Yeah I don't think I could fully get the point across if I tried.

And ive rushed into s***enough to know that it ruins a real connection. And I wanted to do it right this time.

Just so happens we didnt have enough time

Okay looking at the situation with this new info and you actually played your cards well
But next time remember, you gotta be bolder

yeah bruh everything she did revolved around continuing her professional soccer career. that was her number one priority from day one and she wasnt gonna let anything get in the way of that.

its one of the reasons i respect her so much

maybe i could have done more. But i think I did enough.

I get you OP but you can't dismiss every opinion you don't like, this guy actually has a point
No matter the situation 10 months is more than enough time to get things going

well we did get things going in our own way. We spent a lot of time together, bonded, and connected.

Situations like this really weigh on your heart man I have been there. You’ll feel better soon

aint no way op becomes a big enough deal to her in 10mos that she hangs up the cleats, and he's not dropping his s*** to tag along to finland

it was what it was

these kids actin like all there is to connection is to plug it in smh

Was that in the original post? I dunno, I didn't read it -- BUT you handled it TOO delicately.

Coulda even got creative -- accidently stumble in the broom closet with her like "oh s*** how we get in here? And the door locked too omg"

You're a good kid it's best to think of it as finished but who knows maybe she will have horrific soccer injury early on that will send her straight back.home

I'm actually laughing out loud at how ridiculous that sounds lol

Listen to this @op

Perfect “the one that got away” music

Holding hands and all that cute s*** but did you hit that p**** tho?

I dont think she plans to stay there forever. She said she likes this area and hopes ill be around. She knows im applying to jobs in different areas too.

I hope it turns out that we reconnect but i wouldnt turn down a job opportunity in a cool location like she wouldnt turn this down

no I didnt hit that p****

thank you my friend

There was more I just f***ing killed myself :jordanlaff3:

Be like "oh 😯 is that my d*** on you?"

s***was a huge deal to me back when i was younger. it validated everything about a connection with a woman for me. but then i realized that rushing that s*** always ruined the connection.

it's a lesson that took me years to learn. im not surprised that ppl are putting so much emphasis on it.

The way the entire situation was set up, and who we both were/where we were at in our lives, we just took s*** slow

falling and landing with my face between her b**** like in the animes

i mean depending on where op is on the globe maybe she really is "above"