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  • OP
    Aug 18, 2022
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    frenchpress

    is the hour commute from the condo or from ur parents'?

    Hour commute is from my moms house

  • Aug 18, 2022

    That’s wack af of your roommate but id probably just rough it out and start looking for a new place for january + a sublet. definitely put your foot down about certain issues and don’t feel like you’re intruding because that’s your place too

  • WINTER 🌨️
    Aug 18, 2022
    Oak

    I don’t think so… ButI do know he wants me to sign a year long lease tomorrow but my family saying don’t do it.

    Man that's such a huge red flag

  • Aug 18, 2022

    I mean if she's contributing to rent (not her bf's portion but independently) then it can save you some bread

    Try to establish some sort of ground rules or boundaries on how y'all share the common spaces

    It's probably your best current option vs trying to find a place in a short window but if you're gonna be uncomfortable

  • WINTER 🌨️
    Aug 18, 2022
    ABCDEF

    Why? Screenless jerk off material. Just close your eyes and pretend you’re the one making her moan like that.

  • Aug 18, 2022
    Oak

    Hour commute is from my moms house

    realistically how long do u think it'd take u to find a new place to get a sublease for

    cus commuting to campus is ass n just generally that detachment from campus life lowkey sucks unless ur school dont really got much of a campus life. i dunno UVA so maybe that wouldnt be a big deal

    for sure the situation is awkward n not desirable espc if y'alls place is only designed for 2 people. but if u can get a sublease for a new place within a couple months then it mite be worth stayin near school

  • Aug 18, 2022
    ABCDEF

    Why? Screenless jerk off material. Just close your eyes and pretend you’re the one making her moan like that.

  • Aug 18, 2022
  • OP
    Aug 18, 2022
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    hoodbya1r

    was gonna say this is a potential "plus"-- is she also a student?

    don't think that's worth the inevitable tension tho. one of the worst feeling's in the world is having anxiety/awkwardness in your living space. Especially when you're paying rent for it.

    Home should always be your comfort zone/safe space. May start off manageable but trust the tension will start building up when you factor in bad habits/schedule conflicts/noise/fridge stuff/dishes/partying etc etc. Someone said it earlier but def nip this in the bud ASAP vs letting it rock

    Both of them are computer science majors in the school of engineering. They’re also rising fourth years

  • Aug 18, 2022

    Bro's an a******

  • Aug 18, 2022
    Oak

    Both of them are computer science majors in the school of engineering. They’re also rising fourth years

    oh they aint even f***in then king u good

  • Aug 18, 2022

    trash situation tbh hope you figure it out

  • OP
    Aug 18, 2022

    No, I want to visit tho

  • Aug 18, 2022
    space0cadet

    Why is this bad. Maybe she will be cool

  • Aug 18, 2022
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    Is your mum the one that bought an expensive pet chicken

    Wouldn’t take anything she has to say into account tbh

  • Aug 18, 2022

    trust yourself @op

  • Aug 18, 2022

    Cock block him

  • OP
    Aug 18, 2022
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    I also appreciate all of you guys responding to this thread. Now it's down to making a decision.

  • OP
    Aug 18, 2022
    NakedBalenciaga

    Is your mum the one that bought an expensive pet chicken

    Wouldn’t take anything she has to say into account tbh

    She did buy the bird but my mom is also very smart in other areas. Her finances may be shot but we all have our flaws

  • ABCDEF

    Why? Screenless jerk off material. Just close your eyes and pretend you’re the one making her moan like that.

    Genius

  • Aug 18, 2022
    afterimage

    I mean you should do whatever you want

    If you don’t want to live with another person then talk to your roommate, if y’all can’t resolve it or he doesn’t make her leave then find somewhere else to stay

    Unless you don’t mind. Those r really ur only two options ur gonna be the one living there not us

    Always funny seeing the most logical answer get dropped first page

    Cause u know mfs don’t want an answer, just wanna vent Lmaoo

  • Aug 18, 2022

    Life is too short to be in situations u don’t feel comfortable in especially when u have a clear choice

  • OP
    Aug 18, 2022
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    afterimage

    I mean you should do whatever you want

    If you don’t want to live with another person then talk to your roommate, if y’all can’t resolve it or he doesn’t make her leave then find somewhere else to stay

    Unless you don’t mind. Those r really ur only two options ur gonna be the one living there not us

    There's no talking through this. He just moved her in without asking and made us meet just to make sure I got along with her. Plus his old roommate moved out and he won't tell me why 🤔

  • Aug 18, 2022
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    you know what to do, OP.