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  • Purrp 🌚
    Jul 24, 2025
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    Orangutan

    On one hand, this may be good to weed out creeps from the dating pool, but if we're being real this is a very very bad idea. It'd be one thing if everybody was honest, but there's enough vindictive people out there to ruin this for everybody. Outside of the potential for defamation, imagine all the private s*** that could be shared about you on there. S***life details, somebody elses interpretation of your ​political beliefs, really anything. Accountability is good, but I think having a secret spotlight that evaluates you like a Madden player is a massive breach of privacy. I can't help but be reminded of horrible lies spread about people on YikYak in college
    Just to be clear, if there was a male equivalent to this app I would absolutely be against that as well.

    So glad I'm not in the dating game anymore, seems absolutely miserable.

    Imagine a male equivalent of this (ofc it’s not quite the same but for the sake of argument) women would be pretty upset about it I think. I think this kinda kills dating as a fair game to some extent. Obviously creeps and weirdos should be held accountable but this feels like something else entirely

  • Jul 24, 2025
    soapmanwun

    dating is cooked

  • Gosh

    Thank god I found my girl and got married before all this dating app s***

    Good luck to y’all tho

  • Jul 24, 2025
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    CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN

    Would some dude find out then take this to court on some defamation angle? Cus in concept, I'm behind making the dating pool safer for women fasho. I'm just curious about where the legality starts and ends with what's spilled on there.

    Not sure about the legality of it all. Seems like you could really challenge anything said about you as defamation, but I'm pretty sure you have to be able to prove something is not true to have any legal ground to stand on. Somebody correct me if that's not the case tho.

    Even outside of the defamation stuff, I still think that having a public profile you didn't set up where people can anonymously post anything they want about you is bad news.

    Pretty sure the "main feature" of the app is being able to verify that the person you're talking to on a dating app is actually who they claim to be, as well as providing criminal records and making sure they're not a s***offender. I think all of that is perfectly fine, but the anonymous comments thing just seems like it could go very wrong, on top of being a general violation of privacy.

  • Cody

    The app that made your phone look like a beer >

    I know @passing_the_time approves of this post

  • crakc 🪑
    Jul 24, 2025

    I’m sorry you are so so stupid if you think an anonymous social credit system that self-selects itself to be maintained by the most paranoid and insecure women is going to “make dating safer”

  • Jul 24, 2025
    Purrp

    Imagine a male equivalent of this (ofc it’s not quite the same but for the sake of argument) women would be pretty upset about it I think. I think this kinda kills dating as a fair game to some extent. Obviously creeps and weirdos should be held accountable but this feels like something else entirely

    I've just seen too many people spread total falsehoods about their exes to not be skeptical of this. Centralizing and anonymizing those falsehoods is just adding gasoline to the fire.

  • Jul 24, 2025
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    Orangutan

    Not sure about the legality of it all. Seems like you could really challenge anything said about you as defamation, but I'm pretty sure you have to be able to prove something is not true to have any legal ground to stand on. Somebody correct me if that's not the case tho.

    Even outside of the defamation stuff, I still think that having a public profile you didn't set up where people can anonymously post anything they want about you is bad news.

    Pretty sure the "main feature" of the app is being able to verify that the person you're talking to on a dating app is actually who they claim to be, as well as providing criminal records and making sure they're not a s***offender. I think all of that is perfectly fine, but the anonymous comments thing just seems like it could go very wrong, on top of being a general violation of privacy.

    S*** get petty/vindictive with some folks and they will say whatever to smear your name

  • crakc 🪑
    Jul 24, 2025
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    This is the female inversion of dating apps’ monetization of the sexes’ insecurities

    Guys get to pay to see who likes them and prioritize their messages (Tinder premium)

    The ladies pay to see the comment section of players most scornful lays

  • Jul 24, 2025
    CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN

    S*** get petty/vindictive with some folks and they will say whatever to smear your name

    Yeah and I think people denying the prevalence of that are either being dishonest or just haven't been around enough lol.

  • Jul 24, 2025
    Cody

    The app that made your phone look like a beer >

    We peaked in 08 with that and the lighter app fr

  • Jul 24, 2025

    It is funny to see conservatives on twitter complain about being labeled as racist on Tea tho

  • Jul 24, 2025
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    i saw that there was a similar app for men but it got taken down because of revenge p***

  • Jul 24, 2025

    trash

  • Jul 24, 2025
    CGI Dog

    i saw that there was a similar app for men but it got taken down because of revenge p***

    Any male equivalent to Tea is just gonna devolve into that. Given that Tea is as controversial as it is, any app made in response is going to have a vindictive user base. And that's not even taking the nature of a regrettably large portion of men into consideration.

  • Jul 24, 2025
    Purrp

    Imagine a male equivalent of this (ofc it’s not quite the same but for the sake of argument) women would be pretty upset about it I think. I think this kinda kills dating as a fair game to some extent. Obviously creeps and weirdos should be held accountable but this feels like something else entirely

    imagine if the sky was red, i bet sunsets would look way different

  • Jul 24, 2025
  • Jul 24, 2025

    had a coworker show it to me and everyone she showed in our area you would expect to be up there but even she acknowledged hoes will just start lying if they just want revenge on a nigga

  • Jul 24, 2025

    There is an it's always sunny episode on this and dennis goes psychotic

  • Jul 24, 2025

    humans are so funny man

  • Jul 24, 2025
    Stankie

    We are losing recipes

  • Jul 24, 2025

    Graduated college just in time

  • Jul 24, 2025

    Glad I was a hoe when things were right in the world . Used to get so many baddies on tinder without being a 6’5 football player. Rip

  • Jul 24, 2025

    Oh yeah it’s curtains for my exes new bf

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