If your girl ain't got a strap then you can stfu about equality

Open your bussy before you talk smack cowards

Op made this thread cause of the story of adidon thread

If you believe men shouldn’t be able to abandon, then you also believe women shouldn’t be able to abort.

I can respect you for being pro-life or pro-choice because both sides are right in their own way, but I can’t respect you if you are okay with women doing things that men can’t. That’s playing both sides.

You see how down right dumb this sound? You have no choice but to be tied to this person for life because their feelings matter more even though you both created it.

except there’s a huge difference in the abandon and abort situation and that is the living kid lol

Has absolutely nothing to do with the woman it has everything to do with the kids

This is on the right track imo

Don't think "deadbeat" is the word you're looking for. People are going to come ITT off the strength of the title alone and misunderstand what it is you're trying to say off rip. It's a sensitive topic as is.

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1. Been considering letting my girl peg me

2. P**** was literally designed to go in her for the purpose of procreation, my a****** isn't furthering mankind

It’s not a debate over what a man should do. It’s about having the Freedom to make that choice.

See your problem is you think the law should correlate with how you personally feel, and not what’s fair to everyone.

I definitely don’t want men abandoning their kids, but it doesn’t mean they shouldn’t have the right to do so especially if women can via abortion.

So again, this is not about what is right and wrong, this is about a fair playing field for all included parties whether we like it or not.

Law shouldn’t be based in personal feelings.

Yea they need to come lock this up

This is terrible

Yeah you're right, couldn't think of the proper way to phrase it cause that's just the automatic label thrown on a nigga that doesn't care for a child he didn't want.

You are f***ed in the head

Ill admit that was bad wording, shouldve said something else

But all in all, i still think a woman is not a deadbeat for choosing to abort. Its just different for a woman to leave their kid than it is a man. Like i said to timmy a man can up and disappear but a woman is stuck with the baby until its born, miscarriage, or aborted. I dont even feel right as a man trying to speak on it but its something well never understand

Comparing the two is apples and oranges

Anytime somebody brings up any subject even remotely touchy y'all cry for a lock, how about exiting same way you entered if you don't like the discussion

You guys aren’t getting that OP is arguing against the double standard between the accountability men have to have vs women, yall are parroting the double standard itself because it sounds good rather than giving a logical rebuttal (which is why this thread is still needlessly going)

So I’ll give the logical explanation: the reason the double standard exists is because women don’t have the same role as men do when it comes to parenting. Neither biologically or socially. The man automatically takes more responsibility because he had to go out of his way to insert something into her in order for a child to be made; the woman really didn’t have to do anything initially besides take some d***

So for a guy to go out of his way to risk impregnating, then wanna go back on that…is not the same as a girl not wanting to be a parent after taking some d*** and getting knocked up by a dude with weak pullout game. Abandonment from either the man or woman is morally s***ty tho

No they get it because I already broke it down.

They are just so conditioned to go along with what’s popular that they refuse to think critically.

Nothing new, just the next generation that will slow down progression because it makes them uncomfortable.

Idk about abandoning/being a deadbeat as a response, but I do think things like child support should be lessened or altered if both people are on opposite ends of raising a child.

I know three guys who have both been trapped or had their child terminated at the hands of the woman out of spite, so there definitely needs to be a change legally somehow when it comes to the financial part.

OP is wrong to think they are the same tho even tho I see why he came to this thought. A man is being more cowardly than a woman if he abandons a child because his role in becoming a parent was more active and voluntary

Leaving is the make equivalent to abortion, because as a man you have literally no other option when you don't want a kid. In the same way a female doesn't have to consult a man to delete his seed, men are just f***ed? A woman can bail on a pregnancy but just f*** men's feelings or opinions on something y'all went 50/50 on creating? You didn't phrase it wrong, you think it's okay for women to have their cake and eat it too but men are meaningless.

How was it more active and voluntary? An accidental pregnancy is not one parties fault. My ex was riding me and literally refused to get off when I said I was about nut, and this has happened more than once with other females. But guess if I ain't want that kid I should just go f*** myself?

Y’all can go and have all the kids in the world and not take care of them that’s completely up to you, plenty of men do it. Just stating I don’t have respect for men who don’t man up and raise their children regardless of the situation. You nutted in her you know the potential outcome of that decision

@op you read this yet because this has links to studies showing that it’s more conducive to raise a child under a two parent household. One parent households statistically leads to less development within the child in the more risk of mental illness.