the whole introvert-extravert dichotomy should be reimagined, its literally the most pointless description when pretty much 75% of people are one thing (introvert) and 25% the other (extravert) and even then 'not entirely'
This too
It definitely happens man niggas never gonna keep it honest with themselves about how they can improve and as I get older I realize that lol so certain ppl you gotta just grow apart from
I don’t think most lonely guys have women asking them friendly questions out of no where lol but there is a point here to try and be friendly
that interaction has literally never happened to me and doesnt happen to a lot of people lmao
Internet niggas be saying whatever to fit a narrative
the whole introvert-extravert dichotomy should be reimagined, its literally the most pointless description when pretty much 75% of people are one thing (introvert) and 25% the other (extravert) and even then 'not entirely'
I am extroverted as F*** but I also need my time alone to recharge and be creative. That's just part of the human experience.
that interaction has literally never happened to me and doesnt happen to a lot of people lmao
Internet niggas be saying whatever to fit a narrative
Yeah it’s definitely not a common interaction today at all lol
Yea u right, most ppl have a small circle they hold on to dearly and everything outside that is pretty much useless to them, only a certain type of person is constantly looking for new friends to hang with
The former is me to a T. And I want to do better. I need to find like some secondary friends man
I never got the small circle s*** tbh. If you have a lot of interests / hobbies you’re gonna have a wide net.
Yeah it’s definitely not a common interaction today at all lol
you’ve never had ppl just randomly try and chat out of proximity or something
like while sitting in class or waiting in line
it’s not that rare
In a nutshell: society has turned inro that middle school prom dance scenario where everyone is divided on opposite halves of the school room and no one is moving an inch towards each other.
The question is: who gonna make that proverbial first step?
Like why is that s*** so popular to look down on lmao
Because you have rappers promoting it
Loneliness =/= being alone
People can be lonely and not being alone and solitary people can also not be lonely.
you’ve never had ppl just randomly try and chat out of proximity or something
like while sitting in class or waiting in line
it’s not that rare
its also not that common lmao
i can count on one hand how many times ive been approached by a stranger irl regardless of gender
im seeing these thread titles and straight making Donald Duck sounds with my mouth
I will NOT let that whole vote s*** go for at least the end of this week I swear
please move to politics its upsetting me
NURSE
its also not that common lmao
i can count on one hand how many times ive been approached by a stranger irl regardless of gender
bro where do u even live
I never got the small circle s*** tbh. If you have a lot of interests / hobbies you’re gonna have a wide net.
most people dont have a lot of hobbies or interests
an even still its so fake in that world a lot of the time, like if u make music only a few mufuckas u meet is gonna become your good friend
bro where do u even live
nigga i live in the bay area
everyone my age is already in their own cliques and social circles aint no one tryna talk to strangers
You need balance that works for you.
I feel like most of the time people really enjoy talking to me, probably because I’m not really judgemental, a good listener, and just say what’s on my mind .But I’ve only made cool acquaintances wouldn’t call them friends.
But what I don’t like is being wrapped up around someone else’s drama that s*** suffocating, it’s why I don’t do favors.
I feel like I go through cycles where I’m interacting with people and then I’m gone for months just enjoying my own time.
When I go out I’m mainly doing s*** on my own, contemplating going to another boiler room dj set this weekend or go to the arcade bar by myself, cause I recently started a new job and I haven’t been on much, I missed the Larry June concert but it’s cool, I’m going to thunder cats/ yatchy’s later this year. I’m a very in the moment type of person and it seems like people come up to me and start a convo rather than I do. I just be drunk and high asf.
My hobby is art and that is a very lonely hobby frl but it’s not depressing in the slightest.
Because you have rappers promoting it
not just rappers but i feel you
girls pretty rarely approach, theyll usually just give u a smile
we’re not talking about flirting
We’re just talking about people wanting to have a convo lol
I never got the small circle s*** tbh. If you have a lot of interests / hobbies you’re gonna have a wide net.
I just get along well with people who enjoy sports, fashion, traveling and food. Like if you love either one of those things like I love em, we’ll be cool off the bat. Bonus points if you’re African lol.
But ik for me, it’s just doing it lol. Like I’m more than capable to hold and carry a convo, but I don’t like walking up on strangers lol. Like I said, tryna do better tho.