#BARS

for some reason, I have a way of asking the right questions about them and their past and the future that they start talking about s***and the rest is a wrap if I press the situation

idk what it is but there’s a fine line correlation between her talking about niggas that let her down and her revealing she’s thinks she’s ready date now in this conversation we having which is clearly an opening for “nigga if you don’t give me the ick, we will be f***ing within a week or 2”

but to answer your question, my approach is always get them talking about anything and everything, feel like this make em feel like the center of attention, kill em with jokes and wit, and the rest is a wrap if there’s no cockblockers and even that can be worked around. so yes, talk for a while when first meeting and after, but always in person. if we texting, outside of usual tap ins throughout the day, always tryna establish a link and during the link it’s all compliments, flirting, and being subtle

I’m batting .000 with the hoes

Get gf

not cuffing season yet

Sounds like hell

idk out of like the 10 or so first dates with randoms gone on as an adult ive only not f***ed on 2 of them.
half of those turned into relationships i think

but im up front about my intentions before i go.

you just have to communicate honestly, dont come on too strong like legit ask them questions about themsleves, about topics you are interested in as well. be funny and lighthearted, share things about yourself youre passionate about they would be interested in.

then when they bring up what you wanna do just tell them honestly you wanna f***. and if they dont want to thats ok, tell them youre still looking to have a fun night as friends or youre fine waiting.

nobody wants to be treated like objects. But you can still be clear about enjoying having s***on first dates as part of the fun.

just gotta have fun with it, its not serious and thinking about things in terms of “fumble rates” and whatnot is not healthy at all. everyone is different. be sincere!

She has to kick my ass to get my life right

I literally was high asf for 3 days straight this weekend unless she do edibles im good

i dont have any rizz at this time, can you please provide detailed information on the s***procedure

I dnt make the first moves so there is no fumbling. Kinda p****. Buut it saves me froom embarassment

Honestly I've never truly fumbled. Closest I ever came was asking a girl out in 8th grade when she had a crush on me in 6th grade, but she had a "boyfriend" in 6th grade, so that's why I never asked her out. Besides that it overwhelmingly is the case that the women in my past have fumbled me

so far its at a 100% ngl

75% but I ain’t shootin muxh

Wanna bet?