Last year my stepsister became a liberated child at 17. Should I continue to see her? Is it a moral thing to do to take similar action as an adult?

My sister has been talking about it for a long time before she went through with it. In the legal process she said a lot of s*** that I didn’t recognise in my family but I don’t want to get into all of that malarkey I just moved along and got my bag.

My parents were mostly mad with her over her smoking weed. They put her in therapy and juvenile detention but things don’t always go according to plan.

I still chill with her maybe five times a week while still living with my dad and they say they feel uncomfortable about it knowing her past behaviour.

I just feel like she’s still my sister and I don’t want to get involved with their bullshit. They are Christian but I can’t go along with all that. And altogether it’s pushing us apart to a degree where I might just cut it clean. What should I do KTT2?

why ur parents have a problem with you seeing ur sibling as an adult

her problems were with them and not u

she got her s*** together, like a job or school?

op seeing his sister

You should ask yourself this question you know your parents and sister better than anyone on here would.

Idk but imagine disowning a family member because they like reefer

are you looking to leave your parents too?

You should continue to see her as long as you wish and your parents hopefully shouldn't shame you for it.

its weird that your parents are uncomfortable with y'all hanging out tbh

Despite her weed habit, I feel like she was probably a bit accurate in their criticisms of them, and they may not want you listening to her so they can still have a grip on you, they probably feel closer to you because you don't have as many problems w/ them as your sister

Not the weed, OP!

Better question is why are you cool with your parents when they clearly did some insane s*** to your sister? They don’t just let a minor separate from their parents unless they were doing some borderline if not outright abusive stuff

Your parents are wild

you should see if you can talk with your parents and introduce them to some nuance. has to be tough growing up in a family where seemingly blind faith in religion drives emotional decision making. sorry that you have to go through this op.

Dysfunctional families turn out dysfunctional adults who start dysfunctional families who turn out dysfunctional adults who start …etc

be a good sibling bro, it's bad enough her relationship with your parents are estranged, you guys aren't even adults yet and you should value the time together before you guys start getting caught up in adult life

You might not rock with the christian beliefs too much but unless they're immediately threatening upon you then just rock w/ them and explain that you have no personal qualms w/ your sis, unlike them

Both you and your sister need to turn back to your parentts and back to God.

Shes your sister and you have a good bond. Yes you should continue to see her despite what your parents say. Im not a parent but encouraging a divide between your children over something so trivial is ridiculous and selfish.

Don't throw your sister out because your rents are christ f***ers

Trust me you will regret that heavy