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  • Jan 28, 2024
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    beflygelt

    shoutout this thread for the herpes awareness I def did not know it's that common

    I’ll be half of the blokes who told me to run away from her itt probably have it

  • Jan 28, 2024

    She trapped you bro. I’m sorry

  • Jan 28, 2024
    spongebob

    HsV just stand for

    Happiness & Superb Vibes

    blessings king

  • Jan 28, 2024
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    beflygelt

    shoutout this thread for the herpes awareness I def did not know it's that common

    I appreciate the awareness as well, however, just because its common don't mean this is a good thing and op needs to be responsible and tell every future partner he has herpies

    hope you feel better op but i dont appreciate the casualness around some of the post on this page

  • Jan 28, 2024
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    Ghoma

    UPDATE:

    Got back together with her shortly after breaking up and continued dating. Took the test back in December, keep in mind this is PRIOR to sex.

    Turns out I tested positive for HSV-1, assuming I had this since childhood and again, my GF got the exact same strain but in different location.

    Guess we’re chillin then lol, and f*** all yall naysayers ITT. Looking back I was close to ending this relationship over nothing

    There's no chance at all you got it from her? She didn't give you head or something?

  • Jan 28, 2024
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    RIZGOD

    There's no chance at all you got it from her? She didn't give you head or something?

    She got it down there, and I have it around my mouth (zero symptoms tho). She gave me head multiple times prior to testing but it wasn’t possible to catch it from that in our case lol.

    I very well could’ve either had it from childhood, ex-wife, or random encounters from several women

  • Jan 28, 2024
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    Lamar

    I appreciate the awareness as well, however, just because its common don't mean this is a good thing and op needs to be responsible and tell every future partner he has herpies

    hope you feel better op but i dont appreciate the casualness around some of the post on this page

    The doctor I spoke to said I’m not obligated to disclose it lmao, especially if I have zero symptoms

  • Jan 28, 2024
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    Ghoma

    I’ll be half of the blokes who told me to run away from her itt probably have it

    congrats btw sounds like you found a keeper to me tbh, as much as this was a headfuck she's v real for having the integrity to tell u. integrity and honesty go a long way in relationships

    and I guess this was the best thing that could've happened to resolve it also ❤️

  • Jan 28, 2024
    Ghoma

    No biggie, keep in mind I’m completely asymptomatic and 80% of the world population has it

    honestly yeah you won

  • Jan 28, 2024
    spongebob

    HsV just stand for

    Happiness & Superb Vibes

    blessings king

  • Jan 28, 2024
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    beflygelt

    congrats btw sounds like you found a keeper to me tbh, as much as this was a headfuck she's v real for having the integrity to tell u. integrity and honesty go a long way in relationships

    and I guess this was the best thing that could've happened to resolve it also ❤️

    Thanks

    She’s someone who’s very understanding and sweet all around, also shoutout to her for disclosing it before taking it further. Very happy with her, and personally I couldn’t ask for a better partner

    Lots of weight lifted off our shoulders and now for once we can feel like this would be a normal relationship.

  • Jan 28, 2024
    Ghoma

    The doctor I spoke to said I’m not obligated to disclose it lmao, especially if I have zero symptoms

    you better hope that drs also a damn lawyer

  • Jan 28, 2024

    I’m happy for you but also sorry that happened

  • Jan 28, 2024

    Crazy update

  • If she fine af and you like her, who cares

  • Jan 28, 2024
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    Ghoma

    She got it down there, and I have it around my mouth (zero symptoms tho). She gave me head multiple times prior to testing but it wasn’t possible to catch it from that in our case lol.

    I very well could’ve either had it from childhood, ex-wife, or random encounters from several women

    Did ya ever makeout?

  • Jan 28, 2024
    Oblivion X

    Did ya ever makeout?

    Yea? Obviously

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  • Jan 28, 2024

    i could take some lessons in maturity from this thread

  • Jan 28, 2024
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    Damn this is one of my worst nightmares

    I got burned with sphyllis and chlamydia last year and was SHOOK about hiv

  • Jan 28, 2024

    Ooou boy

  • Jan 28, 2024
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    Try to accept the shame OP in the sense of needing to learn by consequence of being more careful and valuing your health/safety more — this is what helped me not be too mentally bogged by this

  • Jan 28, 2024
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    OP did you test for anything else

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    Birdie 2

    Damn this is one of my worst nightmares

    I got burned with sphyllis and chlamydia last year and was SHOOK about hiv

    man step back and scout the battlefield first

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