Youre right perhabs I was mistrusting the data so much because the difference just seemed surreal. As it turns out its just completely blown out of proportion by neglecting marriage status and strange age classification 18-24 year olds and 25-35 year old are much more realistic.
When I looked up German studies (who were much up to 5 times the sample size
) it got me like ok something is up.
Now this one I think gives a much better picture
https://www.bgsu.edu/ncfmr/resources/data/family-profiles/brown-manning-relationship-status-trends-age-gender-fp-21-25.html
also sadly I couldnt find the methodolgy the author used except he based it of this census which a***yses households (which honestly seems to make alot more sense than the vague feeling of what being single means)
https://cps.ipums.org/cps/sample_sizes.shtml
including 18-22 def seems weird cause thats college and high school age people so that probably skews results a lot too
this is such a depressing statistic imo. it proves so many red pill talking points.
what makes things even sadder is we can't even expect things to change soon. young men are lonely and isolated and there's not much we can do
i'm pretty lonely and as much as i eat well, go exercise, and hang out with friends it's very difficult to meet women for me because i'm introverted, which in 2023 is basically equivalent to staying single
I believe being in a relationship is a sign of prosperity at this point. It seems the most marginalized people are single.
Even the study shows the people with the highest rates of singledom are black people,young people aka people with little money, people with little education, gay people, and specifically gay men
New world rules with old world ideology is killing men snd relationships tbh. Too many rules to be able to find a nice partner and people who are well off and never played by the rules in the first place are benefitting now more then ever.
Shut the f*** up, i didn't ask for your goody happy advice. You have been there? Nigga, I have been there and I can assure you that it will never get better, only way out is to die. My only wish is that I could burn this world down with me but since I can't, killing myself if enough.
No it is not? Especially when the Math is skewed by extraneous variables like dating older men?
It's not n = 6,000 of pre-qualified, valuable participants; it is a sum of people who are not relevant to the study's hypothesis but are not acting as a control, either
they need ten thousand people
There's nothing to come out of, this IS life. It's suffering. Living in 2023 when everything is so easy makes us forget that 90% of the human experience throughout 99% of history has been suffering.
Life is suffering, love is not real, nobody will ever truly love you, accept it.
There's nothing to come out of, this IS life. It's suffering. Living in 2023 when everything is so easy makes us forget that 90% of the human experience throughout 99% of history has been suffering.
Life is suffering, love is not real, nobody will ever truly love you, accept it.
BASED
this is such a depressing statistic imo. it proves so many red pill talking points.
what makes things even sadder is we can't even expect things to change soon. young men are lonely and isolated and there's not much we can do
i'm pretty lonely and as much as i eat well, go exercise, and hang out with friends it's very difficult to meet women for me because i'm introverted, which in 2023 is basically equivalent to staying single
People's obsession with the messenger vs the message will be the downfall of humanity
I'm guessing a lot of them are professional side niggas
https://twitter.com/datepsych/status/1624071030154096640Professional side nigga here. Can confirm. I get told I have good problems but I hate it. I have needs so it’s whatever. But I also hate I’m rarely seen as a dating candidate, but I’m good enough to f*** around with because I’m what someone needs for the moment emotionally/physically bc they don’t get it from the other mf
What're you talking about, man? They tried to set out a credible nationwide survey of American dating patterns and surveyed 6,000 people?
My man never had a market research class in his life
Shut the f*** up, i didn't ask for your goody happy advice. You have been there? Nigga, I have been there and I can assure you that it will never get better, only way out is to die. My only wish is that I could burn this world down with me but since I can't, killing myself if enough.
…yeah i made a mistake even clicking this thread lol im out
Shut the f*** up, i didn't ask for your goody happy advice. You have been there? Nigga, I have been there and I can assure you that it will never get better, only way out is to die. My only wish is that I could burn this world down with me but since I can't, killing myself if enough.
Been awhile since I’ve made a cringe vulnerable post lol.
As a single black male, s*** is hard out here. Not the social type and have agoraphobia so I’m not going out meeting people really. I HAVE to rely on the internet for dating. Until recent years it wasn’t a problem but getting older and the game changing up has made it much harder. As a black male (or woman even) like everything else in life we have to be twice as good as everyone else to be seen as viable or a catch. Meanwhile other races can get away with bare minimum (not even that) behavior and still have no problem dating. When dating within our race we hold each other to annoying or ridiculous standards. Dating outside is even worse because fetish is usually somewhere at the core of the other persons attraction. It’s rarely because we are liked for being us. Idk. It’s bad all around.
It probably wouldn’t bother me if I was completely inept and unable to pull women at all. The fact I attract women but can’t find a sustainable relationship drives me nuts at this point. And I’m also self aware that I’m at an age where my personal circumstances come strongly into play why things are hard for me and I get that too. So I don’t even trip or hold it against women. But it sucks too because bc a mf don’t like being lonely either and I hate the whole side nigga gig.
Shut the f*** up, i didn't ask for your goody happy advice. You have been there? Nigga, I have been there and I can assure you that it will never get better, only way out is to die. My only wish is that I could burn this world down with me but since I can't, killing myself if enough.

Shut the f*** up, i didn't ask for your goody happy advice. You have been there? Nigga, I have been there and I can assure you that it will never get better, only way out is to die. My only wish is that I could burn this world down with me but since I can't, killing myself if enough.
Lol
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