We don't get into all that religious shizz. But absolutely, the hardest part right now is mentally transitioning from being her parents to being her aunt and uncle

Yea after 9 months I ain’t just handing shorty the baby. The police gonna have to get involved.

Age bro

OP shoulda pulled a Finding Carter

Idk. Less messy this way, in Delaware dude it doesn't really matter what the mother does she's favored 98% of the ti e. Getting the police involved would've only caused us more stress, traumatize the baby, and lessen our chances of ever actually getting to see her again, which means a bit to my girl. Like I posted, she's already asking us to watch the baby and it hasn't even been 2 weeks.

Bro that's actually weird asf your calling it "my baby" that's not your kid

As long as it's being taken care of by someone you should be happy for it

That poor baby gonna need u either way by the sounds of it

They been taking care of her since she was born tho

I'm calling it my baby because I've literally had her since she was born? In a time when both of the birth parents said f*** the baby I opened my home to it fully prepared to raise it for life. So please tell me how I'm wrong for calling it my baby

Damn OP you are a good man for taking care of that kid

Why’d they take the baby? Sorry if you already explained this/don’t want to explain

Yea and ur still not the blood related parent so not ur baby

and u only had it for 9 months

Compare that to the potential 18 years it will spend with its real parents

Calling it "my baby" without considering the outlook of its future is just some weird attachment u have

The parents are now owning up to there responsibility and it's very selfish of you to say 'no my kid now'

You don't have kids

I'd liken it to taking care of someone's pet for a few months

Without the nuance of the parents situation ofc

I dont what's ur point

If someone said they didn't want their pet for nine months and I took care of it I probably would be pretty upset if they just wanted it back after that

You have no understanding of human relationships then

Go f*** yourself

Troll or not, you're acting like a piece of s*** itt

Yeah I agree but would u be upset like 5 yrs later when the kid/pet is a toddler

Yes I'd probably still be pretty upset

I understand how it would feel in the short term but if u look past that it's nbd

Your weird

The kid is being taken care of

But its not 5 years later

OP is dealing with an emotionally intense situation right now, and your insensitive ass is in here criticizing him for thinking of the child he's been raising since birth as his own

He just said they took in the baby with the intent to raise it as theirs