you'll marry a music man
This gofund me stuff is toxic af. Some people don’t even need it. Deadass when I got shot in my arm bc a crazy b**** couldn’t control her drinking, couldn’t work, pay s***, lost my home and car, state didn’t help me at all in the case. I still feel pain down my arm but I just adjusted to living with it. I got back up on my feet bc I’m not the type to ask for help like that anyway. Some people def do not need a gofund me for some small s***. I’m biased bc I received no type of help yet I saw some kid raised a nice amount of money all because he had no friends like bruhh.
Research on desired emotions revealed that individuals want to feel negative emotions if they expect these emotions to yield certain benefits. In previous studies, the pursuit of sadness (e.g., via pursuing art that evokes sadness) has been attributed to hedonic motives, i.e., to feel pleasure. We propose that in individuals with major depressive disorder (MDD) the pursuit of sadness may be more strongly related to self-verification motives, i.e., to sustain their sense of self through feeling sad.
Oh my lord the relief
Research on desired emotions revealed that individuals want to feel negative emotions if they expect these emotions to yield certain benefits. In previous studies, the pursuit of sadness (e.g., via pursuing art that evokes sadness) has been attributed to hedonic motives, i.e., to feel pleasure. We propose that in individuals with major depressive disorder (MDD) the pursuit of sadness may be more strongly related to self-verification motives, i.e., to sustain their sense of self through feeling sad.
100% there’s a negative feedback loop where people base on their identity on negative characteristics so even if it makes them miserable they feed into those because that’s where they have placed “I”
On a related note, personality disorders are not “real” in the same way that, say, heart disease, is. They are just buckets of certain traits or behaviors and if you exhibit enough of these you “have” the disorder, a frame which makes it seem much more permanent, fundamental, and intrinsic than if the diagnosis was just “you are currently exhibiting this collection of maladaptive behaviors”, where these are now temporary afflictions that, through effort and willpower, can be discarded
100% there’s a negative feedback loop where people base on their identity on negative characteristics so even if it makes them miserable they feed into those because that’s where they have placed “I”
me when im 16 listening to lil peep

Did NOBODY in the studio tell Soulja boy how sus that opening line was lmao. Even Zaytoven was ok with it?
@Alione
As long as your hair, outfit, and body is on point you should be good to go. Just put yourself out there like what helps me is that the dudes who've had the most p**** have been turned down the most too.
Honestly i could use some work on those areas
Thanks for the advice man, sending you all the best vibes