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Should be an option on OP or title and says lock thread. You can unlock whenever you want. If a mod locks it cause then you have to go to help section

Lol I don’t know it’s a good question. Beyond discussing these topics I’ve felt something has needed to be done for a while now . I get tired of receiving text from women friends “ he got kind or upset , but I hit him too” because they rationalize a 200+ pound man beating them , breaking elbows or rough s***due to an argument or feeling threatened by a man taking their woman ( which is the kinkiest many of these Niggas get ) as “ it happens he loves me “ . S*** some of them find it romantic . You Netflix as cringe as it was at beginning is loved for a reason . We are in the digital age of Stalking , looking at phones , tracing locations.

When men feel they have made an “ investment “ be it marriage , pay bills , rent . They get like “ well I want a return on investment “ or “ I bought her a drink so I want her attention “ or “ I’m going to keep buying her drinks until she interested “ or just not taking no for an answer . So sorry for taking frustration out at you but we got to find a way to build better cause there no logic out there . Especially Chicago when it comes to violence . A 57 year old delivery driver was killed shot dead last night on a food delivery on west side .

Abusers in our city especially our often exposed then just rebrand or lay low . Some of these men need therapy , s*** I wish some of them got their ass beat , prison system can’t heal that WE HAVE TO VALUE OUR WOMEN to the point where they aren’t going missing dead or harmed due to our action or inaction . Fox News isn’t ever going to care about black on black crime or view it as infighting due to resources or ego . They look at us like animal planet or monkeys flinging s*** at each other in a zoo

I don’t have that option sadly

I agree, something needed to be done a long time ago to break women from them chains. Abuse has been romanticized by women for way too long and it’s sick. But at the same time they’re being manipulated to believe that by the men. Idk if you’ve been hearing women saying things like they have good p**** and that’s why dudes act that way or break phones n stuff. I get some people joke like that but I’m sure there’s actually a few that think like that. We need to educate the youth more on these situations so they get it young, that’s not how we give/accept “love”. If he beating on you he don’t love you, a man that really love a woman will never even think about raising a finger up at her. We fasho gotta teach these young brothers to value women, I know it’s everywhere but Chicago niggas are a special breed of niggas. These niggas are f***ing brain dead fr. I agree on the second point as well, that’s why I tell my female family members that’s younger than me to never make a dude feel like you owe him one cause you give a nigga an inch he go try to stretch it out to a yard. And to that last point, I big time agree, niggas get exposed, dip off for a month or two and then pop back up like nothing happened at all. I feel like we need to go back to having community watches. Back when I was a youngin and would visit the 100’s there were always a couple old heads looking out for the block. If something went down, they knew about it. But I think the way Chicago is set up in 2021 it may not work and that’s sad because we as a community need to start coming together and holding these niggas accountable for what they’re doing.

all this arguing was worth this gold . I think we need more stories that don’t glorify abuse . That show it for what it is a horror story . That explore how a man can say “ I’ll never turn on gang “ yet beat the supposed love of their life within an inch of her life . Like yes men fight each other or squabble at differences but men fighting women ( I’m not talking play fighting or s***) aim to destroy them ? We got to change the idea of “ my p**** drove me crazy or daddy just straightening me out when I act up “ . Like a pimp prostitute relationship. Like Stockholm syndrome . Like the pimp story Dave chappelle told where they both feel reasonable for the dead body . Except that body can often become the woman sadly or is viewed as the relationship itself . “ we must break generational curses I don’t want another failed relationship” “ let me give him another chance he didn’t mean it or to he is going through a lot “ then he can be silent , he can walk , he can listen to music he can sit and talk he can express himself with more than inflicting terror . That’s not a mans value or character. So often even abusers say “ I’m here to protect you from other men “ but care more when men flirt with their girl than them hitting their girl . S*** I wish we could do talks or panels in Chicago something

We got it back on track and hashed it out don’t worry

They still ain't found dude yet? That nigga in Cuba.

Probably in the ocean by now huh

Or the nigga living in the wild somewhere

I think he killed himself ages ago. We will see tho.

I’m not even go cap, actually reading your responses with the intent to comprehend instead of arguing really made me see this from a different perspective. Yes I’ll admit, maybe what I was preaching was surface level, what you’re saying does take it a step deeper and make you question the actions of the man before a shorty goes missing or something. We do need more love stories that doesn’t involve “staying down” or going through hell and back to feel love. It’s toxic and it’s too normalized to the point where people are accepting anything just to have someone. It’s up to us to break them generational curses since we’re the most progressive generation. We got the power to make serious change in the future. It’s just a matter of coming up with plans, we can’t fix or help everyone but we can for sure try. These young ladies need outside voices preaching to them that p**** don’t make a nigga crazy, that nigga already crazy and he’s just feel like you’re a piece of property or something. Panels around Chicago would be dope, especially on the south side my citizens app been picking up a man assaulting a woman everyday for the last couple weeks now. If you could just get through to one person, that would be dope. Cause then they can spread the word and the ball will keep rolling. Just sitting down and actually THINKING about this just remind me that we have sooooo much work to do. I get why you were going so hard now.

Because it ripples everywhere from military to police violence to gang violence . If you can harm someone you love then you can harm anyone. There will be niggas that day they love their mom and sister yet will hit their girlfriend or baby mama. It makes no sense then the kids see it and reflect it . They reflect what their parents accept . Women deserve so much more than that . So glad we see eye to eye . I’ve seen so many couples arguing in public before where it’s like I keep a close eye on it or be ready to mediate . S*** when leaving listening party 3 there was a man screaming at his lady . I know sometimes it’s easy to say “ imma stay out the way “ but part of staying out the way leads to these things or people record for internet clout . Even the 911 caller in this case made sure to say “ this gentleman is hitting her” so even when reporting a crime it’s maintaining the purity of not only his whiteness but the fact he a man . Too often when we hear someone is hit the reaction is “ I’m sure he had a good reason “ or “ that’s their relationship “ until it’s too late but everything else is goals. Quavo didn’t even hit saweetie they just fought over the briefcase and people freaked out yet sometimes when someone directly inflicts pain with the sole purpose of scaring a woman they like “ that’s a dominant man “ . So part of it is removing hitting a woman from dominance or strength . Same way we wouldn’t applaud hitting a child who is defenseless anymore ( some still say I’m glad I was spanked or parents hit me ) so I think that’s part of why the cycle continues . Conditioning through violence . Men are same way til suddenly she hits back or tries to escape then the man feels like his world gonna shatter “ you won’t ruin my life “ and views and acts like someone they once loved is disposable or no longer needs to exist .

We may never know . Whether he alive or dead I’m sure he did a lot in his power to assure his body wouldn’t be identified . They gave him way too long to plan / build cash . This will serve as a distraction for people who want him arrested or death penalty or motive when reality is we will likely never get answers . It’s senseless triggering violence against women . That I hope shocked at least one woman in an abusive relationship to get to a safe situation restraining order and rebuild without the codependency. A lot of these relationships are based on codependency. S*** that misandry thread has a bunch of men thinking every woman is like Twitter wants man to pay for everything just Labor and she creates the kid has s***and provide the warmth . There has to be more than just “ relationship goals “

Agreed.

I can’t wait for the cops to reveal more about the other two women that were killed in the area. As well as the missing two guys.

This town has not had any missing people or murders in over 40 years and all of a sudden he rolled to town and people start dropping.

First look inside the secluded waterfront campsite where Dog the Bounty Hunter claims Brian Laundrie is evading police by island hopping in a canoe - as it's revealed he and Gabby went there two months before her murder

dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10037499/First-look-inside-campsite-Dog-Bounty-Hunter-claims-Brian-Laundrie-hiding-out.html

This guy still going writing walls of text

If Dog the Bounty Hunter is the one who finds him I'm gonna die laughing

I'm saying, lol if you want your s*** to be read at least separate it into paragraphs

I mean he likely planned it to some degree. Because we still don't know if her evidence had or has direct evidence linking to him. He could have been planning to make it look like a tragic accident then that domestic violence call ruined his plan. The fact that Dog the Bounty hunter after him is both hysetrical and dystopian because its like how Dog the Bounty hunter doing a better job than our government at finding him? Also we shouldnt need bounty hunters to hunt down those capturing women or harming women but if we do need bounty hunters to do such things then why are they not continously more successful

Perhaps it isn't for you We were having a good conversation. I ain't type that to be easily digestible or for likes on KTT

Nah they’re trying to filter out the people who can’t read more than a headline, to start an actual conversation instead of a flame war.

They’re the two that have been doing the flame war. Across two threads lol get real

Niggas just be posting.

Y’all mfers got issues