6isco

5y

nice, wish you best king

hope you and your parents can find common ground one day and have a healthy relationship

Kub

5y

Yeah for sure I think being out the house and seeing each other on special occasions would definitely be more healthy and beneficial for our relationship

6isco

5y

how you doing showering, using the bathroom, teeth brushing, food etc..?

Kub

5y

Just gonna use my gym for showers and hygiene (24 hour with showers and all that), public restrooms easy to find during the day, we’re good on food just have to buy take out or go buy food that doesn’t require any cooking

6isco

5y

your girls jeep a 2 or 4 door?

Kub

5y

4 door!

Kub

5y

Yeah for sure I think being out the house and seeing each other on special occasions would definitely be more healthy and beneficial for our relationship

Kub

5y

Oh we stay out in Cleveland

Mango

5y

I messaged some people up there. Go crash on @chloehotline 's couch until they get back to me

Kub

5y

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FINAL UPDATE: We just moved in this morning!!!! After 2 months living in the car and out of motels/hotels we finally got the keys to the apartment. Living in cleveland on a main road in walking distance of hella s***! we’re hype and very relieved to finally lay on the floor of the apartment.

Stopped by my parents to grab some things i wanted to keep, grabbed the ps5 and the switch as well and i’m finally on my way to the apartment! (soft flex i know)

dropped some of our bags off and dropped on the floor and laid on the floor for a bit appreciate all the love and support from ktt and hopefully this is relieving to some or some inspiration for those in tough situations WE UPP NOW AND WE LIT! TIME TO DECORATE THE APARTMENT AND F*** MY BEAUTIFUL GIRLFRIEND ON THIS FLOOR FOR NOW

Day 5 update: this what the trunk looking like. Stayed at a hotel last night to sleep in a bed and rest up and get some better hygiene. Almost had a mental breakdown after my gf and I got turned down from some racist ass people at this restaurant

Update #2 (6/4) We got approved for our dream apartment! The down side is move in date isn’t until another month or so. Still making decent money and not stressing too much about our situation. Keeping up with school work is hard at times but I should be okay. Appreciate the support from everyone

Update #3: Day 28 (6/25)

It’s my birthday! my gf got hella stuff for me and we’re going on a picnic still trying to enjoy ourselves. I cut my hand open the other day and had to get 3 stitches. My mental health is okay but our situation has really been taking a toll on my gf. She’s been having a lot of stress and anxiety and it’s been hard for her lately. it sucks we can’t shower/use the bathroom/brush our teeth whenever we feel like it and i miss being in a house. i miss sleeping in bed a lot and we did get hotels for like 3 or 4 nights so far. we’re 3 weeks away from moving in but not trying to count down the days. we’ll get furniture prob the week of moving in or something but money been really tight lately. eating out 24/7 has been nasty and really expensive and i’m tired of it. it’s hard being motivated in the gym or in school but i’m still trying. time flying by but not fast enough, trying to enjoy the moment though. appreciate you guys and i love y’all! gonna go try to enjoy my birthday:-)

Original post:I don’t know what to do anymore

I been living with my abusive parents my whole life and lately my girl been staying over here and she’s been getting a glimpse of my mom and dad and how they can be

They finally did too much and disrespected my girl and I’d rather be living in my car than in my parents house for another day. They physically/mentally/emotionally abused me forever and I been holding this s*** in for too long.

We both have a couple thousand saved up and we both work but it’s so hard finding an apartment we like that has any openings asap

I guess I’m just scared and don’t know how long we’re gonna be staying in our cars but I know I need to get out of that abusive house and I love my girlfriend too much to let us stay there another day longer

Chloe Hotleezy

5y

I'M NOT FROM CLEVELAND.

I'm from CINCINNATI, OH.

Damn near 4 hours away from each other.

VizeGuy

5y

My cousin lives in a van with his girlfriend and dog (pitbull) by choice. They said it is enough room for them so maybe you can also think about that as an option (if not now than later).

Hope you get out of there soon OP

ANIME

5y

What type of household, Asian? Hispanic? White?

Chloe Hotleezy

5y

I'M NOT FROM CLEVELAND.

I'm from CINCINNATI, OH.

Damn near 4 hours away from each other.

freekodak

5y

Sleep in the car bro. Not to be a one upper but I've lived in shelters and literally slept in fields outside churches. Now I rent my own room in a real house.

You gonna be right @op things will work out day by day small goal by small goal. Plus you have your girl by your side.

My story is not to put you down. I'm saying you have the tools you can do it bro. Sleeping in the car sucks. But get a cheap gym membership and chill at walmart. I believe in you 🤎🤎🤎

Kub

5y

It’s too late I’m already 2 hours away from you

Get the wine out

Smacked Voodoo

5y

I've slept/lived in my car for a bit. Honestly it's not that bad, it's all about finding the right parking lots, or maybe parking in front of a friend's place. That hardest part was finding a place to shower and s***.

It's always best to get away from abusive parents forreal so don't stress out about having to sleep in your car if it means avoiding them. Do what you gotta do, stack up some money and find a place to stay away from them so you're not always in the car.

proper

5y

a friend who will let you park and sleep in your car in front his place but won’t let you crash on the couch

Kub

5y

White smh (fuck white people)

genghiskharti

5y

They probably live with their parents

proper

5y

I know I’m just making a joke

Kub

5y

Just finished up some school stuff at Barnes n noble now on the work grind!

Smacked Voodoo

5y

I've slept/lived in my car for a bit. Honestly it's not that bad, it's all about finding the right parking lots, or maybe parking in front of a friend's place. That hardest part was finding a place to shower and s***.

It's always best to get away from abusive parents forreal so don't stress out about having to sleep in your car if it means avoiding them. Do what you gotta do, stack up some money and find a place to stay away from them so you're not always in the car.