free world

5y

imma be a deadbeat

but you see them yeezys he got on at his graduation?

that's me! I did that!

darklex150

5y

Thread full of deadbeats.

Some of yall talking about "unfairness", but you know whats really unfair? That only women get pregnant. It doesn't matter if you use condoms and if neither of you parents want the child.

She is the one making the decision because she is the person having the baby. Once you nut in a girl you better be ready for the consequences.

What can you do to avoid this? Limit your s***activity only with people you are willing to deal with, get a vasectomy or dont have s***at all. Your "opinion" doesn't matter anymore once you get a girl preggo, be a man and take full responsibility of your actions.

OnyxShine9

5y

If you’re there financially you aren’t a deadbeat

oat milk

5y

the decision was made by both parties to prevent a baby (presumably via contraception), unless it was specifically decided to have a baby.

regardless of an accident, the agreement was to NOT HAVE A BABY. its not just HER decision as HER decision radically alters the life of ANOTHER person.

if she wants the baby for herself, great. thats her choice, the man is not responsible as the mutual agreement was for it not to be.

otherwise, the man would not have had s***with her.

why is that so hard to grasp?

nogoodmyles

5y

one of the first things you shoulda got taught before s***is that…nigga you can have a child from this. y’all saying it’s the women choice to have an abortion, it’s yo choice not to stick yo d*** in nothing if you can’t afford/don’t want to have a kid

user

5y

lmaoo so nigga might as well not even pay that s*** if he still gon be called a deadbeat

TIIMMY BURNER

5y

In my opinion, it takes two to make a child. If early in the pregnancy a man asks you to have an abortion, and you refuse, you're acknowledging he wanted nothing to do with the kid early and still choosing to go through with it. That's not on him.

I say this because in the same vain, if a woman is the one in the relationship that decides she isn't ready and gets an abortion there is nothing seen as wrong there. Would y'all agree?

Niggamortis

5y

Dude that I worked with at AMC had to drop out and quit is job because his ex wanted to keep the baby and had him on lock.

That s*** is just beyond f***ed up.

Niggamortis

5y

Dude that I worked with at AMC had to drop out and quit is job because his ex wanted to keep the baby and had him on lock.

That s*** is just beyond f***ed up.

user

5y

we gotta end this logic

we both wanted to F*** lmao nobody is thinking about a baby

Mafia Boss

5y

how much was his child support?

Niggamortis

5y

Idk but he just stopped coming into work and people said he was depressed and started living with his parents for help.

Probably couldn't afford anything at the time, he was only in high school.

Situations like that just get overlooked and it's really f***ed.

nogoodmyles

5y

one of the first things you shoulda got taught before s***is that…nigga you can have a child from this. y’all saying it’s the women choice to have an abortion, it’s yo choice not to stick yo d*** in nothing if you can’t afford/don’t want to have a kid

Mafia Boss

5y

He shouldve stayed in school child support wouldnt have been much if he had no income and no prior work

nogoodmyles

5y

bro that’s the problem right there, mfs don’t wanna think about the consequences of s*** until it’s too late

it’s cool that you just wanna f*** and she do too, but you gotta understand when she get that pregnancy test and it come back positive and now the doctor telling her her options, it’s not just wanting to f*** to her. she got a whole life she gotta think about it.

if niggas thought about that too before just wanting to f*** s*** would be a lot better

Babaláwo

5y

Be realistic my boy. S***ain’t that clear cut.

nogoodmyles

5y

y’all saying this but it really is lmao. like it’s a reason that, once again if you had any type of solid male figure in yo life, they tell you not to f*** somebody you don’t wanna have a child with.

s*** can happen and now you tied to that person for 18 years at least. y’all really don’t be thinking of this s***??? it really just stop at “i’mma f*** this hoe” for yall lmao

Mafia Boss

5y

thats cause of the current laws. The law should be changed.

nogoodmyles

5y

buddy the law is way more than fair. you don’t even gotta literally be in the child’s life if you don’t want too, just send yo bread and move on.

Mafia Boss

5y

you shouldnt have to pay if you dont want it. her body her choice her baby