually take a while. If that’s the case for FT I just wouldn’t text her first.

Talk to her man.

Tell her how you feel and how she’s making you feel.

Either you take the next step or you both know it’s time to end it.

I 100% agree for me to say this it’s east and hard to do but it’s the best way.

Yeah and tbh if she having a hard time deciding between me and some other guy I’d just probably walk away because I’d want to be with someone who would jump at the chance of being with me you know?