The thing that worked for me was knowing maybe the time wasnāt right.
Clearly I got along with her enough for it to work but just not now.
Just knowing that in the future when circumstances change it could work made it easier to let go for the now.
It didnāt end up working out but it got me through.
Thanks bro I really appreciate the advice. Itās funny you say that cause thatās what Iāve kinda been thinking to get over this and Iāve done a really good job the last while just doing my own thing
Iāve just come to a point where I have no interest in the back and forth right now so Iām done. And the fact that I never replied to her is telling to me
As for you I hope that maybe in the long run it does work out but if not someone will come along and blow that person right out of the water
Damn yāall going thru it
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Do it man life too short to just think
Itās cause sheās saying she really likes me and weāve already talked abt us dating. But she says she still likes some other dude and needs time lol. I know I shouldnāt even bother with this but I do like her a lot. Iām trying to still keep it an option but not get too deep to where if it doesnāt work out I start simping hard u know. But we talk everyday and itās hard u feel
Itās cause sheās saying she really likes me and weāve already talked abt us dating. But she says she still likes some other dude and needs time lol. I know I shouldnāt even bother with this but I do like her a lot. Iām trying to still keep it an option but not get too deep to where if it doesnāt work out I start simping hard u know. But we talk everyday and itās hard u feel
Donāt talk unless sheās trying to hang out in person
The worst feeling is what if I did this or what if I did that.
Relationships end all the time but you have to live with yourself in your head
Damn
You too huh
I just gotta get outta here, I can figure things out from there
Thanks bro I really appreciate the advice. Itās funny you say that cause thatās what Iāve kinda been thinking to get over this and Iāve done a really good job the last while just doing my own thing
Iāve just come to a point where I have no interest in the back and forth right now so Iām done. And the fact that I never replied to her is telling to me
As for you I hope that maybe in the long run it does work out but if not someone will come along and blow that person right out of the water
Iām technically married man but without a proper reception and s*** itās easier to say engaged still.
Life has a weird way of working out. If it hasnāt yet means thereās more to come. I truly mean it.
Every girl Iāve ever liked enough to try and be serious with has had feelings for me but something keeps f***ing it up. Itās always āthe wrong timeā. Makes me wanna not even try :( Itās started to make me become this person with no feelings bc I donāt wanna get disappointed so I just block it all out
Itās cause sheās saying she really likes me and weāve already talked abt us dating. But she says she still likes some other dude and needs time lol. I know I shouldnāt even bother with this but I do like her a lot. Iām trying to still keep it an option but not get too deep to where if it doesnāt work out I start simping hard u know. But we talk everyday and itās hard u feel
Hmmm
Honestly my advice play it cool and just hang out and s*** but when she broaches the subject of dating or whatever just tell her that youāre not ready until sheās fully into it. IMO when you first start seeing someone else I always just kind of assume thereās someone else or others until youāve had an actual talk about being with each other
And it fails, just draw her and date that version
Donāt talk unless sheās trying to hang out in person
We see each other in person a lot tbh. Weāre kind of in the same friend group
I just gotta get outta here, I can figure things out from there
When you think thatās gonna happen?
Iām technically married man but without a proper reception and s*** itās easier to say engaged still.
Life has a weird way of working out. If it hasnāt yet means thereās more to come. I truly mean it.
Damn fr? Lol well I hope that works out for you!
We see each other in person a lot tbh. Weāre kind of in the same friend group
Talking in person is good, but carrying out general convos via text prob isnāt helping your cause. By always being there youāre making her think she doesnāt have to make a choice which is why youāre getting stuck in purgatory
Hmmm
Honestly my advice play it cool and just hang out and s*** but when she broaches the subject of dating or whatever just tell her that youāre not ready until sheās fully into it. IMO when you first start seeing someone else I always just kind of assume thereās someone else or others until youāve had an actual talk about being with each other
And it fails, just draw her and date that version
Thatās what Iām trying to do rn, makes the most sense. Weāve had talks abt dating and s*** already and she told me abt the other dude but she said she would completely end it like 2 days later and I know that didnāt happen. She says the conversation didnāt go āas anticipatedā lol
Talking in person is good, but carrying out general convos via text prob isnāt helping your cause. By always being there youāre making her think she doesnāt have to make a choice which is why youāre getting stuck in purgatory
This too
The moment you start to back away through text they sense it and they start freaking out lol might work to his advantage
Talking in person is good, but carrying out general convos via text prob isnāt helping your cause. By always being there youāre making her think she doesnāt have to make a choice which is why youāre getting stuck in purgatory
Dam this makes sense too. What if sheās like oh u donāt even wanna talk to me I donāt think u care
Thatās what Iām trying to do rn, makes the most sense. Weāve had talks abt dating and s*** already and she told me abt the other dude but she said she would completely end it like 2 days later and I know that didnāt happen. She says the conversation didnāt go āas anticipatedā lol
Alright well it sounds like now itās just all on her terms and youāre waiting for her to make a decision so Iād back off a little bit in mean time. The moment you stop giving her so much attention she might come to realize what sheād be missing. Try it for the weekend man
When you think thatās gonna happen?
Absolute latest the end of this year, can't be f***ing around