Moving out raw like that is what makes a man. I been there brother, you come out stronger for it and all this, while hard now, will be something you look back on in the future like wow I really made it through that.
Happy birthday!
All will be well
Either way enjoy the moment while you can
Happy birthday! Was just reading the thread and i gotta say you're strong as hell and a good man. Good luck, better days will come for sure
Moving out raw like that is what makes a man. I been there brother, you come out stronger for it and all this, while hard now, will be something you look back on in the future like wow I really made it through that.
yes sir! me n my girl was saying that we’ll prob look back and miss the situation we’re in right now
Damn you and yo girl are relationship goals to the fullest. Hope all goes well for you 2
Check out airbnb and do some Uber eats or doordash at night to pay for it.
Airbnb usually has rooms for like $40-$50 a night.
Happy Birthday!
@op it WILL get better
Check out airbnb and do some Uber eats or doordash at night to pay for it.
Airbnb usually has rooms for like $40-$50 a night.
Happy Birthday!
yeah we been doing doordash on the side been definitely helping
I'm on the edge of my seat
U better have your happily ever after
Just saw this thread for the first time. Happy belated brother, you'll get through this, TRUSS ME DADDI

Your love for each other looks boundless. Cherish what you have. Lots of people rich or poor go their whole lives without finding that kind of genuine unconditional love so make sure ya tell your girl you love the s*** outta her tonight
FINAL UPDATE: We just moved in this morning!!!! After 2 months living in the car and out of motels/hotels we finally got the keys to the apartment. Living in cleveland on a main road in walking distance of hella s***! we’re hype and very relieved to finally lay on the floor of the apartment.
Stopped by my parents to grab some things i wanted to keep, grabbed the ps5 and the switch as well and i’m finally on my way to the apartment! (soft flex i know)

dropped some of our bags off and dropped on the floor and laid on the floor for a bit
appreciate all the love and support from ktt and hopefully this is relieving to some or some inspiration for those in tough situations
WE UPP NOW AND WE LIT! TIME TO DECORATE THE APARTMENT AND F*** MY BEAUTIFUL GIRLFRIEND ON THIS FLOOR FOR NOW

Day 5 update: this what the trunk looking like. Stayed at a hotel last night to sleep in a bed and rest up and get some better hygiene. Almost had a mental breakdown after my gf and I got turned down from some racist ass people at this restaurant

Update #2 (6/4) We got approved for our dream apartment! The down side is move in date isn’t until another month or so. Still making decent money and not stressing too much about our situation. Keeping up with school work is hard at times but I should be okay. Appreciate the support from everyone
Update #3: Day 28 (6/25)
It’s my birthday! my gf got hella stuff for me and we’re going on a picnic still trying to enjoy ourselves. I cut my hand open the other day and had to get 3 stitches. My mental health is okay but our situation has really been taking a toll on my gf. She’s been having a lot of stress and anxiety and it’s been hard for her lately. it sucks we can’t shower/use the bathroom/brush our teeth whenever we feel like it and i miss being in a house. i miss sleeping in bed a lot and we did get hotels for like 3 or 4 nights so far. we’re 3 weeks away from moving in but not trying to count down the days. we’ll get furniture prob the week of moving in or something but money been really tight lately. eating out 24/7 has been nasty and really expensive and i’m tired of it. it’s hard being motivated in the gym or in school but i’m still trying. time flying by but not fast enough, trying to enjoy the moment though. appreciate you guys and i love y’all! gonna go try to enjoy my birthday:-)

Original post:I don’t know what to do anymore
I been living with my abusive parents my whole life and lately my girl been staying over here and she’s been getting a glimpse of my mom and dad and how they can be
They finally did too much and disrespected my girl and I’d rather be living in my car than in my parents house for another day. They physically/mentally/emotionally abused me forever and I been holding this s*** in for too long.
We both have a couple thousand saved up and we both work but it’s so hard finding an apartment we like that has any openings asap
I guess I’m just scared and don’t know how long we’re gonna be staying in our cars but I know I need to get out of that abusive house and I love my girlfriend too much to let us stay there another day longer
When moving in the first thing you should get is a bed and fridge (if not provided) don’t stress anything else.
Costco has decent mattresses for $200 or less. If you don’t like it then return it no questions asked.
Amazon has cheap bed frames as well.