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  • Jun 18, 2025
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    TsunamiPapi

    She want you gang 😩

    P*** fried the s*** outta yall brains didnt it :zucclaff:

  • OP
    Jun 18, 2025
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    Valentine

    actually she probably just compared you to her sons/nephews and passed a comment from that perspective lol either way you overthinking it

    That makes alot of sense, like maybe she was just trying to tease? I guess I’m taking so seriously because I just started at this job two weeks ago, so I’m not in that comfort faze yet.

  • OP
    Jun 18, 2025
    CutiePieHole

    Hows everything oak

    Everything has been great, post-grad life has been treating me very well. How has your life been going?

  • Jun 18, 2025

    I dont believe in women working

  • lil ufo 🛸
    Jun 18, 2025

    welcome to the new world order

  • Just joke back man, what the

  • OP
    Jun 18, 2025
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    BRAVE

    That’s the MAIN reason you shouldn’t be overthinking wym

    I’m not going to quit YET, but we’ll see how it goes. The dynamics are just difficult to understand because I’m new AND the only male. It’d be different if I had time to get comfortable in this workplace.

  • Jun 18, 2025
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    Oak

    I’m not going to quit YET, but we’ll see how it goes. The dynamics are just difficult to understand because I’m new AND the only male. It’d be different if I had time to get comfortable in this workplace.

    There’s nothing difficult to understand. They’re just joshing you. If anything it sounds like you’re projecting a bunch of stuff onto it

  • OP
    Jun 18, 2025
    BRAVE

    There’s nothing difficult to understand. They’re just joshing you. If anything it sounds like you’re projecting a bunch of stuff onto it

    Maybe you’re right, either way, I will just keep the peace and play along until I find a better job. There’s no such thing as the perfect job so I have to take the good with the bad and the in-between remarks.

  • Jun 18, 2025
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    Bro I solve stuff on a weekly basis that would make the operations VP make her head spin and she's said stuff like that before too. It's just friendly banter my guy.

    Also very surprised this isn't a more controversial situation, OP really lvling up

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  • Jun 18, 2025
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    Bro just don’t overthink it and keep it pushing

    And definitely don’t quit your job over it

  • Jun 18, 2025
    Oak

    I barely talk and I’m very quiet. I have never had anyone say anything like that, that’s why I’m like wtf? If anything I’m receiving compliments for going above and beyond.

    maybe thats why, I talk a lot

  • Jun 18, 2025

    Shouldve beat her ass

  • Jun 18, 2025
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    whitegirl

    P*** fried the s*** outta yall brains didnt it :zucclaff:

    No p**** getting mf

    Just say that fam :(

  • Jun 18, 2025
    TsunamiPapi

    No p**** getting mf

    Just say that fam :(

    u got me

  • Jun 18, 2025

    Working with Women

  • Jun 18, 2025
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    I work in the social work field. Ain't nothing but women. Had my own supervisor tell me to watch out when dealing with female clients cause I'm handsome. Wasn't no damn reason to throw in that she thought I was handsome, lol.

  • OP
    Jun 18, 2025
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    JaeRell

    I work in the social work field. Ain't nothing but women. Had my own supervisor tell me to watch out when dealing with female clients cause I'm handsome. Wasn't no damn reason to throw in that she thought I was handsome, lol.

    Right and I understand that! You have to be veryyy careful when dealing with female clients because things can happen so fast, especially in the social work or mental health field. Plus your supervisor was saying something positive and connecting it to the workplace.

    Meanwhile my supervisor on the other hand insulted my intelligence and I just met her. Last week she said I was smart, now this week I’m apparently slow.

    Has your supervisor ever made a weird remark or indirectly called you slow? It’s also important to mention I’ve been working at this job for not even a month.

  • OP
    Jun 18, 2025
    yungking

    Bro just don’t overthink it and keep it pushing

    And definitely don’t quit your job over it

    I’m def going to keep it pushing but I just hate little digs and insults from complete strangers.

  • you are overreacting

  • Jun 18, 2025
    Oak

    That makes alot of sense, like maybe she was just trying to tease? I guess I’m taking so seriously because I just started at this job two weeks ago, so I’m not in that comfort faze yet.

    yea honestly, having been around a lot of older women often, they just roast for fun. it’s just a joke, they don’t operate on it meaning anything deeper than that lol. she probably just felt she could make a joke at you, laugh it off lmao “surprise, surprise” type s*** as a response

  • Jun 18, 2025

    shoot the office up

  • Jun 18, 2025

    Maybe you're an idiot man

    I mean this reaction is very telling

  • Jun 18, 2025
    Oak

    Right and I understand that! You have to be veryyy careful when dealing with female clients because things can happen so fast, especially in the social work or mental health field. Plus your supervisor was saying something positive and connecting it to the workplace.

    Meanwhile my supervisor on the other hand insulted my intelligence and I just met her. Last week she said I was smart, now this week I’m apparently slow.

    Has your supervisor ever made a weird remark or indirectly called you slow? It’s also important to mention I’ve been working at this job for not even a month.

    But fr.. I doubt she calling you slow. You're younger and she was probably impressed on how quickly you've grasped on to things compared to other young workers she's dealt with.