who gives a f***, this happens to everyone time to grow the fuk up kid

Definition of pain

That’s how it works

There’s more than appearance

Tbh I feel where op coming from. I be seeing b****es I went to school w getting married and having kids at like 19-21 and Im in shock.

Like damn we was just in math class the other day and this b**** got a whole baby and husband

How old are you?

Nothing you can do bro

Facts. So many baddies I knew in high school came across my TL saying they're pregnant at like 19-20. It's wild as hell and I feel bad because I know they don't got money like that.

The f*** foes having a kid mean not doing nothing with their life? Check yourself bruh u listen to Tyler the creator ass way too much

Bro you are young asf, chill tf out

This.

It took me a few tries and f*** ups to maintain a 9-5 lifestyle, a marriage, and some few friends.

this sounds like a W bro

S*** I know some people who already got a divorce

1. No need to compare yourself to others we all take different paths at different paces. Life is too uncertain not to enjoy your vices. You shouldn’t feel guilt or anything else, only you know why your situation is what it is and you’re the only person you have something to prove something to.

2. Look at it like this. Most people who have kids have a way of trying to make it seem they’ve matured more than you. Not saying she’s doing this ofc, but you get on social media and you see people go on and on about how hard and expensive life is and they wish they could do this that etc. Circumstances happen, it’s inevitable. But end of the day consensual intercourse is a choice and people who do so made that choice to have kids. if you don’t have kids right now and you don’t have the means to take care of them then you aren’t doing anything wrong. You’re actually being responsible in comparison. Even if you you do have the means, kids don’t make you any more or less mature or in a better stage of life than anyone else.

Yo this situation is crazy. It’s something that I don’t think can be fixed. U needa go find another girl

Listen to MOTM2. It helps.