Mar 15, 2023·2 replies
mr get doughI thought that for a second then realized its ktt and of course it was gonna be a break up thread
Much love to op tho hope u feel better soon
It’s literally not even a break up
Mar 15, 2023
plantsmember since 2023
Bro got a crash course in KTT bedside manner with this one
Mar 15, 2023SmooferIt’s literally not even a break up
In his mind it is
Mar 15, 2023·2 repliesSmooferIt’s literally not even a break up
a lot of times those hurt too. quite simply because the human mind has an ability to think of possible future's and try to work towards them, this is true for careers, relationships, personal goals, whatever.. having all that stripped away from your reality can be... harsh.
- Mar 15, 2023·editedchibuye
a lot of times those hurt too. quite simply because the human mind has an ability to think of possible future's and try to work towards them, this is true for careers, relationships, personal goals, whatever.. having all that stripped away from your reality can be... harsh.
that said @OP there was a girl i liked crazily in highschool who never liked me back and one day recently we met up after years and got to talking and stuff, smoked and f***ed and she was TRASH
then literally a week later she tried to play me because she was convinced i was still in love w/ her 
blocked her ass and moved on
so be careful what you wish for i guess. if you ever do get it, i hope you're able to balance out if the reality is worth all that fuss you've (naturally) built up in your head.
for me, she wasn't, like at all
- Mar 15, 2023·2 replieschibuye
a lot of times those hurt too. quite simply because the human mind has an ability to think of possible future's and try to work towards them, this is true for careers, relationships, personal goals, whatever.. having all that stripped away from your reality can be... harsh.
Ey I mean I understand, I’ve “fallen in love” with girls I never dated. But I also stopped being crushed by it not working out in like high school lmfao
- Mar 15, 2023Smoofer
Ey I mean I understand, I’ve “fallen in love” with girls I never dated. But I also stopped being crushed by it not working out in like high school lmfao
lol i feel you, i feel you
- Mar 15, 2023Mitch Baker
it really hits you another man is getting to do the things you wish you could with her. All while are you imagine what could’ve been and make threads about it on a forums
charge it to the game bro
Mar 15, 2023Lock Summonsyeah bruh everything she did revolved around continuing her professional soccer career. that was her number one priority from day one and she wasnt gonna let anything get in the way of that.
its one of the reasons i respect her so much
Then there’s nothing more to say then to wish her the best
Mar 15, 2023·1 replyutterly pathetic op
- Mar 15, 2023
y’all foul
Mar 15, 2023DEL634I'm sure she's smiling at you from above. Make her proud
Mar 15, 2023·1 replyshe was probably cheating anyway let that girl go live her life
- Mar 15, 2023·3 repliesSir Real
utterly pathetic op
jesus h christ
I'm sorry for sharing my feelings about being sad over someone who I felt close to.
I know this wasn't a romantic relationship, but that doesnt mean I should feel shame about being sad. She was a big part of the program for me and a meaningful connection for me these past few months, even if it was just a friendship and nothing more.
My last roommates before I joined this program were toxic, d*** addicted losers. Having her presence was incredibly refreshing.
I was literally just sharing my story. I'm sorry if that makes yall this angry
- Mar 15, 2023·1 replySmoofer
Ey I mean I understand, I’ve “fallen in love” with girls I never dated. But I also stopped being crushed by it not working out in like high school lmfao
I get it. you dont think I have the right to feel sadness over her going away. Thanks for that
- Mar 15, 2023
Piece of advice from someone who's been posting here for a decade: unless d*** is being inserted into another human, it doesn't count as a relationship on KTT
WINTER 🌨️Mar 15, 2023·editedLock Summonsjesus h christ
I'm sorry for sharing my feelings about being sad over someone who I felt close to.
I know this wasn't a romantic relationship, but that doesnt mean I should feel shame about being sad. She was a big part of the program for me and a meaningful connection for me these past few months, even if it was just a friendship and nothing more.
My last roommates before I joined this program were toxic, d*** addicted losers. Having her presence was incredibly refreshing.
I was literally just sharing my story. I'm sorry if that makes yall this angry
I get you OP
don't let some of these guys get to you, i've been in a similar position as you before too, it's best to just minimize it in your head to get over it, don't make it out to be more than what it was, i know that sucks to hear,also coming from a place of non judgement, it seems to me that you romanticized the situation much more than she had, which will end up getting you hurt usually
Mar 15, 2023
KFAAlright OP, cool and all but Ima try to keep it short. I joined an internship program last August that ends in June. Part of the program is having 4 interns stay in a house funded by the program and we are designated to various non profits.
I became very close with a girl in this program. We connected pretty quickly, especially since we were the two who seemed to really put forth an effort for the group activities and such.
I had moved to a new city, and she was the first person here who I felt truly comfortable with. Easily the closest person I had in the area.
Well...she is a soccer player. Played in college and was trying to continue to play professionally. She broke the news to me a few weeks ago that her agent was working on a contract for her to play in Finland. A week or so later, the contract was a done deal and she literally left within the week.
I'm happy for her. I know this is her dream, and I fully support her, but I didn't think it would happen so fast and so far away. I have 3 months left of this program with her empty room across from mine being reminded of her.
I told her how I felt about her before she left. I didn't get mushy with it. Just said how much I have enjoyed spending time with her and I hope we can keep in touch. She agreed, and said she plans to come back in the future and wants to see me again. I also left her a note saying shes always welcome to hmu about anything and I'm always happy to hear from her.
Despite the kind words and good talks before she left, I don't expect anything. The future is definitely uncertain, and who knows what could happen. It's been really tough. I've felt really depressed and it almost feels like I'm grieving over a death. I know she's obviously alive, but it's the death of an everyday close connection we shared in this house and this program.
It also doesn't help that im still not certain what ill do after this program ends or where Ill be. I'm a fresh college graduate trying to find my first real job. And the uncertainty of that mixed with missing her feels like a lot at times.
Ima keep soldiering on. We will always be friends, but damn man...this has been tough.these will always make me laugh
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- Mar 16, 2023Lock Summons
I get it. you dont think I have the right to feel sadness over her going away. Thanks for that
Whiny ass
Mar 16, 2023·1 replyLock SummonsIma try to keep it short. I joined an internship program last August that ends in June. Part of the program is having 4 interns stay in a house funded by the program and we are designated to various non profits.
I became very close with a girl in this program. We connected pretty quickly, especially since we were the two who seemed to really put forth an effort for the group activities and such.
I had moved to a new city, and she was the first person here who I felt truly comfortable with. Easily the closest person I had in the area.
Well...she is a soccer player. Played in college and was trying to continue to play professionally. She broke the news to me a few weeks ago that her agent was working on a contract for her to play in Finland. A week or so later, the contract was a done deal and she literally left within the week.
I'm happy for her. I know this is her dream, and I fully support her, but I didn't think it would happen so fast and so far away. I have 3 months left of this program with her empty room across from mine being reminded of her.
I told her how I felt about her before she left. I didn't get mushy with it. Just said how much I have enjoyed spending time with her and I hope we can keep in touch. She agreed, and said she plans to come back in the future and wants to see me again. I also left her a note saying shes always welcome to hmu about anything and I'm always happy to hear from her.
Despite the kind words and good talks before she left, I don't expect anything. The future is definitely uncertain, and who knows what could happen. It's been really tough. I've felt really depressed and it almost feels like I'm grieving over a death. I know she's obviously alive, but it's the death of an everyday close connection we shared in this house and this program.
It also doesn't help that im still not certain what ill do after this program ends or where Ill be. I'm a fresh college graduate trying to find my first real job. And the uncertainty of that mixed with missing her feels like a lot at times.
Ima keep soldiering on. We will always be friends, but damn man...this has been tough.
damn OP
Looks like you might be experiencing what is called "oneitis". I've suffered from similar mental delusions in the past as well.This woman is one of many. Don't lose faith that you can find someone new. When she returns, you and her can try to spark something up if you're both still single but I would not recommend waiting for someone who's gonna be living in Finland and has the schedule of a full time athlete. my advice is to not rush into something new to pretend that you've moved on but try to stop thinking of her so much.
I truly feel for you but its no use kicking yourself over a bag you fumbled. at least you have a sliver of a chance. The chick I had a similar situation w/ in HS got engaged last year & when I saw it on Instagram that s*** made me sick.
Don't be like me
you can be sad for some time but remember that your life means more than romance
- Mar 16, 2023·1 replyLock Summons
jesus h christ
I'm sorry for sharing my feelings about being sad over someone who I felt close to.
I know this wasn't a romantic relationship, but that doesnt mean I should feel shame about being sad. She was a big part of the program for me and a meaningful connection for me these past few months, even if it was just a friendship and nothing more.
My last roommates before I joined this program were toxic, d*** addicted losers. Having her presence was incredibly refreshing.
I was literally just sharing my story. I'm sorry if that makes yall this angry
sometimes the intimacy and trust makes you so attached, even when it's a woman you're determined to keep as a platonic friend. you can catch feels even w/o wanting s***or anything. before you realize it you feel like you're in a relationship
- Mar 16, 2023whippet volverse
sometimes the intimacy and trust makes you so attached, even when it's a woman you're determined to keep as a platonic friend. you can catch feels even w/o wanting s***or anything. before you realize it you feel like you're in a relationship
Yeah it can happen. We connected within the boundaries of the program.
For the record I don’t think I fumbled anything. I believe I handled it just right under the conditions.
A fumble would be pushing too hard and making s*** weird.
Also one of my other roommates is incredibly sweet. Right after she left she asked if I needed a hug lol. I guess she saw something there too.
Pps I don’t intend to wait on her at all. Never once did that cross my mind.
Mar 16, 2023Yup, it's crazy bro. jus gotta hang in there
- Mar 16, 2023·2 repliesLock Summons
jesus h christ
I'm sorry for sharing my feelings about being sad over someone who I felt close to.
I know this wasn't a romantic relationship, but that doesnt mean I should feel shame about being sad. She was a big part of the program for me and a meaningful connection for me these past few months, even if it was just a friendship and nothing more.
My last roommates before I joined this program were toxic, d*** addicted losers. Having her presence was incredibly refreshing.
I was literally just sharing my story. I'm sorry if that makes yall this angry
Site bitter and miserable dawg u not wrong for feeling how you felt let alone sharing it
