Apr 12, 2023you need a hobby you can channel your energy into
something you can accomplish and say “I did that s***”
make music and put it out
learn how to paint and create some fire portraits
join a hoops rec league and drop 30 a game
or just hit the gym and improve your body like everyone else
Apr 12, 2023·edited
VAGABOND02high key tho i don't wanna have to screw anyone else
my thing is just that we keep reconnecting every time we stop talking and it feels like a pattern that's hard to break. she hmu again last year and i think it's approaching a year since we stopped talking but i'm still not over it
high key worst part is i google her name sometimes and i found out she had a podcast and made some music that's not really mindblowing but still relatively good and it kinda got me f'd up cus i always thought i would be more talented than her in that regard. i've thought about making music for years but never did.
another thing is she has a job and a college degree and she's 2 years younger than me. she seems like she's making a lot of moves. she was talking about getting her own apartment and saving up so she can take a master's program 👀
At the level I'm at, I'm not even sure if I'm gonna finish my undergraduate program since i always f*** it up. i would have quit a long time ago but my mom insists i get my degree
i never had any huge goals or aspirations so it always seemed easy to go in line with that plus it seems smarter and ig she's paying for it anyway 
anyway all that s*** aside, it's like she keeps moving ahead and i'm moving also but considerably slower.
when we dated she was the more attractive between us and i always felt like she was never that attracted to me or there were guys she would have preferred to be with. at the time i feel like my game sucked and i probably couldn't have gotten with another girl if i tried and now my game is better but i still feel like i'm really not interested in being with anyone. lowkey i think i prefer d*** anyhow
i just kind of want to go for a period of time without having to think about her
idk what's up with me 
Are you working? What are you studying?
If you not working you need to be putting your all into your studies. I would also suggest hitting the gym to keep your mind off things. I don’t know how old you are but you need to get your life in order. Coming on here to vent is cool to get things off your chest but you can’t dwell on this for too long or you’ll find yourself in the same spot for months or even years if you aren’t careful.
I know right now it seems like you can’t go on without her and you won’t be able to connect with another woman. But it gets better. And life goes on. Sounds like you need to do some soul searching so you can find your purpose. Until you are on your path following your purpose, you will still have the feelings you mentioned above. But keep fighting I’m pulling for you 💯
Apr 12, 2023Fall in love with urself, pamper urself, u are the bad b****, u have the biggest t*** in the room, work towards s*** u want to accomplish, focus on making urself the sexiest most successful version of urself possible
Apr 12, 2023same as every other problem
play a contact sport
plants 🌻Apr 12, 2023·1 replywell looks like you got a few pages of good advice, have you also tried d****?
garetare ✅Apr 12, 2023·1 replyplantswell looks like you got a few pages of good advice, have you also tried d****?
d**** didnt help me, maybe i need to go stronger
- plants 🌻Apr 12, 2023·1 replygaretare
d**** didnt help me, maybe i need to go stronger
yolo
Apr 12, 2023·1 replyplantsyolo
No
- plants 🌻Apr 12, 2023·1 replyCorporate Mór
No
u got a hacked quicksave feature or sum???
- Apr 12, 2023·2 repliesplants
u got a hacked quicksave feature or sum???
With the right woman you can live multiple times
Apr 12, 2023·1 replyJust remember you’re gonna die soon @OP, it’s not worth the ruminating.
Proceed past this juncture and move forth to the precipice of your future endeavor.
Perhaps it’ll prove even more fruitful than your previous engagement.
- garetare ✅Apr 12, 2023·1 replyCorporate Mór
With the right woman you can live multiple times
what if i take d**** with the right woman
- plants 🌻Apr 12, 2023Corporate Mór
With the right woman you can live multiple times
what do you mean by this...
- Apr 12, 2023·2 repliesCrimsonArk
Just remember you’re gonna die soon @OP, it’s not worth the ruminating.
Proceed past this juncture and move forth to the precipice of your future endeavor.
Perhaps it’ll prove even more fruitful than your previous engagement.
What kind of comment is that
It doesn't even sound smart
- Apr 12, 2023·2 repliesCorporate Mór
What kind of comment is that
It doesn't even sound smart
Yeah.
Because I’m f***ing stupid you idiot.
- garetare ✅Apr 12, 2023CrimsonArk
Yeah.
Because I’m f***ing stupid you idiot.
thats #2reel 💯🫡🔁
- Apr 12, 2023CrimsonArk
Yeah.
Because I’m f***ing stupid you idiot.
You are truly enlightened. I was wrong
- plants 🌻Apr 12, 2023·1 replyCorporate Mór
What kind of comment is that
It doesn't even sound smart
it's like an ai post from the future where we have éd ai posting for laughs
- Apr 12, 2023·1 reply
This exchange unironically changed my life
- Apr 12, 2023·1 replyplants
it's like an ai post from the future where we have éd ai posting for laughs
You gotta write this book man
- plants 🌻Apr 12, 2023Corporate Mór
You gotta write this book man
alas i am also f***ing stupid
- Apr 12, 2023·1 replygaretare
what if i take d**** with the right woman
Baby company is a d***
According to the National Institute on Aging the health risks of prolonged isolation are equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
- garetare ✅Apr 12, 2023Corporate Mór
This exchange unironically changed my life
please explain in a 5 paragraph essay, cheers
Apr 12, 2023ignoring the weird music competition part of the story, it's hard guy.
really gotta block them out your life, on all socials, stop searching her up. it's hard without doubt, especially before theyve moved on. i've found it harder on a person to move on when they know their ex hasnt moved on yet either in terms of finding another partner. speaking from exp here.
it sucks for sure. but finding your new partner is best option. give yourself space and however long needed rolling solo dolo (we all need solo dolo time post relationship) and once you have had your fun work on finding your next love.